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Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by yinkeys(m): 6:05am On Dec 10, 2022 |
UK don cast since na Who are the people rushing to UK 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Nursepepeye(f): 6:52am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture:why are you explaining these to someone who has no brain, can't Comprehend simple thing. I got your points from the first reading, you know destiny has different dimension, no matter the environment, destiny play a major role 4 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by gulfer: 7:13am On Dec 10, 2022 |
That's the way UK is setup, I hate UK especially London 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Babssoo(m): 7:19am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture:congrats brov, you have made a wise decision… cheers 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by AgentGoat: 7:20am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture: What's your point exactly? |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Blazebond(m): 7:20am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Many are in this condition sha,it is not because they are unproductive or lazy,it has to do with their tax system and whatever hidden things that swallow their money,they are always paying mortgage on one thing or another and they always force themselves to go on vacations that they can hardly afford just because they want to explore,but some of them are doing okay Sha. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 7:28am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Babssoo:Yes, it seems There is a Spiritual angle to it. I've thought about this, but spiritual matters are very complicated, one has to calm down and really look to understand it.. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by TheChameleon: 7:28am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts: As in.... very shocking how the colonial masters exploit us. After like 3 postgraduate degrees, UK universities were asking for proof of proficiency in English. I had a lot of engagements with British Council and they mercilessly fleece us at every opportunity. First school I applied for in US had Nigeria on exemption list as an Anglophone country. I know many in UK still struggling while I know of many friends in the US who are worth quite a bit. A close pal with a 2-2 in Accounting without no additional qualifications here or there left Dec 2016 and as of January this year, I saw over 100 million naira in savings when I was trying to buy a laptop and he shared credit card details. He's been working in Chase Bank for like 2 years now. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by grandstar(m): 7:36am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture I have a cousin who will soon be 60. I doubt if she's built a house. She has only a daughter who became a single mum at the age of 18 or so. A nigerian guy took advantage of her for the benefit of papers. Yes, she may have no real material achievements but I love her to bits, and I'm sure many of the family feel the same way. She and my sister are probably the 2 matriarchs of the family. Many a time, money does not measure how truly successful one I am not judging you for using material things to judge those who japa for that was why they did. My cousin opened her home to many who japa'd. She was a foundation for her 2 younger brothers and 2 of my younger ones who did. She's ready to prepare a nigerian feast for your event. She's very loving and giving. If you're not ready to spend an hour on the phone, don't dare pick her call 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Sirqt5(m): 7:44am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture:2nd citizenship when u've never stepped foot outta 9ja . governments no dey dish out citizenship like dat . Visa u no get . pr u no get . but na citizenship u think say dem go dash u , lmao .make una take it easy wit d lies biko 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by grandstar(m): 7:57am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture: What religion please? |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Kobicove(m): 8:00am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Sirqt5: He has been outside the country before, please go and read his posts again 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Sirqt5(m): 8:03am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Kobicove:still don't mean dem dashing him citizenship . e no work like dat . not without pr first , n living n working in d country where u want citizenship for a few yrs 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by KingAzubuike(f): 8:10am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts:At the bolded.. so true lol. I know one around..any small discussion next thing na when I was in london. |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Qatar2022: 8:16am On Dec 10, 2022 |
imadiyi:That's only useless people think and call achievement |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Wickedfacts: 8:28am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Sirqt5: It is very possible. Wealthy Nigerians do it very well. Buy citizenship of a small country with Passport that allows you enter various countries visa free. People buy citizenship of certain countries for between $100k to $500k. They call it citizenship by investment. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Wickedfacts: 8:30am On Dec 10, 2022 |
KingAzubuike: I know someone who was at Coventry for 3 months. He talked about it for all the time I was around that area, and that was more than 6 years. |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by grandstar(m): 8:31am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture I had an aunty who probably got there late 1970s. By 1983, she was raising 3 children there. She brought 2 sons with her probably aged 2 and 3 when coming birthed a 3rd child, a girl by 1983. Then she was staying in a council flat. By 1992, she already had a 4th child, a girl which was her last. Around 1993, she decided to come to Nigeria stating that she had a revelation from God to do so, to preach the word. She left her children in the UK except the last born who she brought along with her. Her evangelical mission to Nigeria got nowhere. She had to become super frugal to survive with her daughter. She later sent her daughter back but i am not sure of the time. She traveled back in 2003. My sister paid for the ticket. She had been kind to us when she was in the UK. In 2008, her oldest son she brought along with her to the UK was deported to Nigeria. She never regularized his papers. I won't be surprised if ihis deportation was violence related as he's autistic and prone to fights. His younger brother too was deported, probably around 2010. I'm sure it was crime related as the guy loves drugs and he is very unserious. He however has a very mild and gentle