Mandate2023:


U mean I will wait till after marriage b4 having sex with someone not a virgin.....u want to buy used market without testing..........as u r gullibly waiting someone else is doing it with her

VeryWickedSimp:


It didn't occur to you that he ran away because what he finally got was trash compared to the stress he went through?

brain54:

M.A use your imagination to complete…


She will never tell you the real ending!

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:


Listen ehn, you don't know me. I add values to men that come my way. I'm supportive, submissive, very beautiful and elegant , and I don't stress a man unless he cheats, which y'all eventually do anyway

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

mariahAngel:


You didn't complete the story.

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:


Lol. He happened to be someone we shared great memories together. Throughout, he never cheated on me, cared so much about me, respected me, and brought the best out of me. I still feel like he was able to stay loyal because I maintained the no commitment no sex thing.

Nairaland men can wail and cry but I feel like I know what I'm talking about .

Ohhh and he travelled. That placed a lot of barrier eventually

Dybala11:

So you believed that abstinence is gullibility??
Whatever rocks your boat bro. What happens to both sides waiting?? Abi na only female suppose stay celibate ni.

bluefilm:


Your advice is both good and bad.

Some guys will leave if they are not getting sex while some guys won't.

The problem there-in lies in knowing the type of man you're dealing with.

Someone like me, you can give sex immediately, you can give sex in the next five years, but one thing is sure: once I'm tired of you, I'm gone.

And it has nothing to do with the availability of sex or not.

mariahAngel:

It was never about what you did or did not do.
He simply wasn't the right man for you.

Mandate2023:



Why should we wait till after marriag?

Don't married ppl separate too?

brain54:


He probably was the right man but she was too busy with her manipulating ways she didn’t see it…

Imagine how nicely she described the guy.



One thing with opportunities sometimes is that when lost they can never be regained.

Oga Brain, wetin naa?

flexydote:


Talk is cheap bro.

I no dey believe anything wey person talk until I experience am first hand

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

mariahAngel:


Oga Brain, wetin naa?

Dybala11:

It's a free world, you're free to go for what you believe in.
By the way, do you believe that you'll get separated or divorced from your spouse when you get married??
This shouldn't even be the first thing that should come to your mind when married no to talk of when you're still probably a bachelor.

Mandate2023:


Leave story d question is what different does it make if u wait till after marriage, what's d essence of waiting if not to be dumped after doing it and am telling u what about those that divorce after marriage...60% of divorce r sex related, when u don't understand each other sexually u pretend and go into it then differences set in...who is decieving who...who gave u such believe of waiting till after marriage

brain54:

M.A but na true na…

Even you deep down you know. You no wan just criticize her and I understand that.


See if she had said you wanted to keep her virginity or remain chaste for her own self reasons/believes- maybe religious, moral or whatever reasons I won’t have a problem with her decision one bit. I will be the lone voice here to support her.


But see the word she used herself…” horde sex”. In economic terms you know the reason to horde a commodity? It’s to manipulate prices to go up. Manipulating isn’t fair.

She met a nice guy and instead of trying to make the relationship work she was busy scheming her way probably for her selfish reasons.

And she Dey proud to bring the matter here.


I just hope she changes her mentality before it becomes too late.


Maybe it was the guy that didn’t deserve her!

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies

Jeweltz:
We have been conditioned to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you. No.

I read a thread yesterday of a man dating a single lady who's denying him sex, but the man doesn't still leave her. See that .

Men are wired differently. A man will beg you for sex for many days and immediately you open your leg, he run away after hitting it and stop giving you attention that you deserve. Before you open your leg at all, make sure he's obsessed and his brain programmed to the thought of you alone. This is not difficult provided you don't show him how much you love him. Make him do the chasing. Men like that won't leave you.

There was a guy who was on my case. I like him. But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them. I hoard my love and I told him no sex. No amount of convincing worked. And he was always on his toes making sure he doesn't deviate from showing me love and care.

But still, most of our men are liars and could be getting the sex somewhere else.
That's why a woman should close her leg until you know that he will marry you. Don't fall for their lies