maclatunji:

Are you Nigerian?

Yup.

Tell us about you, nothing that is too personal though. Wacky characters full here.

That's a broad topic. Could you narrow it down?

Describe yourself in 300 words.

Hmmm?well,am looking for a deep muslim girl and not a surface muslim, surface muslims is kinda prevalent in the south west, i lived all my life in the north but am serving in the west so i know what i've seen so far,

maclatunji:

Describe yourself in 300 words.

That's a full page!

Anyway, I'm not too old, but old enough. Don't have a career yet, working on it. I love kids, enjoy domestic chores. However, I do NOT want to be a housewife. I take things lightly, and could be a bit immature sometimes, so if you are heart-attack prone, we are no match.

I'm not ready to get married right away, I don't do long-distance relationships/courting.

Sorry, it's not up to 300 words, I can't really describe myself in words. I let other people be the judge. If you could ask specific questions,  I'd be able to help you better.

tanimz:

That's a full page!

Anyway, I'm not too old, but old enough. Don't have a career yet, working on it. I love kids, enjoy domestic chores. However, I do NOT want to be a housewife. I take things lightly, and could be a bit immature sometimes, so if you are heart-attack prone, we are no match.

I'm not ready to get married right away, I don't do long-distance relationships/courting.

Sorry, it's not up to 300 words, I can't really describe myself in words. I let other people be the judge. If you could ask specific questions,  I'd be able to help you better.

Thank you for trying. Goodluck with finding your ideal man in your neighbourhood.

Thanks!

Toba!

wetin i do?

salam alaykum brothers and sisters, i just wanna say i so much love this thread, and the contributions that have been made so far.Though am not ready for marriage yet, i believe threads like this would go a long way in enlightening the single muslims, jazakallah khair to u guys and keep the thread active,

toba:

wetin i do?

I just dey hail ni o bros.

Is everything going well with you?

While we are posting what we desire in a woman/man, we should try to post what you have to offer too. We should not be in a dreamland where it is all about what we want alone.We must be able to complement each other in every aspect and compromise where necessary. If you are searching and feel that something real could come out of this forum for you, why not post ur qualities and your contact ( one that you can always ignore if you want e.g e-mail address).

Yeah, we should say what we have to offer. itsound as a form of marketing and no any marketer will de market his or her products.

@moderator

why did u delete my post?

Waoh!



dr are so many pple i wish I can reply but that wld b taking to much of my time.

@ bhusayor, u know I was hoping u cld join in d discussion all along not knowing uv bn following.

@ all new comers, it wld av bn more interesting if we had u on from d start but u all ignore d Islam for Muslim section nd wld only come when d topics get to d first page dats not good enough. We need ur contributions all d time. .SOmething tells me u'd yield

tanimz:

Is everything going well with you?

yes my dear. went off to attend to some life issues

deols:


Waoh!

kilo sele?

toba:

yes my dear. went off to attend to some life issues
kilo sele?

I was intrigued by d numba of replies. .

Iliveon:

While we are posting what we desire in a woman/man, we should try to post what you have to offer too. We should not be in a dreamland where it is all about what we want alone.We must be able to complement each other in every aspect and compromise where necessary. If you are searching and feel that something real could come out of this forum for you, why not post your qualities and your contact ( one that you can always ignore if you want e.g e-mail address).

d reason for dat is, the thread ddnt start as a meet up zone But one to allow pple share ideas. But its a welcome idea to any1 who wishes to share such info.

to start wv, y'all can follow me ...

I salute the master-mind behind this (Deols), also the maturity and the knowledge some of the muslim brothers and sisters in here posses, its quite laudable.

I also want to say a shout-out to my NL Oldies and friend MUKINA, its quite a long time.

Mine is simple and specific.

She must be:

A practicing muslim with Islamic background
Beautiful
Committed, responsible, caring and jovial.

Though not ready but you never can tell because ALLAH The SUPREME BEING and The ALL-IN-ALL in His MAJESTY is unpredictable.

