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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Middleborn: 12:23pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
I used to have this girl, sexy ass girl. We stayed together sometimes. She sleeps really deep and naked nearly always. Sometimes, i come back from work and she's asleep. I take my clothes off, get the oil and oil her up. Gently slip in my preeq until it all goes in. she wakes up at some point and starts moaning....it always becomes really intense and shes happy afterwards. What would you call that? first it was rape and then when she woke up and consented to it with her soft moans, then its mutual? |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by ljoh: 12:23pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
How? |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by surgevessel: 12:24pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
hope4nigeria: What transpires in Marriage is beyond Judiciary knowledge. It's one side to you today and the other side tomorrow.. I was deprived of sex for over 7 months in marriage I was taking full financial responsibilities.. We feel too embarrassed to report issues as such. But our opposite gender feel very free to cry out on sex deprivations. And some gullible female agitator who are yet to experience marriage would come and start fletching muscles on things they cant sustain full understanding of. Same person who starved me of sex for over 7 months was busy checking my phones and calling every strange number she sees on my phone and threatening innocent ladies. Women are the most complicated species created by God. No wonder those doing well and making waves in various sectors dont have a close proximity with women in their lives.. I save my comments for matured readers. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Win12345: 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Foolish generation claiming to be wise. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Starboykenny: 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
If I was her husband, I won't have sex with her anymore, na she go come back and tell me that she need it, ungrateful woman, some husband right now have not even touched their wife talk less on having sex with her |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by HumanoidX: 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Middleborn: Eyah. Stay single. Because she's your property abi? She doesn't have a right to her own body. I pity the women you "boys" will marry. Because you think marriage is just about sex. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Victoronah1: 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks:you Don't need to lift your leg o please him. He can do it himself and cum, and get it over with. It's not all the time a man also wants sex, if you're Hot and your husband is not, he can't deny you sex, it's cruel and against your people's bond. The only thing he can do is to lie down and let you pleasure yourself simple. Once the lady is done, my man can move on |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Mightyjp(m): 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Don't get cheated, get a lawyer and sue the bastard. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by vugaman(m): 12:25pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks:wrong, there is no rape in marriage, that is why if a man and his wife commits an offense, you can only charge one of them for the crime, you can't change the two of them for the same offense, maybe she taught they are still doing boyfriend and girlfriend |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by byteem: 12:29pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
HumanoidX: Agreed the subject is sensitive .. but It is what It is .. No need to get worked up or get vulgar.. it is agreed its a crime in Nigeria and not a crime in some others .. age of consent in Nigeria even varies from the North(penal code and south (Criminal Code) how about that.. our laws are terrible and need to be changed but it's imperative to understand the rational behind the argument..Even in the US where it is applicable in some jurisdictions, particular circumstances have to be duly considered and it's very hard to prove .. a lot is left to the discretion of the jury and the Judge. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by obedience4(m): 12:29pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Funflipper: Sex is done by both parties. The man and the woman . Is like saying if the wife Have Rights to have sex with her husband. So to your question yes the man has right to have sex with his wife just as the woman has the right to have sex with her husband.. What we are auguring is when a man forces a woman.. Married or not and have sex with her without her CONSENT .. That's is rape. Marrying a wife doesn't make you a lord over her body no law back's that.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by lacidi: 12:29pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Actually, under the Nigerian Criminal Code Act a husband cannot rape his wife. This is because 'rape' is defined as follows under the Act: "Section 357. Definition of rape Any person who has unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman or girl, without her consent, or with her consent, if the consent is obtained by force or by means of threats or intimidation of any kind, or by fear of harm, or by means of false and fraudulent representation as to the nature of the act, or, in the case of a married woman, by personating her husband, is guilty of an offence which is called rape". The operative phrase here is "Unlawful Carnal Knowledge". Section 6 of the Act defines Unlawful carnal Knowledge as follows: "Section 6. Carnal knowledge When the term "carnal knowledge" or the term "carnal connection" is used in defining an offence, it is implied that the offence, so far as regards that element of it, is complete upon penetration. "Unlawful carnal knowledge" means carnal connection which takes place otherwise than between husband and wife". So taking the definition of Section 6, any sexual intercourse between a husband and wife does not qualify as 'Unlawful carnal knowledge' and hence lacks the important element that defines rape. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Ikamandoncome: 12:30pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
