Good evening nairalanders, something just happened in my hostel, I'm an introvert, though I always tell myself that it's my choice because really I see girls as distractions that would slowly eat you up, moreover I barely have time for myself talk less of another person.
So to the issue, there's this pretty girl in my hostel (yes I admitted she's pretty ) though I hold her in high standards (maybe crush if you wish to interpret) but I'd never wanted to date her or anyone else for that matter, she's gentle, composed unlike many girls around.
we usually exchange pleasantries anytime we see and that's all, we've never had any conversation, today is just terrible and I wish it never happened. Today her friend called me, the three of us sat outside and her friend started talking to me, me and the other girl didn't talk to each other, few minutes later, her friend left leaving only me and her and boom it happened, let me not get into details ,she told me she likes me. I laughed and pretended as if she was joking but she said she wasn't. I told her I was very tired, that tomorrow I'll see her, I left her outside.
Now it's either tomorrow I rebuke her feelings or I accept ,I don't want to be in a relationship but I don't want to offend her either, we see each other everyday, now no matter what, it would never go back to the way it was when we walk pass each other, please I need your advice on how to reject her politely.

Baba don fall in love. leave story!!

You communication with her should be platonic and not erotic/sexual. Not all friends are meant to date each other.
If the feelings is one side, pant go shift be that oo

Crowwejihadist:
Baba don fall in love. leave story!!

love? even though it's true, I don't want a relationship oo

Danbukason:
You communication with her should be platonic and not erotic/sexual. Not all friends are meant to date each other.
If the feelings is one side, pant go shift be that oo

yes thank you, but what could I possibly tell her tomorrow?

tell her you dont have time. And even though you care about her, its just on your time frame and see her reply.

see op,i swear what happened to you has happened to me.exactly as you talk am. even me i don't wanna date the girl and don't wanna offend her.


the day i killed that thing called introvertness in me,i toast this girl sotay she no understand herself.


another terrible thing is,this girl is living rent-free in my head.but i don't want to date her.

jedaii:
tell her you dont have time. And even though you care about her, its just on your time frame and see her reply.

thank you, I'll try this

Men encourage ladies to open up and tell their feelings to guys, but the same men, 9 out of 10 times, reject to date them.

Allison012:
see op,i swear what happened to you has happened to me.exactly as you talk am. even me i don't wanna date the girl and don't wanna offend her.


the day i killed that thing called introvertness in me,i toast this girl sotay she no understand herself.


another terrible thing is,this girl is living rent-free in my head.but i don't want to date her.

you know am bro, I don't know how I'll stylishly tell her that I'm not interested in a relationship

reject her politely and let some other brotha chop that sweet thing.

Othority:
Men encourage ladies to open up and tell their feelings to guys, but the same men, 9 out of 10 times, reject to date them.

A taste of their medicine

Op accept her, You Arrow

run anytime you see her coming from afar. do this for days. if she didn't check up on you in your room, forget her. she wan use you catch cruise.

Othority:
Men encourage ladies to open up and tell their feelings to guys, but the same men, 9 out of 10 times, reject to date them.

really? I thought guys normally jump on the slightest opportunity to date girls

buttlover:
run anytime you see her coming from afar. do this for days. if she didn't check up on you in your room, forget her. she wan use you catch cruise.

i never really thought of this possibility, say she just wan use me catch cruise, girls sha

Tekahashi:
you know am bro, I don't know how I'll stylishly tell her that I'm not interested in a relationship

Look,toast the girl.but never tell her, you like her.just make sure you end the conversation well. no sexual talk o,if not,u don offend her be that.


but we introverts, we dey suffer inside abeg.

Crushing Ko, crushing nii the moment you eat her kitten, that crunshness in your eyes will disappear....

A girl open her mouth tell you she love you in first discussion you have with her, and you can't read the handwriting on the wall..Chai!!!!

Op, if you can smoke, smoke, if you can drink, drink and eat cumcunber to absorb the smell of it in your mouth, that is before meeting her tomorrow, tell her you will be preparing a dinner for her tomorrow night, she should come and visit you in your hostile, after the dinner, don't fail to dine with her in your bed aftermath come back and thank me here...

Tekahashi:
i never really thought of this possibility, say she just wan use me catch cruise, girls sha

forget that thing, she no wan use you catch cruise bro.what that girl feel for you is real.

MrBrownJay1:
reject her politely and let some other brotha chop that sweet thing.

you know girls na, probably she won't talk to me again

Hacks4dummies:
Op accept her, You Arrow

i said I'm not ready for a relationship

Tekahashi:
you know girls na, probably she won't talk to me again

...and so what? if thats her decision then so be it. you dont want to be with her so why would you even care?
just live your life and in due time, she will come back to her senses.

Just give her the chance, allow her to help shape you at least to be opening up to her...... Cus u may one day regret if u reject her. Give in, if u see harm u can later leave.... I believe The feeling's real, but as an introverted soul if u give in ND u see harm u will know ND then u can leave

Tekahashi:
love? even though it's true, I don't want a relationship oo

simp forming redpiller

It's rare to find a girl like this.
Oh boy, you will always get it for free whenever you want totow.

Please don't turn her down even if you don't need a relationship. Tell her you appreciate her offer but that for now, you want it to start on a platonic platform.

Tekahashi:
i said I'm not ready for a relationship

No sexual talk, make una still dey communicate Sha no love talk, sex talk, money talk just random

Tekahashi:
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Watch my video on your topic

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VrlBb3xPBfU

Tekahashi:
i said I'm not ready for a relationship

oya tell her say Yiu no like her

Tell her you are not ready for a relationship at the moment, but you are happy to be friends with her.

Someone might actually like u but it doesn't mean she wants a relationship with u either.

Be friendly please.

Oturatetuala:
Someone might actually like u but it doesn't mean she wants a relationship with u either.

Be friendly please.

op doesn’t know this