pansophist:
You don't give water to a man that is not thirsty and also didn't ask for it. Usually when you give advice to people that didn't ask for it no matter how well-intentioned, it may not be well-received.

Leave your sister alone, stop troubling her. If her ways are good or bad, reality will reward her accordingly. Though arrogant, humans think they can manipulate the structures of reality and go scot-free. Nope. What you sow, you shall reap. Results for the work of our hands may be delayed, but they shall be delivered.

MrBrownJay1:
there is a HUGE difference between giving someone a honest/friendly advice AND calling your aunt an evening newspaper, a demon etc.
who needs enemies when you have evil family members like you? i fully understand your aunt and i would have deleted you from my life too (if you had so little respect for me, as you do your aunt)!!!

what you wrote below about your aunt was WRONG WRONG WRONG!

Unyimekelvin:
I posted here somedays ago,how my aunty is searching for a husband with a good character but don't want to change her own character..

She such a harsh, aggressive being; i have ever seen on this universe 😕😡😡
She said i hurt her feelings with those posts nd she's not gonna forgive me...

she even cursed me,by saying i Will not have a peaceful home when I get married...😡😡😡😡 She has blocked my number.. She said I'm judging her nd she's not cool that!!

I need some advice please, should I apologize to her or let's it slide!!🥺🥺🥺🥺

I'm a bit nervous but I was doing the right thing now!!!🤔🤔😳


Aunty Helen, hope you are seeing this.🤞🤞🤞 ✍️✍️🤞

emapeteum:

You disgraced your aunty publicly irrespective of her attitude towards men. You are not in a position to do that.I could tell that your disrespectful type

Unyimekelvin:
■ I posted here somedays ago,how my aunty is searching for a husband with a good character but don't want to change her own character..

She such a harsh, aggressive being; i have ever seen on this universe 😕😡😡
She said i hurt her feelings with those posts nd she's not gonna forgive me...

she even cursed me,by saying i Will not have a peaceful home when I get married...😡😡😡😡 She has blocked my number.. She said I'm judging her nd she's not cool that!!
I need some advice please, should I apologize to her or let's it slide!!🥺🥺🥺🥺
I'm a bit nervous but I was doing the right thing now!!!🤔🤔😳 Aunty Helen, hope you are seeing this.🤞🤞🤞 ✍️✍️🤞

Unyimekelvin:
I posted here somedays ago,how my aunty is searching for a husband with a good character but don't want to change her own character..

She such a harsh, aggressive being; i have ever seen on this universe 😕😡😡
She said i hurt her feelings with those posts nd she's not gonna forgive me...

she even cursed me,by saying i Will not have a peaceful home when I get married...😡😡😡😡 She has blocked my number.. She said I'm judging her nd she's not cool that!!

I need some advice please, should I apologize to her or let's it slide!!🥺🥺🥺🥺

I'm a bit nervous but I was doing the right thing now!!!🤔🤔😳


Aunty Helen, hope you are seeing this.🤞🤞🤞 ✍️✍️🤞

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Codes151:
children these days.... small shout they don conclude say na abuse or say dey no love them... hmmm

TOPMAN4LIFE:

You have overstepped your boundary, she has her life to live, you can only advise her respectfully and stop if she doesn't take action on time,
It's one of challenges of life, her character might look bad to you but l have seen people with worst character getting married.
Calling your aunt evening newspaper is very bad, marriage is not everything in life,
You don't know what type of challenges you too will face in future.
When there is life, there is hope
Some of her mate have even died before reaching age to marry,
Some married and husband or wife killed them
So take it easy and pray for her as you respectfully advise her

Kobojunkie:
Your aunt is right. You were wrong for judging her in the way that you did.

There are lots of ill-mannered men and women in marriage --- marriage isn't some sort of reward nor is it only for those who believe well or meet your standard of good behavior. You are very wrong to suggest she must first change before she can find herself a partner out there. You are even more wrong to suggest she must do so because she is a woman.

MrBrownJay1:


i thnk the above message was for the OP....

INDUSTRIALFAN:
I didn’t read a single word before this comment but I can tell you for a fact that if truly her attitude is terrible, regardless of whether it is towards men or women, you are not wrong. She is not a god and anybody can be spoken to to act right.

Do not apologize…. She world doesn’t revolve around her ageing body. She is pained that someone she is supposed to be wiser than is the one who is wiser than she is and she can’t stand it. Move on jare.

emapeteum:

He disgraced his aunty publicly irrespective of her attitude towards men. He is not in a position to do that. I could tell that he is a disrespectful type. Sorry for the initial error

jubrilELsudan:
ABEG SEND ME HER CONTACTS CAUSE I FOR LIKE FVCK HER

jubrilELsudan:
ABEG SEND ME HER CONTACTS CAUSE I FOR LIKE FVCK HER

Unyimekelvin:
✋✋Say something nice,stop acting like a crab!!✋

ednut1:
It looks like bad character runs in una family

libertyfather:
Ur antee on nairaland? Omo you bad ooooo

Bennysam:

It wont do anything

nairalanda1:


Do nothing for now

Tine will come when she realizes that she has to woman up and change her style, or else life would pass her by. At the end, you can't change your aunt, your parents cannot change your aunt, no one can change your aunt. Only your aunt can change your aunt.

Just don't put private matter online too. Not every issue should be posted online. Not everyone likes it.

Kemadealadire:
Your imaginary aunty right.

phemsie:
what u wrote wasn't an advice na.

i had to go and look up what u claim was an advice.

u were abusing her that, at 35 she's frustrated and she should go and marry. that was going to far na.

TOPCRUISE:

How the hell did she knew you were the one that make that post.

slam7000:


Stay away from people and that include relatives and friends who swear at you and say offensive things like your aunty.

People like that do things with lots of emotion, they are not rational. Stop trying to correct them....stay very far away from them. They are sinking and want to go down with you.

Stay away, avoid her like disease.

Modified:
I read a comment that you called her out and said that she was 35 and should go and marry !!. Did you post that sir?

Samuel807:
Nairaland has turned into a family problem forum. No wonder legends are no longer on Nairaland.

Exceed15:
Why did u post her story on public view? Na her life n she go meet am for front if she no change. Just apologize n stay away from her life.

Yankee101:
If this is a real story why using her name?

Intrepid01:
The most dangerous people on earth are people who don’t want to change for the better. They are a danger to themselves, people around them and humanity in general. They are mostly women (many men are too), they are the “just take me as I am crew”…..,Aunty no one will take you as you are, you had better work on yourself and get better. Afterall, the biggest room in the world is the room for improvement.