He raped your toto? |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Boldtrust(m): 12:33pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
My girlfriend just raped me this morning. It was good These women will starve the men of sex. If the man goes outside the marriage, it's "cheating and adultery". Everyone will hear it! If the man wants to avoid that by obtaining it from the woman, it's spousal rape! The demon ruling this generation is very hardworking. The man has no option, he literally has to keep begging the woman for sex and effectually making himself her poppet and slave in the process. Note: I'm not in favor of any maltreatment of women or anybody for that matter. So, all the wormheads, before quoting me, take the worms out and relocate the brain from the anus to the cranial carvitiy before quoting me |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Flows001(m): 12:35pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
samuelpeters:I'm a Lawyer and I can tell you as a fact that there is nothing like rape between two legally married persons.. The only exception is when such happens when the Court has granted a Decree of Judicial Separation and the man goes ahead to sleep with her without her consent. Apart from that, no man can be convicted for rape against his lawfully married wife. Don't mind what ignorant folks have been saying in this thread. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by tofolo(m): 12:38pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks:you dey mind am. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Eriokanmi: 12:39pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
byteem:Hmmm. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Okhuadams(m): 12:39pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Moh247:Oga OK ooo |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by showlove911(m): 12:41pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Shalom!!! 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Lepon02: 12:41pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Moh247: Ori e ti daaaa ru! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by phemmyfour: 12:42pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks:Not when the holy book says her body BELONGS to you. That negates rape's Dictionary definition |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Hayaoga1(m): 12:42pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks:Rubbish talk... |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by GUNITGuy: 12:43pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Una don come again with una victim card..... U have no other way to play victim again Gender violence is no longer giving you people attention.... How can someone rape is wife his fundamental rights ....Or how can someone steal what is his? |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Ferrarilord: 12:43pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
When u say , your body is yours and my body is mine,does that mean that there is no offense if anyone of them engages in extra-marital affairs? In as much as I don't support it, I need a concrete reason why there is anything like rape in marriage. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by phemmyfour: 12:44pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Moh247:Seconded You cannot enter river and still try to avoid being wet |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Ikea81: 12:46pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Avoid any woman that thinks like this..for your own good o. Only marry partners that are Willing to submit their body's 24/7 except they are very ill or incapacitated. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by ugo227(m): 12:46pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
You are so wrong!!! Moh247: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Funflipper: 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
[quote author=HumanoidX post=116686788] I suggest you read about marital/spousal rape. Nigeria is a zoo. In saner climes, you can be convicted under law. It was difficult to prove for many years but it is real. She's not your property. No means No. Taking a deeper look from a moral perspective; is there suppose to be anything like marital rape? I understand it is all in a bid to protect women we term the weaker sex but I think that particular law is an overkill. It is like killing a fly with a shotgun; it will get the job done of course but there will be property damage to deal with afterwards. Same is it with marriage and these woke laws but this time the damage is prenups and broken homes. |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by OCHKESTINE(m): 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks: You didn't need to abuse him. He was right and you are right! Why can't we just agree that people see things from their own perspective. If you believe marriage makes 2 become 1, then sex shouldn't ask for permission to have sex, they made the vow to always pleasure each other whether in the mood or not. When my wife is Hot and we are not in talking mood, she doesn't ask, she just roles on me and fu*k the hell out of me. To me that is not rape, it's my duty to pleasure her whether in the mood or not. Wahala no dey even gree me think of sex all the time let alone rape. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by dinkyicon: 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
Moh247: Bro go and update yourself, you dont want to be caught on tge wrong side of the law 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Flows001(m): 12:48pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
lacidi:God bless you brotherly. I was about to post this.. I wonder why some laymen in this thread will be arguing with Lawyers on this.. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Raped Me. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Sep 15, 2022 |
jeromestarks: just what if he chooses to go outside and have sex instead of forcefully doing it with his legally married wife? would you turn around and call it cheating with grounds for a divorces (splitting the family monies into two) |
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