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Dats a cheap line men use in wooing girls after they are married. I see dating a married man as sowing seeds of unhappiness in a home that I wld reap in my own home in d long run.

Lie lie!

@poster
if thats how this man feels about the state of his marriage then he should FIRST try to solve the problem by divorcing his wife AND THEN play the field.
cheating on his partner is definitely not going to solve the problem at hands

iyatrustee:

Dats a cheap line men use in wooing girls after they are married. I see dating a married man as sowing seeds of unhappiness in a home that I wld reap in my own home in d long run.

Yeah, u 're right, cus he wasn't blind before he took the lady to the altar,

Whats wrong is that you will get your butt kicked when you are found out.
Now think properly before answering.
DO YOU WANT THAT?

Answer to the question is YES

pussiedick:

Is it a crime to date a married man that claims he aint enjoying his marriage cus he noticed immediately after he sealed it up wit his wife that he has no true feelings for her?






_{Pls, don't attack me ooo, i'm not the concubine, lol.}

CAN U JUST LISTEN TO YOURSELF, HOW CAN HE TELL YOU THAT HE NOTICED HE HAD NO FEELINGS AFTER HE SEALED IT WITH HIS WIFE, DONT WORRY WEN U GUYS GET SEALED TOO, HE WOULD REALIZE HE MET YOU ON THE STREET

Nottin s wrong in datin married men so long his hm s still very much intact

I am not saying it to you OP but I am speaking in general.  

For the ladies that ARE dating married men or thinks that it is not a problem dating married men:  If the shoe was on the other foot how would YOU feel if someone was dating YOUR HUSBAND?

For the boys that ARE dating married women or thinks that it is not a problem dating married men: If the shoe was on the other foot WOULD YOU knowingly tapped a woman that ANOTHER man taps on A REGULAR basis AND how would you feel if someone was dating YOUR WIFE?

I rest my case, your honor.

Everything is wrong in dating a married man, haba!!!mana!!!!

Hi Nairaland, i am new to this site and i want some help from my Naira people. I am a 27yr living in canada, Jamaican background. Currently in a relationship with a Nigerina man for 3yrs now. when we met he said that he has a babymother and one child, and that he has a step daughter ( babymothers daughter ) they have a house together and which he says that he is unhappy with her and wants his own. he does not do anything for a living other then the 419 , during this 3yr relationship, he has gone away to jail in which i waited for him. ( i know i was wrong for taking another woman's man, but he said he is not happy at home. ) he cam out and i gave him 6mth to get his self together. I fixed a resume for him assisted him to look for jobs, even got him into going to church. we now go every sunday together. at the beginning of our relationship he never use to spend nights with me only the days then come to realise that he must still be in a relationship with this woman. finally he caught her ( the babymother) cheating on him and now he clams he is all mine. he said that we are going to move in together and start something. now that it is
time for us to move in he is telling me he needs to get his own place so that his child does not feel out of place??/ oh i have not yet met his child. Nope and we been together for 3yrs now. i have spoken to his mother who is living in Nigeria, and according to him she asks about me frequently. i guess what i want to know is , is this guy really for real about us or is he playing games?

Oh wow.

Trust me as a typical naija man, that dude is nothing but a scam. He'll break ur heart so u better don't listen otherwise. Bolt while u still can

Kiyra:

Hi Nairaland, i am new to this site and i want some help from my Naira people. I am a 27yr living in canada, Jamaican background. Currently in a relationship with a Nigerina man for 3yrs now. when we met he said that he has a babymother and one child, and that he has a step daughter ( babymothers daughter ) they have a house together and which he says that he is unhappy with her and wants his own. he does not do anything for a living other then the 419 , during this 3yr relationship, he has gone away to jail in which i waited for him. ( i know i was wrong for taking another woman's man, but he said he is not happy at home. ) he cam out and i gave him 6mth to get his self together. I fixed a resume for him assisted him to look for jobs, even got him into going to church. we now go every sunday together. at the beginning of our relationship he never use to spend nights with me only the days then come to realise that he must still be in a relationship with this woman. finally he caught her ( the babymother) cheating on him and now he clams he is all mine. he said that we are going to move in together and start something. now that it is
time for us to move in he is telling me he needs to get his own place so that his child does not feel out of place??/ oh i have not yet met his child. Nope and we been together for 3yrs now. i have spoken to his mother who is living in Nigeria, and according to him she asks about me frequently. i guess what i want to know is , is this guy really for real about us or is he playing games?

pack your bags and run for your life, relocate yourself. he is a sinner

@ topic

married men also get broke too.

Dont always assume someone is rich just because you think he has to be.

Everybody always looking for the easy way out and nobody wants to be satisfied or uncovetous.

O ga.

Best thing to do is know that he is free so that it would not be a problem in the future, and most men uses those line a lot to get some pussys.

@Kiyra
you were just a means to an end.
this guy clearly was using you as a side coochie. think about it for a minute: if he NOW is all yours because he caught his baby mama cheating then that means that they were really much a couple and he had no plans on leaving her. NOW that she made the move of getting rid of him, he "suddenly" is all yours.

and to make matters worse, you never met his daughter in 3whole yrs. . . . . . .of course you didnt, because if you did, his gf would know and all hell would break loose at home.

he sweet talked you for 3 whole yrs to "wait" but now that he is free, he still dont want to be fully yours. lol
i suggest you RUN while you can!

pussiedick:

Is it a crime to [b]date a married man that claims he aint enjoying his marriage cus he noticed immediately after he sealed it up wit his wife that he has no true feelings for her?

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he will also say same thing about u after sealing it up, beware!

its wrong!!

I agree so beware and be careful on trusting people.

Everything is wrong dating a married man! And if you fall for the "I'm not happy in my relationship" wait and talk to his wife when she catches you!! She'll have been told that you were trying to steal him, couldn't live without him, wouldn't leave him alone or simply that you're crazy and a liar! Stay away!! Married people got married!! go find a single person!!