I won't live under the same roof with her.

vickydevoka:

I know a rich woman that fuxks around, the house can’t do anything. If he talks too much he won’t eat infact he might be kicked out. It’s all about who pay de bills

Hmm irony of life

Yes of course in as much as she showed enough remorse for her action. Besides it's FOR BETTER AND FOR WORST we agreed

MrBrownJay1:


TRUE, but we all understand why some women prefer to stay in these yeye marriages in Nigeria.
Marriage in Nigeria is a do or die mission. many women's sole goal in life is to be called "Mrs" at any cost. the Nigerian society/culture looks at an unmarried woman as a failure, thus why people can still look at Genevieve or Linda Ikeji and tell them to go find husband to marry (even after their success). so its understandable that when women in Nigeria get married, they would rather stay married at any cost than divorce. these women would rather be miserable in marriage than lose the "Mrs" title. so i cant put myself in their shoes, but i certainly wouldnt want such miserable life for my loved ones....

but, regardless of why these women stay married and/or if they would find another husband after divorce, the IMPORTANT question IS: is it right for a woman to stay married to a man who has no respect for his wife/himself/their marriage?!

John terry,Wayne rooney cheated and there wife didn't leave.....isn't only a Nigeria thing.

Puss360:

Lol... U aren't doing the woman a favour by getting married to her....
Divorce her... e no hard ...
Lol.. u think only men can rent house... "send her go her papa house"...
Lols...
You have a long way to go...
Better be a respectable man, coz some women go level you....

I never said I'm doing her a favour.
A divorced woman can rent a house by doing hookup/ashawo to pay for the rent.
The rented house fit serve as brothel for men to come Bleep her.
As for being respectful, respect is earned, not given to undeserving pple.
A woman can't be equating herself to men & still demand respect. That's not how life works.
Your problem is that you tend to overrate yourself as a wife, thinking that because you has pusssy, so your husband has to bend over backwards & consent to your whims & caprices.
Last, last, your eyes go clear
Bye, I won't reply you anymore, I'm a very busy man

Jman06:
Most men don't recover from being cheated on You must be overrating that snail in between your legs!

If I hear say I lose sleep over a cheating wife other than just sending her out of my house.

I'm sorry you think it is snail that is in between the legs of the women in your life, that's definitely not what is in between my legs.

Since you don't lose sleep over it, good for you.

Uptheante:

The man can also have other kids outside who will take of him at old age

But you have trained HER KIDS and she will be spending time with them and they will love her

While you as the man is taking a chance with the new family that you plan to raise elsewhere

Forget the game is rigged against us in that dept

Uptheante:

Talking senselessly .
Assuming your husband cheats on you & you decide to revenge by cheating on him with another man so that y'all "live the adulterous life" based on your foolish reasoning.
Can you force your husband to continue staying with you in the marriage if he decides to divorce you because of adultery?
You bleeping bitches seem to overrate yourselves & think that you can do everything a man can do because feminism have deceived you into thinking that adultery by a woman has the same consequence as that in a man.

Let me make it clear to you, if you cheat back on your husband because he cheated on you, he will send your dirty ass back to your father's house so that you'll continue getting fuucked by the other man while you are in your father's house.
He will then replace your dirty ass with a more beautiful & sensible wife & life continues

Life in the real world does not EXACTLY work like this though

You want to raise another man kid wit olosho. De dia

Yes and what the OP forgot to mention was that, the husband of the cheating wife never tried to satisfy her. He just climbs for 2mins, same style everyday and doses off immediately afterwards. No thrill! nothing!
She wanted more but her fault was, she never discussed it with her husband.
She loved sex quite much probably due to her childhood trauma.

salisuammy:

Movie name is "Addiction" right?

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

Until you are thera it's a firm

I will forgive her on to things

One tell me the reason behind it. Who nos I may I may be one is

Godoverevery:
John terry,Wayne rooney cheated and there wife didn't leave.....isn't only a Nigeria thing.

BWAAAAAAH you must have amnesia, by all means let me refresh your memory with the below footballers then...
RYAN GIGGS's wife divorced him because of cheating, he had to pay her $52m divorce settlement.
PATRICK EVRA's wife also divorced him due to cheating and having 2 bastard children while being married to her.
THIERRY HENRY's wife divorced him after he had an affair. he had to pay her $8m divorce settlement.
ASHLEY COLE'S wife divorced him after he cheated, she got $4.5m settlement even though she had a $20m fortune of her own.
LOUIS SAHA lost half his fortune thanks to divorce, but instead of infidelity, it was gambling addiction that crashed their marriage.
WESLEY SNEJDER's wife divorced him over infidelity and took away 15m divorce settlement too.
DANY ALVES's wife divorced him due to infidelity as well.
DAVID JAMES's wife divorced him after cheating rumor and got $3m divorce settlement
ACHRAF HAKIMI's wife divorced him after he had an affair (that the babe claimed was rape while he claimed it was consensual). he was lucky to dodge that massive bullet.

