simbiatadesomi: I'm in, wizeboi has my no, sweety in room one

@Wizeboy, kindly add her to the MSMS group on WhatsApp.

salamun alykun brodas and sisters. concerning dis post about list of what u expect in a brother/sister doesnt sit well wif me.. i fink an ideal muslim/muslimah is enough reason and then transfer all d love of Allah And d Great Messenger onto him or her is sufficient.
or let me say dats my own list of a perfect wife ie (muslimah) and remember a good man will offer u marriage not Zina

^Interesting submission.

#Smiling

We discussed it here and it is becoming a reality Masha Allah https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms#26916659

We pray it would be a success.

Time to get maclatunji a wife ...

Good job, guys

tbaba1234:
Time to get maclatunji a wife ...

Good job, guys

You no well :-P :-P :-P

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maclatunji:


You no well :-P :-P :-P

We have our first set of clients here https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms#26916659

Everything starts with an idea, with planning and dedication and prayers, you can achieve many great things.

"It is my estimation that in almost all of these divorces, a primary cause was the meddling of the in-laws and extended family. Had the couple been allowed to work things out, I believe that 75 % of these divorces would not have taken place."

- Dr. Ali al-Tantawi


This famous Islamic judge saw over twenty thousand cases of family dispute and divorce.


I think, this is true in Islamic societies where Zina is relatively less prevalent. In secular societies, Infidelity should be one of the top reasons.

What are your thoughts? How do you handle family issues?

^ I think the major responsibility falls on the couple. The first step is agreeing they want to spend the rest of their lives together as a married couple.

The second step is to identify the factors that threaten this objective be it related to their families, professional aspirations or finance. They should then fashion-out strategies to mitigate these extraneous variables that might impinge on their happiness.

I am convinced that a successful marriage though a blessing from Allah can be better-facilitated with 2 good heads working in consonance with 2 aligned hearts.

A couple should trust themselves and share vital information to help their marriage.

So, if you know you have a troublesome uncle as a man, give your wife advance warning and tips on how to manage the person without being rude, the same applies to a wife. This will help prevent unnecessary crisis in the future where one spouse feels threatened unhappy and abandoned especially the woman.

It is not that simplistic.

Often times, family members are not out to destroy marriages but they do so inadvertently by meddling.

tbaba1234:
It is not that simplistic.

Often times, family members are not out to destroy marriages but they do so inadvertently by meddling.

Read what I wrote again. You should know those who have meddlesome traits and how to effectively manage them. I never said that your relatives must have malicious intent before becoming problems.

Sometimes the "big" problems of life can be addressed with simple steps.

Asalam Alaykum,

Someone asked me about this thread yesterday and I could not really say what happened to it. So, what happened to the thread? You all got married without telling moi? #LOL

^^^Sadly, it's not only this thread.

For those of you still not married, don't make the most important night of your life the one in which you displease Allah most. For it may be that Allah withholds all goodness and blessing from your union as a result. Keep your weddings simple and Sunnah and be a good example for others.

Prophet Muhammad (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.” [Bayhaqi]

- Sheikh Omar Suleiman

^Nice advice.

I don't know there is a thread like this on NL



Am following

deols:
to start with
guys, wat do u look out for in a woman
and ladies, wat characterises an ideal man

Salam...pls am new on this platform. I have issues I really wish I could discus with u..am quite reserved.don't know how porous it will b here but here is my pin-7c91911f.Jazakalahu khair

QueenLati:

Salam...pls am new on this platform. I have issues I really wish I could discus with u..am quite reserved.don't know how porous it will b here but here is my pin-7c91911f.Jazakalahu khair

hmmmmmm...I can't believe this is your first ever post and you are in dire need of seeking someone audience... # surprised!!!!!

So, we created a matching service https://www.nairaland.com/1935933/muslim-singles-matching-service-msms#27885585 for Muslim singles to get connected with a view to marriage. Out of the first 10 applicants, 7 are men and only 3 are women.

Sisters, any explanation for this disparity?

Brothers are also welcome to make comments.

Maybe they're not aware about the existence of the service...

baba11:
Maybe they're not aware about the existence of the service...

It is men that are aware?

Men are more likely to approach than women. That basic principle applies here as well.

maclatunji:


It is men that are aware?

I mean much awareness for females...

deols:
Here, am hoping we can talk as Muslims(wivout d dirty stuffs xterisn d romance section). Married people can chip in too. Aim is to discuss relationship matters in accordance with Islam nd to b able to solve problems Muslims face while trying to fulfill half of our deen.

Am somehow picky but not much Lil
I want him religious(I really want to learn from him too; at least listen to my recitation n remind me of some etiquettes) with loving,caring akhlaaq(xter), Tall(my height or taller cos am also tall),Good looks,neat/clean with good dress sense; great sense of humour(I love smiling);Eloquent in Speech and also generous to people generally...... Endless list really
May Allah grant me the one I will be so much contented with,and a companion to Jannah

baba11:
..We are on the verge of forming a committee to look into the possibilities of Muslims brothers and sisters hooking up each other through this platform..so far,we've got three volunteers:two brothers and a sister..If you are interested,you need to signify so that you'll be added to it...

Am just reading this,n I would like to join

maclatunji:
You have asked me for my definition of a Muslim diva and I have given it. I think it is fair enough that it is not every Muslim woman I come across with excellent qualities that I will like enough to want to be with. I have to really like you at a person-to-person level (and the way you look as well ).

A good question you might want to ask me is: Are you perfect yourself as a man? I am not, but I am working hard to make myself a better man all the time.

#Coughs
Becareful pls,not to break many heart(s)

toba:
spying

toba:
spying

deols:
Seems we know what many people want in their spouses,

Now ladies, if u find a guy with the Qualities you want, would you ask him out?? if not, why wouldnt you

and

Guys, to what extent would you go to make that lady yours?? and how best do you think that should be done

Its hard, for someone like me. I respect myself n i appreciate the little i get from people. Its gonna be a disaster if someone turns me down

maclatunji:
Women tend to want a longer time to think about it whilst we men want a quick answer. So you see your question is complex. In reverse, women also tend to take a longer time to get over a man if things have gone sour where love once existed.

Subhanallah! u just nailed this. Are u a psychologist,Marriage counsellor?