What’s your take?

Open relationship is bliss! Complete freedom from nagging partners who spend all day preaching the "love" gospel, it's sickening to hear this rubbish all day and all night. Open relationship also helps to relieve the boredom of staying with one partner, why should I spend my whole life with just one lady when there are over 3 billion on the planet?!
How can a man/woman eat only egusi soup all his life when ogbono, okro, e.t.c. are widely available for consumption? It's not rocket science, is it?!

Hmmm

What we have in Nigeria is FWB (Friends with benefits).

I tried it 2yrs ago and trust me it was fun. But, for the guys, u have to be endowed (pocket, handsome etc)to be into open relationship if not your partner would be leading the you on the fun race lol. . At a point my babe got a lil bit jealous and we had to cancel the open relationship deal. . But I really had fun uncountable 3somes *winks*

I guess open marriage is good too huh?

Yeah iiiiiii guesss. . Why don't you try it with master Chima

REALITY101:

I tried it 2yrs ago and trust me it was fun. But, for the guys, u have to be endowed (pocket, handsome etc)to be into open relationship if not your partner would be leading the you on the fun race lol. . At a point my babe got a lil bit jealous and we had to cancel the open relationship deal. . But I really had fun uncountable 3somes *winks*

  only u na badt guyz 

but seriously, i think maybe u were jst both ban.gmates, no?

@cuddlemii, workaholics or ppl whose jobs make them travel alot and for long may not exactly call it fwb
@inkednerd were u ever in one?

open relationship == friendship + sex

If she's not your wife, call her boo, girlfriend or whatever na fck mate she be

REALITY101:

Yeah iiiiiii guesss. . Why don't you try it with master Chima

Why don't you try these nuts? Everybody ain't into trifliness. I will leave it to the masters.

Please. . Just shut up

I jst so much love d idea
every of my rel r mostly open
lyk do ur thing wyl i do mine
fun at its best

That's why I . . . .

Cm ere n give me dat kiss
missed it all dude

I'm on my menses

We know and YOU STFU!

So Mr. Chima has told u?

Yes. He said you wears the maxi pads with super wings.

[color=#770077][/color] A year after my break up with my ex, I met someone, quite younger than me and I decided we had an 'open relationship' cuz common sense told me a proper relationship would not lead anywhere.

Now, 3 months on, its obvious he's seeing other people (even though he is thoroughly denying this) and its killing me. I have decided to let go of the 'relationship' and move on. But one thing I can say for sure is i DID not realise how much I had fallen for him till I let go. Its been just days after I made this decision and i feel soooo empty, 10x worse than I did after I broke up with my ex after a 5 yr relationship.

I have now accepted Im one of the most jealous ppl around. I wanted him all for myself even though my mouth was saying different, and even though I knew it would lead no where.

So, in essence, from a slightly experienced point of view; the OP is 100% right, if u are the emotional, jealous or insecure type, an open relationship is a definite no-no.

so what can you say about a girl with a boyfriend who goes behind his back having sex withr his best friend,his brother and even his dad.can u call that one an open relationship or just backyard runs? ;
u know naija girls are only good in the backyard runs racket

I think it's cool: Xperienced one b4.  Enjoyed it while it lasted. Thou it's for matured folks

-u may both agree that calling each other every minute is not necessary
-financial obligations are minimal
-its ok if u both decide that you may be seeing other people,
-(100%) emotional commitment is not necessary

Just like a banging mate!  the best i ever had

*SteLette*:

[color=#770077][/color] A year after my break up with my ex, I met someone, quite younger than me and I decided we had an 'open relationship' cuz common sense told me a proper relationship would not lead anywhere.

Now, 3 months on, its obvious he's seeing other people (even though he is thoroughly denying this) and its killing me. I have decided to let go of the 'relationship' and move on. But one thing I can say for sure is i DID not realise how much I had fallen for him till I let go. Its been just days after I made this decision and i feel soooo empty, 10x worse than I did after I broke up with my ex after a 5 yr relationship.

I have now accepted Im one of the most jealous ppl around. I wanted him all for myself even though my mouth was saying different, and even though I knew it would lead no where.

So, in essence, from a slightly experienced point of view; the OP is 100% right, if u are the emotional, jealous or insecure type, an open relationship is a definite no-no.

Hey *SteLette*, seems like the open loop thingy doesn't work for u either. . .can we start a relationship with a closed-loop path now?

I think open relationship is really nice and yes its not for jealous, emotional or insecure people.

which one be open relationship again? SMH

ijcurt:

which one be open relationship again? SMH

as a happening naija chick u should know what it means na
when your boyfriend allows his best friend to shag u or u and your friend have a party with your boyfriend its what its called an open relationhship

What about semi-open Relationship

There need not be sex in an open relationship so not all guys or babes get that kind of fun in an open rship.

na wich one come be semi open relationship sef
its either u let a guy bang your girlfriend while you watch or you dont let him at all