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Reasons You Should Never FORCE A Relationship On A Lady / Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy / I Refused To Let Him Take His New Babe To My House To Sleep With. (2) (3) (4)
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| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 7:16am On Jun 16, 2012 |
rokiatu: Yes I am a guy ooo. And the Nairaland name is a pseudonym. Winks winks........ |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Cleverley(m): 7:27am On Jun 16, 2012 |
Hmmmm people! |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by bayoola(m): 8:04am On Jun 16, 2012 |
onila:exactly, u av spoken well |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Andrew3(m): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2012 |
lmaooo @attached to you, for better for worse  |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Jaykizz(m): 9:40am On Jun 16, 2012 |
bennyraz: Wen u gv birth, kan u adv ur female child or evn ur younger sister to b bleepin guys around? Or kan u evn brng guyz to ur house to sleep wit dem? If nt den u r a BLOODY HYPOCRITE N U NID TO B BOOKD. Onila I respekt virgins a lot. Jst continu to b 1 til d ryt guy puts d ring into ur finger n u'l knw au secure u her wit ur hobby coz he'l neva 4 once tink u'l b sleepin around wit ur boss at d off. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 9:56am On Jun 16, 2012 |
Ranti Fadahunsi:my daughter will be free to decide what she wants when she is old enough whether to b sexualy active or otherwise. I don't detest virgins i just don't place a value on it. Ur being a virgin will not make me want u if u lack good manners nd stop paintin nonvirgins as indisciplined or lose. what does sex have to do with discipline. A lose girl is one with multiple sx partners nd unhealthy sexual attitudes like not usin contraceptives. U can be a nonvirgin nd be more disciplined. Its just like sayin because too much sugar causes pile u now say sugar is bad. Dude d only way u can win dis argument is to use religion nd culture, and both are created by human beings. 1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 10:04am On Jun 16, 2012 |
rokiatu:getting a gal disvirgined often starts this way. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 10:08am On Jun 16, 2012 |
Lordy lord see tradition messin with ppl's minds. But ppl thought women wearin trousers is bad until someone changed d idea. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by OILOFGLADNESS: 10:34am On Jun 16, 2012 |
Ranti Fadahunsi: Abegi, what is with the virgin, non-virgin thingy? Virgins are people who have placed a value on themselves and will not allow just any silly guy to deposit their Fluid inside them, put them at risk of contracting STDs, or spending the last 2 days before their period wondering if one silly guy has gotten them pregnant and they have to go for abortions because the silly guy will either deny the pregnancy or deny his responsibility. Virgins are people who VALUE their body and peace of mind ABOVE 5 minutes of pleasure. If you have a problem with that, then please don't go near them. There are many of us guys who respect such ladies that respect themselves (we know that they most probably have no STDs, have not done any abortions and they are disciplined people that can withstand peer pressure and remain principled. Sleeping with a virgin is not a difficult thing of done at the right time (after you have put a ring on it). And it is a wonderful thing for the guy and the babe. Afterall, non-virgins were once virgins!!!! Please, if you have any inferiority complex because you cannot discipline yourself (only animals have no ability to discipline themselves and want to Be Intimate every time they are in the mood), then go find girls/guys that fit into your shoes and stop disrespecting virtuous virgins!!!! Pshewwwww!!!!! Ranti you have said it all, love you for this. thank God that there is few of you who believe that virgin exist and cherish them, huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg! 1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Nobody: 10:43am On Jun 16, 2012 |
ayosmiles: getting a gal disvirgined often starts this way. You sound dumb dude. Don't quote me next time and say something dumb like this thank you. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Nobody: 10:45am On Jun 16, 2012 |
ayosmiles: my daughter will be free to decide what she wants when she is old enough whether to b sexualy active or otherwise. I don't detest virgins i just don't place a value on it. Ur being a virgin will not make me want u if u lack good manners nd stop paintin nonvirgins as indisciplined or lose. what does sex have to do with discipline. A lose girl is one with multiple sx partners nd unhealthy sexual attitudes like not usin contraceptives. U can be a nonvirgin nd be more disciplined. Its just like sayin because too much sugar causes pile u now say sugar is bad. Dude d only way u can win dis argument is to use religion nd culture, and both are created by human beings.Ayosmiles as said it all... @ranti why will I specifically tell my children or daughter to engage in pre marital sex...I have no business in doing that. If