my husband and his ex still keeps in touch,but he keeps denying it.even wen i saw him sneaking into the girls house.he still denyed.

Can we keep in-touch

prettyrich:

my husband and his ex still keeps in touch,but he keeps denying it.even wen i saw him sneaking into the girls house.he still denyed.

ok nothing wrong with keeping in touch if they have a good relationship as a friend

but sneaking into the girls house. . . . . wow

trouble dey o

You husband preferred you to his ex- that's why he married you. So take things easy with him, talk it over with him after a good meal and make sure you don't go threatening him or the lady. With time, he will definitely leave the lady.

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Maybe he prefers to touch her punny with his joystick

I don't agree with the above statement, it might not be that he prefers you to his ex and that's why they broke up. Rather, their breakup could be as a result of other circumstances. As a man, I can honestly tell you that a man does not maintain close friendship with an ex with a pure mind. Like it or not, there would always be intimate attraction there as they have been intimate previously. (talking from experience I agreed with ur statement Greggj.

If noting is going on, why was he sneaking

no looong thing,

the guy is getting "free-kpomo"

we all know ex-sex is always sweeter that when both are dating

@poster

make him jealous
that way he will revert his attention back to you
and concentrate on you


( do your groundwork,find out what makes him jealous and pretend to go for it)
the important thing is to get his eye (heart) away from his ex

^^^
What if she does what makes him jealous and he feels he can't be with her anymore, are you going to marry her?

^^^
spec savers your attention is seriously needed here!

on a serious note,you really think that making a man jealous results into him leaving you
especially when he is the one with the dancing eyes?
you are a man,so you should know the answer

i sincerely pray that it does not come to the point of it being the marriage being ended
I'm pretty sure that most people prayer here
so why cant you join in the well wishers and stop looking the other way
negativity

^^^
I made that comment on the assumption that making the man jealous might onclude some flirting(even though she might not actually cheat)^^^
I made that comment on the assumption that making the man jealous might onclude some flirting(even though she might not actually cheat)

^^^
i get you
but never underestimate the mind of a woman
she doesn't have to flirt to make her man jealous
there are ways and there are ways
that much i know

pls let me explain further,i new him 5 years before we got married.and this particular girl was introduce to me as a family friend then,she kept coming to visit us,and was always all over my husband then we were not married.b4 we got married i discover they were dating.which i confronted him with and he apologises and he broke up with her.six years into our marriage i found out they were still keeping in touch.but my husband keep denying it,not until i saw him visiting the girl.i decided to confront him,this to be sincere i did not take it likely,i even talk to the girl in disguise, came to find out that she was the one who realy want him back even has he has told her that he dont want to double date,this is what the girl told unknowingly to her,she thought was was discussing with her friend.sorry to say this the is 7 years older than me and she is not on the pretty side.

prettyrich:

sorry to say this the is 7 years older than me and she is not on the pretty side.

OK. so maybe . .just maybe . . she married you for your looks but still in love with the girl.

Your husband is cheating on you.

The ball is in your court.

Hmm, Prettyrich, calm down! Lets do the analysis, So he was double dating after he started dating u, meaning he cheated on you with her? But the gurl in question is someone he has known b4 he met you, so maybe they had something in common or in d past, ok and they broke up, and no wu think they have somethn going on? Ok, lets say, its either he doesnt wanna hurt u, or make u fink hes dating her, dats why hes sneaking and denying it cos just mayb u wont understand, but who would? A gurl he cheated with , or maybe hes actually cheating on u cos he has had a connection wiv her he cant hve wiv u, but now, my advice would be, dont be mad or upset or angry, try to look at d situation in 2 ways, prepare dinner, light some candles, do somethn really romantic and let him know how much you love him and cannot loose him, just maybe u 2 hvnt had a real good time togeda and hes seeking dat outside his home, dont confront him wiv cheating on you, i believe if a mans got all he needs inside he wont go looking outside, so make sure uve been paying some good attention to his needs and to him and you will win him back. But please dont try getting him jealous, cos u mite just loose him faster!