My wants in a woman - 1. Religious (i.e understand Islam to some extent and can read the quran, if not, willing to learn) 2. Intelligent 3. Educated (at least a graduate) 4. MUST come from a good muslim home 5. Beautiful (eyes of the beholder) 6. Financially independent (working class) 7. Humorous 8. Not-quiet kind of person 9. Average height 10. I can still compromise some things

My offer - 1. Im religious (i.e understand Islam and perform Islamic obligations) 2. Humorous 3. Intelligent 4. Educated (2nd degree holder) 4. Financially stable 5. Handsome "facially" (though not too tall but not dwarf definitely) 6. Came from a muslim home 7. m caring and supportive 8. m person loving 9. Emotional (bad me). e-mail id lpinahmed@gmail.com

@Mukina2, thanks for undoing the spam bot. However, I want my post restored in the real estate section. Sorry to go off topic.

What a looooooooooooonng thread, something like a loooooong thing.

Good try by the initiator but how does this work when all xters exist virtually

@deols, I just followed you on twitter, buh wasnt able to send a personal msg, kindly follow back,

As regards contributing, I'm quite young for marriage,so I really dint see a point talkin about my man's qualities or mine, also, I'm not so knowledgeable about how issues like this should be done islamically, so I see this thread as a n avenue to to learn and get enlightened most especially because the active posters in here are learned n very intelligent.

I do visit this section very well and I know the active posters, and my admiration for you goes beyond initiating ds thread. I just contribute rarely.
Ma salam.

bhusayor:

@deols, I just followed you on twitter, buh wasnt able to send a personal msg, kindly follow back,

As regards contributing, I'm quite young for marriage,so I really dint see a point talkin about my man's qualities or mine, also, I'm not so knowledgeable about how issues like this should be done islamically, so I see this thread as a n avenue to to learn and get enlightened most especially because the active posters in here are learned n very intelligent.

I do visit this section very well and I know the active posters, and my admiration for you goes beyond initiating ds thread. I just contribute rarely.
Ma salam.

Sister , how young is too young. As long as you are over over 16/18 in this current envrionement i dont think you could be too young for marriage. HEven here in the west the age of consent is 16 and you could get married at 16 with the consent of your parents and independently get married at the age of 18.

PErsonally , i dont believe education is a barrier to getting married as long as one can delay child birth for couple of years to finish ones studies. I have seen people do it successfully and it saves one from lots of sinful acts and prevent indecency.

And God knows best indeed.

*smiles*, ok yeah I'm over 18 and I do understand that it prevents sinful acts as u stated, but I just don't see myself getting married,lol. I'm in my final year and even my project mate, an afar, as we usually call him once asked me what next after school and was surprised I dint say marriage. He also encouraged early marriage too and that further studies could be done in one's husband's house.I understood his points (same as u stated) but just laughed it off. He said he believs by the time I'm out of school n I get someone suitable, my orientation could change even befr service. He told me he knws parental factor could be a factor and I agreed. I can imagine my dad's attitude telling him I have a suitor and he wants to come and see you for to ask for my hand in marriage.

bhusayor:

*smiles*, ok yeah I'm over 18 and I do understand that it prevents sinful acts as u stated, but I just don't see myself getting married,lol. I'm in my final year and even my project mate, an afar, as we usually call him once asked me what next after school and was surprised I dint say marriage. He also encouraged early marriage too and that further studies could be done in one's husband's house.I understood his points (same as u stated) but just laughed it off. He said he believs by the time I'm out of school n I get someone suitable, my orientation could change even befr service. He told me he knws parental factor could be a factor and I agreed. I can imagine my dad's attitude telling him I have a suitor and he wants to come and see you for to ask for my hand in marriage.

******Daddy looks at you calmly and smiles, he is actually contemplating from which side to slap you from or whether to go and give your mum a verbal tongue lashing for not preventing these crazy ideas from floating in your head******

*lol*

what's with long list of requirements, can you also choose your destiny? this ugly people you pass by daily do need love too no matter they are of your religion or not. religion teaches us not separate but love including our enemies. who is perfect in here?