they get pregnant b4 18 the blame lies directly on me becos they r constantly under my roof and under my care. And whatever baggage she brings into the house in the name of a teenage pregnancy will be my responsibility too. When a child is under your care as a parent you're expected to make decisions that will secure their future. But once a child is leaving home for the tertiary institution they are basically on their own as u cnt be there all the time... So the onus lies on me to teach them the effect and consequences of their actions while they are under my care. If she is sleeping with her bf as long as she doesn't get and STD pregnant or it doesn't stop her schooling ow will I knw. And if she wants to follow religion or culture and abstain frm pre marital sex...It's also her choice. I'm actually referring to 'her' a lot becos it is women that r most affected. It is she dat will get pregnant. It is she that will stop her schooling or go under the knife for an abortion that may destroy her womb. Are u trying to tell us that they r no virtueuos non virgin women that are everything a particular man wishes for? Or that non virgin women find it difficult to marry. Those r the things that are important. Unless ofcourse u want to involve religion and culture in the issue. But analytically it's no different as long as her womb is not spoilt or she has not had a son b4 marrying or an STI. Plus pple change. Life is abt choices. So..... |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 16, 2012 |
@ayosmiles...U're a very smart person and I like that. Would love to knw u more. @rokiatu...and that is nothing but the truth. You become friends, u fall in love, emotions run high and b4 u knw it u're kissing cuddlin and may end up going all the way. That is the way it happens. One girl once told me she was a virgin. She was thinking I will clap for her or give her standing ovation or something. I didn't even say anything. She now told me she is Hot and wants to do it with her bf. I told her two things 1. If u're a christian and u want to follow religion it is against christianity i.e premarital sex. So u cnt do it. 2. If u're going to do it and bone religion, dnt get pregnant or catch an STI. Unless u want to do an abortion which cn damage ur womb becos u're still in school. So the thing is nw left for her to pick her choice. 1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by onila(f): 11:08am On Jun 16, 2012 |
its a sin 2 have sex before marriage  1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 12:11pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
onila: its a sin 2 have sex before marriagethats because u are a christian dumbass. Not everyone follows that. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by stevo531(m): 12:22pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
!!..Ṁ̭̥̈̅̄ṁ̭̥̈̅̄н☀('.._..')☀нṁ̭̥̈̅̄Ṁ̭̥̈̅̄ ..!!... S☺ this thread is still trending |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by stevo531(m): 12:26pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
onila: its a sin 2 have sex before marriageIts human to sin, although that doesn't make it alright, but... |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by lawmercy: 1:29pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Do what thou wilt. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 3:41pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Jaykizz: Thanks jare. Tired of all these bloody hypocrites talking down on virtuous ladies out there. 1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 3:53pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
ayosmiles: my daughter will be free to decide what she wants when she is old enough whether to b sexualy active or otherwise. I don't detest virgins i just don't place a value on it. Ur being a virgin will not make me want u if u lack good manners nd stop paintin nonvirgins as indisciplined or lose. what does sex have to do with discipline. A lose girl is one with multiple sx partners nd unhealthy sexual attitudes like not usin contraceptives. U can be a nonvirgin nd be more disciplined. Its just like sayin because too much sugar causes pile u now say sugar is bad. Dude d only way u can win dis argument is to use religion nd culture, and both are created by human beings. Pally, I am not arguing with you. I respect your opinion. I don't agree with you. I hope you will preach your message to your daughters from the time they are 14. Your message is 'A lose girl is one with multiple sx partners nd unhealthy sexual attitudes like not usin contraceptives'. In the above light, I expect you to 1) Strongly encourage your daughters to have sex once they reach puberty. If they are not having sex, you will encourage them to go ahead because their virginity is absolutely valueless to you 2) Encourage them to use contraceptives 3) Encourage them to sleep with as many guys as they want but they should not have more than one sex partner at the same time. If you do not encourage your daughters to do this, you are a bloody hypocrite (and you must not mind if they are being bleeped under your roof by different guys at different times, in as much as they dont have more than one sex partner at the same time). I expect you will