^^^ Agreed. More like a detailed explanation of my earlier suggestion.

your Husband sneaking into his ex- girl friend's house?? It says it all that he cheats on you with her. Try to save your marriage otherwise you are losing him.

Chi angel: Hmm, Prettyrich, calm down! Lets do the analysis, So he was double dating after he started dating u, meaning he cheated on you with her? But the gurl in question is someone he has known b4 he met you, so maybe they had something in common or in d past, ok and they broke up, and no wu think they have somethn going on? Ok, lets say, its either he doesnt wanna hurt u, or make u fink hes dating her, dats why hes sneaking and denying it cos just mayb u wont understand, but who would? A gurl he cheated with , or maybe hes actually cheating on u cos he has had a connection wiv her he cant hve wiv u, but now, my advice would be, dont be mad or upset or angry, try to look at d situation in 2 ways, prepare dinner, light some candles, do somethn really romantic and let him know how much you love him and cannot loose him, just maybe u 2 hvnt had a real good time togeda and hes seeking dat outside his home, dont confront him wiv cheating on you, i believe if a mans got all he needs inside he wont go looking outside, so make sure uve been paying some good attention to his needs and to him and you will win him back. But please dont try getting him jealous, cos u mite just loose him faster!

Nice one, but op, what's the update now

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kobikwelu:
no looong thing,

the guy is getting "free-kpomo"

we all know ex-sex is always sweeter that when both are dating

lol but na true o

prettyrich:
pls let me explain further,i new him 5 years before we got married.and this particular girl was introduce to me as a family friend then,she kept coming to visit us,and was always all over my husband then we were not married.b4 we got married i discover they were dating.which i confronted him with and he apologises and he broke up with her.six years into our marriage i found out they were still keeping in touch.but my husband keep denying it,not until i saw him visiting the girl.i decided to confront him,this to be sincere i did not take it likely,i even talk to the girl in disguise, came to find out that she was the one who realy want him back even has he has told her that he dont want to double date,this is what the girl told unknowingly to her,she thought was was discussing with her friend.sorry to say this the is 7 years older than me and she is not on the pretty side.

you dont know how tight her pusy is...do you?
Forget about beauty o...,there is something about her that keeps attracting your hubby to her honey pot...

prettyrich:
my husband and his ex still keeps in touch,but he keeps denying it.even wen i saw him sneaking into the girls house.he still denyed.

"i saw him sneaking into the girls house."---- I guess your phone can't take pictures
You should have followed in to the girl house for three some

prettyrich:
pls let me explain further,i new him 5 years before we got married.and this particular girl was introduce to me as a family friend then,she kept coming to visit us,and was always all over my husband then we were not married.b4 we got married i discover they were dating.which i confronted him with and he apologises and he broke up with her.six years into our marriage i found out they were still keeping in touch.but my husband keep denying it,not until i saw him visiting the girl.i decided to confront him,this to be sincere i did not take it likely,i even talk to the girl in disguise, came to find out that she was the one who realy want him back even has he has told her that he dont want to double date,this is what the girl told unknowingly to her,she thought was was discussing with her friend.sorry to say this the is 7 years older than me and she is not on the pretty side.

"she is not on the pretty side."
Sorry men cheating is not a about pretty some time
We men are generally greedy
Keep ur marriage together
The other girl might just be a good Bleep to ur husband

195:
thats what you women get when you marry a man within 2 days of meeting him

Please go with your BS
You might still know a man for 10 years and the man will still cheat
don't blame the lady

splitnaija:
You husband preferred you to his ex- that's why he married you. So take things easy with him, talk it over with him after a good meal and make sure you don't go threatening him or the lady. With time, he will definitely leave the lady.

oh its bulllshit!talking and don't understand what u talking. already that he is denying sneaking is a problem. pffff i wouldn't stand this situation!

kill him


or let's cheat on him



STILL Nairaland ;

raziboi:
kill him


or let's cheat on him



STILL Nairaland ;

U are so cheap
Looking for easy P

Relax ur husband just want to get his retirement benefits