Ranti Fadahunsi: The Bible states a true fact: The race is not to the swift, the battle is not to the strong, but time and chance happens to them all. TIME AND CHANCE. The most brilliant guy in the class may not be the riches in the class. But his hardwork will give him a better chance at success than the lazy guy stabbing classes. The most beautiful babe in the class may not marry the most handsome guy on earth. But her beauty gives her a better chance of guys chasing her than the ugly babe. There are no gurantees in Life. If you are the best in Maths and you are average in other subjects, what you should do is maintaining your performance in mathematics and improve in other areas.

1) Virgins are the best in terms of sexual purity. A virgin is a babe that has decided to keep herself until marriage.
2) If you are a virgin and you are not a good cook, not doing well academically, etc. YOU CAN WORK ON THAT AND GET BETTER. BUT ONE YOU LOSE YOUR VITGINITY< YOU CAN NEVER GET THAT BACK.
3) If you are a virgin, you have absolute peace of mind. No STDs. No unwanted pregnancies (I know many single mothers. Was jisting with one yesterday and she lamented the mistakes of her past cos all the guys she has met run from her once they know she has a child!!!). No emotional damage from giving yourself wholly to a guy and you are at his mercy if he rejects you and you have to do everything to please him just to retain him. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!!! Place a VALUE on yourself and live true to the value.
4) Virginity is not about hymen. If your hymen is still intact, congratulations!!! But not all babes medically have hymen. Virginity is about the PRINCIPLE OF VALUING YOURSELF, KEEPING YOURSELF UNTIL A MAN WHO LOVES YOU ENOUGH TO WAIT FOR U PUTS A RING ON IT.
5) If a man loves you and truly loves you, HE WILL WAIT. If he wants sex now, HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU. Otherwise why are you disvirgined and not still dating the guy who disvirgined you. Sex as a proof of love is a lie from the pit of hell. If he loves you, he will wait.
6) There are no gurantees in life. The race is not to the swift, the batle is not to the strong. So being a virgin does not mean you will be a good accountant. In fact, there is no basis for comparism. Why compare the presecence of self control and discipline to being a good and successful career woman? that is bollocks. No basis for comparison. I know babes who want to be house wives, revrernd sisters, etc. No basis for comparison there. Pure bollocks. Please dont let any body fool you with that comparison. LOSING YOUR VIRGINITY DOES NOT GURANTEE THAT YOU WILL BE A SUCCESSFUL ACCOUNTANT EITHER!!!! THEIR IS NO CORRELATION BETWEEN THE TWO. While being disciplined will help you in all you do in life, if you don't want to be a career woman and you want to work in a charity organisation, do what gives your life purpose and meaning
7) There are some things we cannot control and somethings we can control in life. I know people that smoke indian hemp and are doing very well in their career. But I know many more that smoke indian hemp and their life is messed up. Why risk smoking indian hemp because you see one or two people doing it successfully. I know one aristo babe that is married (but the husband is a runs man). They are 'happily married' in a way. Some babes do it and get away with it. But if you are a babe, why take the risk? You may not survive it. You can control what goes on between your legs. EXERCISE THAT CONTROL. Self control is the only thing that separates humans from animals. A Virgin who keeps herself exercises self control. And she is the very best. If you have self control, you can succeed at anything. Because discipline is the fundamental requirement that any organisation, school, wants first. KEPP YOUR VIRGINITY. YOU CAN NEVER REGRET IT. AND YOU ARE THE BEST.
9) This is for the virgins out there. Guys that want to add to their number of babes they have slept with will tell you what is beneficial to them (your virginity is worthless). Babes that have messed up their life will tell you what will make you join them (virginity dey get person job for Shell??). Babes, never ever listen to them. Their arguement is worthless. They will never tell you about the risks you put yourself through if you lose your virginity. And let me tell you one truth - ONCE YOU DO IT, IT IS VERY VERY HARD TO STOP!!!! I AM TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. IT IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO STOP AND TAKES THE GRACE OF GOD. DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!! If you have to change your friends, change them. Anybody giving you an advice that does not add value to your life should not be your friend. There are many good babes and guys out there who will look out for you. Look for them. Keep your virginity. Give it to your husband. Marry the RIGHT guy. You will never ever regret it.