not force them. BUT U MUST TELL THEM THAT IS WHAT U BELIEVE AND U SUPPORT THEM IN THE ABOVE. And you must tell them that their being disciplined and saving themselves for the right man at marriage is rubbish. You do not value that at all at all. If you do the above, I respect you. Otherwise, you are a bloody hypocrite!!!!! And you must never be mad at them if per chance they contact STDS, or the condom bursts and they get pregnant and the guy rejects them. YOU MUST TELL THEM THAT YOU ACCEPT ALL THESE CONSEQUENCES. To each man his own sir. I wish you and your daughters the very best as you train them in line with your beliefs. Chikena. Besides, I no dey argue with you. My message is simple - Wise girls, save yourself for the man that will value you, respects you enough to wait until marriage before he sleeps with you. Free your self from the worries of unwanted pregnancies, STDS and emotional trauma from guys. Place a high value on yourself and don't let any foolish guy mess you up. You don't have to agree with my message (I guess for your selfish interest). And you don't have to pass this message across to your daughters. To every man his own. Chikena. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 3:55pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
ayosmiles: getting a gal disvirgined often starts this way. The Bible says to the pure,all things are pure. And to the impure........I leave you to finish it yourself....... |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 3:58pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
[quote author=OILOFGLADNESS]Ranti Fadahunsi: Abegi, what is with the virgin, non-virgin thingy? Virgins are people who have placed a value on themselves and will not allow just any silly guy to deposit their Fluid inside them, put them at risk of contracting STDs, or spending the last 2 days before their period wondering if one silly guy has gotten them pregnant and they have to go for abortions because the silly guy will either deny the pregnancy or deny his responsibility. Virgins are people who VALUE their body and peace of mind ABOVE 5 minutes of pleasure. If you have a problem with that, then please don't go near them. There are many of us guys who respect such ladies that respect themselves (we know that they most probably have no STDs, have not done any abortions and they are disciplined people that can withstand peer pressure and remain principled. Sleeping with a virgin is not a difficult thing of done at the right time (after you have put a ring on it). And it is a wonderful thing for the guy and the babe. Afterall, non-virgins were once virgins!!!! Please, if you have any inferiority complex because you cannot discipline yourself (only animals have no ability to discipline themselves and want to Be Intimate every time they are in the mood), then go find girls/guys that fit into your shoes and stop disrespecting virtuous virgins!!!! Pshewwwww!!!!! Ranti you have said it all, love you for this. thank God that there is few of you who believe that virgin exist and cherish them, huggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg You guys never answered this question but are just beating about the bush. I am very sure it is people like you that will be over protective of their daughters. Pshew!!!!!Any ways, my message to the babes is simple. BE WISE. DONT LET ANY FOOLISH GUY MESS U UP. IF HE CANT WAIT FOR U UNTIL MARRIAGE, THERE IS NO GUARANTEE HE WILL MARRY U AFTER HE SLEEPS WITH YOU. DONT MESS WITH YOUR LIFE. CONDOMS FAIL. AND SOMETIMES, WHEN U ARE ALREADY BLEEPING EACH OTHER, U THROW CAUTION TO THE WIND. THE SOLUTION IS DONT START IT. DONT LET ANY USELESS GUY GIVE YOU BELLE AND TELL U TO GO AND ABORT. DONT LET ANY FOOLSISH GUY RISK YOUR LIFE WITH STDS. BE WISE AND ZIP IT UP. BUT IF YOU ARE SO Hot AND U LOVE SEX, THEN PLEASE URSELF. BUT BE READY FOR THE CONSEQUENCES AND DON'T COME TO NAIRALAND CRYING THAT YOU JUST HAD 17 ABORTIONS FOR A GUY AND HE DUMPED YOU. SIMPLES. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 5:19pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
U just won't get it. Virginity is not what makes u successful in life. Look at d most successful women in d world. Havin pleasure does not mean u are not responsible. Do hilary nd merkel have to be virgins b4 they got there. Stay there and don't live life 2 d fullest. Gals keep self servicin in ur closet while more socialy conscious folks enjoy their lives with wisdom nd live good lives. The world is changin, pls stay yoked to tradition. Just don't wake up 2morow nd say u have missed nd ur life is borin |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by dani1luv: 5:24pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
[size=13pt]Am a virgin   [/size]1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by werthy(m): 6:01pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
i think u are just dumb ayusmile 1 Like |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 8:05pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
werthy: i think u are just dumb ayusmileu are entitled 2 ur opinion, it doesnt affect my life. If u want to live ur life in a particular way nd continue to be a slave to societal prejudice, continue. But i bring u d gospel of liberal reasonin devoid of cultural chains. Man shld make culture nd not culture makin him. Thats how elites think. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