character. His papers too were never regularised. Note: We were never informed they were deported. But their coming back and never returning made absolutely no sense. Their British accents are very strong. They don't belong here. Her abandoning them in England when she came back to Nigeria in 1993 took its toll on the boys. Yorubas say what they don't teach you at home, they'll teach you in the street. Upon her return to the UK in 2003, I am not sure what happened but later on, I think she started receiving a monthly pension from the government there, and also a flat. From that, she was sending money to her sons in Nigeria regularly. She died recently. I doubt she left anything behind, whether in the UK or in Nigeria, but she was a contented person. Her monthly pensions would have been sufficient for her. She was a very lovely person that made some rather big mistakes for which she and her children paid the price. I can never forget her smile. God bless her soul. I am glad she is sleeping in peace (Read Eccl 9:5,10) 4 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Wickedfacts: 8:35am On Dec 10, 2022 |
TheChameleon: It is even an insult for UK Universities to ask for Proof of Proficiency. The reason they make that foolish request is for you to probably write the IELTS or something. Whenever I see young people going to the UK, I usually pity them. 3 years time from now, many of them will return and become compulsory nationalists, wearing African fabrics about, quoting Thomas Sankara and Kwame Nkrumah by the time they see shege in the hands of the UK government. 6 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by lereinter(m): 8:48am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Tell me the aim of this write up Tell those your relatives to then relocate to nigeria their ancestry home Who leaves nigeria has the means, they didn't tell you they are going there to become billionaires One thing is sure UK is a saner country than nigeria |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Chee59(f): 8:50am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Life is what you make it to be. Your actions have consequences that can make or mar your destiny. If you want a happy life and a successful old age, the time to sow the seeds is in your youth. Changing location is good but definitive steps must be taken to build upon the where you are. Let's not forget the God factor. |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Sirqt5(m): 9:25am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts:we not talkin abt wealthy folks , we talkin abt d op . citizenship by investing costs up to $1,200,000 (3,889,739,784.00 ₦ ) in some countries . it's not given out cheaply to wealthy folks either 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 9:26am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Sirqt5:. Go back and reread what I said. I said my immediate family members there have British passport and are British citizens, Confirmed. I also said that I went to the UK (London) for the first time in 2007, as a teenager. I did University schooling outside nigeria, though still within africa. Any exposed Person knows that with money (not necessarily a lot of money) and the right connection, you can get another country's passport, Very common runs... #CommonKnowledge! And even if I have never had any of these things, nor ever had a visa, if i have money and the right Connection, I can Still get another passport/citizenship. Why did you come at me like that?? Like an illiterate local, foolish fellow? Do I know you before? If you want to make a point, you can do so Normally You had no point to make obviously. You were driving at nothing, you are abnormal psychologically 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by Sirqt5(m): 9:29am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts:we not talkin abt wealthy folks , we talkin abt d op . citizenship by investing costs up to $1,200,000 (3,889,739,784.00 ₦ ) in some countries . it's not given out cheaply to wealthy folks either 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 9:30am On Dec 10, 2022 |
grandstar:You did not get what I was saying, go back and read it again... As well as my other comments and replies here. These people are too Poor. One almost 70 if not more than now, has no Home right now. Lived in his aged mother's house for years, on and Off.(Note I am not rich either, not At alll.) but these things you mentioned that your aunty does or did in the past, none of them can never ever do it for anybody else. They not United, they are people who don't believe in the idea of giving other people anything at all. Even if they can easily afford it 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 9:32am On Dec 10, 2022 |
AgentGoat:My point is I want to know if this is something that is somewhat common. Do you know situations like this? Or is it Spiritual Wickedfacts is the only person so far, that seems to get where I'm coming from 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 9:35am On Dec 10, 2022 |
gulfer:Lool, i just laughed reading this... I've heard People say so many things about UK too |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by GreaterFuture(m): 10:03am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts:You don't have to Be super wealthy, I know this firsthand. That's all I can say. Connect can be a powerful something. |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by bdon123(m): 10:28am On Dec 10, 2022 |
GreaterFuture:Having British passport is not am automatic ticket to success.Bt it will help u in future n assist u to success if u play ur cards right |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by bdon123(m): 10:31am On Dec 10, 2022 |
Wickedfacts:Did u jst say build house abroad?dem no dey build house jst like that bro...they buy houses .I agree wit u, UK is hard,n doesn't giv mch room for one to get rich. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by womaniser(m): 10:41am On Dec 10, 2022 |
It differs. I know quite a few Nigerians in Europe who have many AirBnB apartments they are running. They may even have properties in Nigeria you know nothing about. Some come and build a duplex in a 3 week visit. Even if you visit them in the house, they tell you it belongs to a friend or they rent it out. Others are heavily invested in stock. Uk cast, Uk cast. Dey there. If you get a stable job and plan your life, despite tax, you have more than enough to save. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: Blood Relatives Living In The UK For Over 30 To 60 Years, Nothing In Life by 1Sharon(f): 11:19am On Dec 10, 2022 |
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. If the parents are unserious with their life, it will rub off on their kids too. Yes, I will admit, Nigerians in America are far successful than UK Nigerians. Americans are taxed less, salaries are far higher and there are more opportunities 2 Likes 1 Share |
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