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Finally we're winnig ranti over to the dark side #just kidding. You forget that sometimes is this same girls that you're putting on a pedestal that push for sex. You're talking abt girls as if they r stone and not human beings or they dnt get Hot or hot sometimes too and painting guys as if they r the ones that ALWAYS want the sex thing every time. I can assure u that if u use protection properly EVERYTIME u have sex u will neva get pregnant or get an STI. Some girls also want the sex thing anyway so I cn understand cos I also want it too. But to those to those that don't want it or want to strive for purity I cn also respect their decision. SIMPLE. Life is abt choices. Pick the one that suits u. Nuffin wrong with virgins. And nuffin wrong with disvirgined too.

Ranti Fadahunsi: wa

I think you said it all. YOU WANT THE SEX. Fine. If you find a babe that wants the sex. Bleep her as many times as possible. You are lucky. I WANT THE SEX TOO. MORE THAN YOU WANT IT. But I have decided to keep myself till marriage. Hard. But doable. And any babe who has the self control to hold on till marriage is rare, and should be highly commended. SELF CONTROL. That is the message. Saying you have no self control before marriage makes me wonder how you will cope after marriage. What happens if you are in the USA for a two year program, your wife cannot go with you. WHAT WILL YOU DO? Self control. Sleep around and risk the well being of your family? If you cannot hold yourself before marriage, YOU CAN NEVER HOLD YOURSELF AFTER MARRIAGE if there is a long time separation. I have friends who are married, have lovely wives, BUT STILL CHEAT. So many of them. It is all about discipline.

Babes, if you are a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. No better advice I can give you. If you are not a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. The fact that you made a wrong turning on the way to Ibadan from Lagos does not mean you should keep on making wrong turnings till you make a catastrophic mistake. I am a guy. I love sex. I want sex. BUT, mu greatest passion is bringing out the best in people and telling people the truth. And the truth is if you are a virgin, YOU ROCK. Keep on improving yourself. If you are not a virgin and have decided to keep yourself. Good. You also rock in your own way. I will be praying for you. It is hard, I can testify to that, but very doable. And if you are not a virgin and you love regular sex. Good for you. Do as it pleases you. But be ready for the consequence and don't EVER GO ANYWHERE SAYING THAT YOU GAVE HIM ALL AND HE DUMPED YOU!!!! I hate it with a passion when a babe willingly opens her legs for a guy and claims the guy used her!!! I have had a babe say that to me before. The guy did not ra..pe you, you suggested that you wanted to sleep with him. He slept with you. There are consequences and you cry and say the guy messed up your life!!! Any babe that says that is an ID.I.OT> It was your choice. If he did not ra..pe you, please never go anywhere saying a guy messed up your life. YOU HAD A CHOICE. So if you want to enjoy sex, please go ahead. But know that that is your CHOICE. Period. And finally, Virgins rock. Keep it up babes (if you are a virgin). YOU ROCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

deavicky: and why is it that we talk about the virginity of the female only and nobody talk about the guys or our own is not important?

Ranti Fadahunsi: wa

I think you said it all. YOU WANT THE SEX. Fine. If you find a babe that wants the sex. Bleep her as many times as possible. You are lucky. I WANT THE SEX TOO. MORE THAN YOU WANT IT. But I have decided to keep myself till marriage. Hard. But doable. And any babe who has the self control to hold on till marriage is rare, and should be highly commended. SELF CONTROL. That is the message. Saying you have no self control before marriage makes me wonder how you will cope after marriage. What happens if you are in the USA for a two year program, your wife cannot go with you. WHAT WILL YOU DO? Self control. Sleep around and risk the well being of your family? If you cannot hold yourself before marriage, YOU CAN NEVER HOLD YOURSELF AFTER MARRIAGE if there is a long time separation. I have friends who are married, have lovely wives, BUT STILL CHEAT. So many of them. It is all about discipline.