ℓ☺ℓ...Why will I tell my daughters how to live their lives once they become adults. The best I can do is a little advice here and there since they won't be at home most of the time. The best I can do is train them well when they are much younger and staying under my roof... And anybody living under my roof whoever is his as long as it is my house or I pay the rent is subject to my rules which may even include curfews and no bringing boys or girls home as I deem fit. But once u're out of the house u're basically on ur own. I will just let u knw the consequences of whatever choices u pick and pray that u're responsible. And what is my business if my daughter marries as a virgin or non virgin. Will I be the one to sleep with her. As long as her hubby accepts her then no prob. This virgin or no virgin thing sef don taya me. I jst dnt pay much mind to it. And all u girls self servicing urself to stupor and calling urselves virgins nko? There are many more important things to me in life. If u want to bring religion into it then I might admit defeat. But normal logic makes it inconsequential. If I'm abt to be intimate with any girl...The first question I always ask her is if she wants it too. If she says no or is not sure then I no do again. It's not by force. I cn respect ur decision to be chaste. And if I cnt live with it then I cn find a way out of the relationship and if I dnt mind then we cn proceed and I will tell u my own conditions too. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 9:39pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
ayosmiles: U just won't get it. Virginity is not what makes u successful in life. Look at d most successful women in d world. Havin pleasure does not mean u are not responsible. Do hilary nd merkel have to be virgins b4 they got there. Stay there and don't live life 2 d fullest. Gals keep self servicin in ur closet while more socialy conscious folks enjoy their lives with wisdom nd live good lives. The world is changin, pls stay yoked to tradition. Just don't wake up 2morow nd say u have missed nd ur life is borin Pally, what is your definition of success? Wealth is different from happiness. Happiness occurs when expectation = acquisition. Simple mathematics. The fact that Clinton and co are world leaders does not mean they are happy? Jeez, do you know what Bill put Hillary through with his philandering? Do you know if they are just together because of a political compromise? Do you know a lot of babes think Hillary is stupid for staying with a serial cheater And who told you she si happy? Do you know that Chelsea (Hillary's daughter married a very young, focussed, disciplined hardworking guy (I don't know about their sex life so I will not comment about that). It shows that everybody wants the best for themselves and their family. There has been no news of Chelsea sleeping all over the place and no news of her husby sleeping all over the place. Pally, being a virgin and waiting for the right man who values you, will wait for you and put a ring on it before he starts asking for sex gives the babe complete peace of mind. Freedom from unwanted emergencies. And peace of mind helps your happiness. To each his own jare. Just preach your message to your daughter. I pray they take after their father. Chikena. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 9:40pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Ranti Fadahunsi: |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 9:43pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
dani1luv: [size=13pt]Am a virgin Keep it up babe and give it to your husband. Marry the right man and he will appreciate you for it. Well done and kudos good girl |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by RantiFadahunsi: 9:44pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
werthy: i think u are just dumb ayusmile Most people don't like to face reality until it confronts them in the face. May he have his desires granted concerning his prayer for his daughters. |
| Re: Reasons You May Not Want To Sleep With A Virgin! by ayosmiles(m): 10:36pm On Jun 16, 2012 |
Ranti Fadahunsi:u keep mentionin my daughters thinking it will make me change my mind. Virginity is not and will never be a way of measuring virtue nd sorry, got no apology 4 not allowin society mess with my head. That does not mean i don't respect anybody's decision to b virgin just like anybody could be gay if they want but am not gay. When u talk about happines, it is relative. Wht i said abt clinton nd co has to do with success nd prosperity which can b seen but u are not sure if they r happy cos u cant c them, even d chelsea. Prince harry lived with kate b4 they got married, has anybody in england called her a slut? I know of a sis that married as a virgin nd is yet to give birth while a cousin that got preg b4 weddin had her bouncin baby boy. Infact my mom was already pregnant with my brother b4 d weddin to my father. She was not a slut nd they r still 2gether 30yrs later. Want more? |
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