If she has money and can take care of me, why will I let her go? How will I let an asset go? I am a businessman.

Uptheante:

Trash
If man try that with you wetin you fit do?
Independent lady indeed, you try any rubbish I go send you to your papa house.
Make you go do your independent bullshit over there while I replace you with a more beautiful woman

Auto divorce. A woman that cheat is not to be trusted. A man though can cheat and still love his wife but not the same with a woman that cheats.

Rayban25:


yes its better and mind you i dont condone cheating in a marriage. but im just trying to let her know that consequnces for cheating are never the same. thats what most ladies dont understand. chioma and annie know that their husbands are cheating but they havent left them. have you ever asked yourself why?

may edochie comes to mind

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

Oga, men usually don't get hit in society when they cheat like women do and the reason is, women are special to be seen appearing lose.

A door opened by all keys is a bad key. The one key that opens all doors is a masterkey.

No. Never

PussyGalore:


The same treatment should be given to both male and female

yes, but unfortunately this is reality and not fantasy.

IconicR:
lies, a woman will forgive and forget totally because somehow African women are weird to believe that all men cheat.

is not entirely true
I was cheated on for long
This is the third year l still feel deeply hurt
No one will understand.
The scar is there and no amount of apology can erase it.

Ndidi2:
is not entirely true
I was cheated on for long
This is the third year l still feel deeply hurt
No one will understand.
The scar is there and no amount of apology can erase it.

Just let it go and try to put it behind you especially if it's not a habit with him. If he's truly sorry and remorseful and not those type that feels it's their right to cheat and very proud about it (the men are polygamous in nature group) then erase the hurt from your heart even though I know it's not easy, just try.

IconicR:
Just let it go and try to put it behind you especially if it's not a habit with him. If he's truly sorry and remorseful and not those type that feels it's their right to cheat and very proud about it (the men are polygamous in nature group) then erase the hurt from your heart even though I know it's not easy, just try.

l hope to finally let it rest even though is hard.
You make my day with those words
God bless you..

Ndidi2:
l hope to finally let it rest even though is hard.
You make my day with those words
God bless you..

You too dear, it's one of those things in life, people we love will hurt us but we must learn to grow past it for the love of God and kids if you already have any with him.

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

Sadly, it is how it is

That's why a woman can falsely accuse a man of rape and the man will be prosecuted without hearing his side and even after finding out that it is false, the woman won't be persecuted..

Some things favours men and some favours women

IconicR:
What if the man cheats, what should happen?

If you pack out because your husband cheats, don't be surprised that the girl he cheated with will take your place in the house.

If you cheat on your husband, the guy you cheated with will rarely want to take you as a wife if your husband drives you out.

Only a foolish woman competes with a man on cheating.

Ndidi2:
is not entirely true
I was cheated on for long
This is the third year l still feel deeply hurt
No one will understand.
The scar is there and no amount of apology can erase it.

If you are a forgiving woman and a believing Christian, you would forgive him.

The hurt will only affect you..

Let Time wípé it off your mind...

IconicR:
So a man can cheat and go scort free while a woman who cheats deserves no mercy or forgiveness, how do you feel typing that?

There is nothing to feel about that

Instead of being blinded by emotion, use your reasoning.

IconicR:
lies, a woman will forgive and forget totally because somehow African women are weird to believe that all men cheat.

Have you ever heard stories of women who kill their husbands for cheating?

freeborn02:


If you pack out because your husband cheats, don't be surprised that the girl he cheated with will take your place in the house.

If you cheat on your husband, the guy you cheated with will rarely want to take you as a wife if your husband drives you out.

Only a foolish woman competes with a man on cheating.

If I pack out because my husband cheats and he had the guts to bring in the girl he cheated with then I'll forever be thankful for taking that decision. Real men put in great effort to mend their issues and go all out to keep their home intact and not allow randines break it. Well, I'll never marry rubbish as a husband, never.

freeborn02:


Have you ever heard stories of women who kill their husbands for cheating?

That's obsession at it's peak which is very bad. You simply walk away if a marriage is affecting your sanity, you can't change a man from his ways just because he's your husband, the decision to live responsibly and respect his vows is solely his to make.

DenreleDave:


If you are a forgiving woman and a believing Christian, you would forgive him.

The hurt will only affect you..

Let Time wípé it off your mind...

Adenrele my lover
stop snubbing me online and chasing me on my dm

I know a few men who accepted their wives back even after cheating on them. It all depends on the situation