Babes, if you are a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. No better advice I can give you. If you are not a virgin, zip up your pants until he rings up your finger. The fact that you made a wrong turning on the way to Ibadan from Lagos does not mean you should keep on making wrong turnings till you make a catastrophic mistake. I am a guy. I love sex. I want sex. BUT, mu greatest passion is bringing out the best in people and telling people the truth. And the truth is if you are a virgin, YOU ROCK. Keep on improving yourself. If you are not a virgin and have decided to keep yourself. Good. You also rock in your own way. I will be praying for you. It is hard, I can testify to that, but very doable. And if you are not a virgin and you love regular sex. Good for you. Do as it pleases you. But be ready for the consequence and don't EVER GO ANYWHERE SAYING THAT YOU GAVE HIM ALL AND HE DUMPED YOU!!!! I hate it with a passion when a babe willingly opens her legs for a guy and claims the guy used her!!! I have had a babe say that to me before. She wanted the sex. Told me she wanted the sex. We had the sex. I realised I could not marry her. Wanted to break up with her. And she was asking me why I used her!!!!!
The guy did not ra..pe you, you suggested that you wanted to sleep with him. He slept with you. There are consequences and you cry and say the guy messed up your life!!! Any babe that says that is an ID.I.OT> It was your choice. If he did not ra..pe you, please never go anywhere saying a guy messed up your life. YOU HAD A CHOICE. So if you want to enjoy sex, please go ahead. But know that that is your CHOICE. Period. And finally, Virgins rock. Keep it up babes (if you are a virgin). YOU ROCKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

Ranti Fadahunsi:


And in addition to my post above, if you are a babe and u decide to have sex before marriage, then be the best at it. You are either hot or cold. Bleep your life out. IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE WHETHER YOU SLEPT WITH 1 GUY or 1000000 GUYS. NOBODY WILL EVER KNOW AND YOUR GUY WILL HAVE TO ACCEPT WHATEVER YOU SAY. EXCEPT HE IS GOING TO FIND OUT, JUST TELL HIM YOU HAVE BEEN WITH ONE GUY. No difference whatesoever. But if you are going to sleep around, maximise it and make sure u reap some financial benefits from doing so. Because the guy can leave you at any time. HE OWES YOU ABSOLUTELY NOTHING. But if you are a virgin. Keep yourself. You can never regret it. You are the best and you rock.......

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How won't I knw wen the kitten don slack..... And let's be realistic...only a slut will av bleeped over 10 guys b4 marryin....So assuming she started dating at 18 and she has an average of one relationship per year....By the time she is 28 wen she'll probably be getting married she would have bleeped 10 guys which is only true if each of her relationships last 1 yrs. How many girls date over 10 pple b4 getting married except pple that av multiple date and sex partners at a time.

ivee22: Ranti Fadahunsi: Abegi, what is with the virgin, non-virgin thingy? Virgins are people who have placed a value on themselves and will not allow just any silly guy to deposit their Fluid inside them, put them at risk of contracting STDs, or spending the last 2 days before their period wondering if one silly guy has gotten them pregnant and they have to go for abortions because the silly guy will either deny the pregnancy or deny his responsibility. Virgins are people who VALUE their body and peace of mind ABOVE 5 minutes of pleasure. If you have a problem with that, then please don't go near them. There are many of us guys who respect such ladies that respect themselves (we know that they most probably have no STDs, have not done any abortions and they are disciplined people that can withstand peer pressure and remain principled. Sleeping with a virgin is not a difficult thing of done at the right time (after you have put a ring on it). And it is a wonderful thing for the guy and the babe. Afterall, non-virgins were once virgins!!!! Please, if you have any inferiority complex because you cannot discipline yourself (only animals have no ability to discipline themselves and want to Be Intimate every time they are in the mood), then go find girls/guys that fit into your shoes and stop disrespecting virtuous virgins!!!! Pshewwwww!!!!

Beautifully put, u v said it all. Its nyc 2knw dt dia r stil guys out dia wu appreciate virgins. Thumbs up.

bennyraz: and boring

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Virgin or no virgin....The point still remains nobody really cares. Ranti is a Yoruba name and even tho I knw that is nt ur real name I can assume u're Yoruba. I'm sure u've watched these Yoruba films and it happens to often when a guy goes to meet a girls parents and tells the parents the girl is alredi pregnant for him. Once they are of marriageable age and the guy seems to want to accept the pregnancy the mum of the girl usually starts to rejoice that her daughter has found a husband especially when the husband is well to do and capable. So what am I saying in essence. Even this our society doesn't give a shit abt virginity as long as the girl only get pregnant for someone that is willing to take care of her. Odawise why doesn't the mum or father start scolding the girl for losing her virginity for someone she is yet to get married to. It is this our same society that sometimes encourages guys ( the ones that are well to do) to get girls pregnant so that they can be sure she can bare children. So even our society doesn't give a shit abt virginity as long as it doesn't av a permanent repercussion. Like the guy denying responsibility etc.

Cuteobi:
Why is dis old thread trending?