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^^^ Present continous tolding hehehehe! i laugh in egungun.

It is playing we are.

heeee! chei, just fall off my chair, heh! oga don catch me today for NL.

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We has been joking jokes. . . Ha! Find excusing to be gave oga!. . .

Nayah:

Sexkillz I was refering to http who said I"m playing with you  
Anyway you have your opinion I respect I got mine and I think we can't agree each other, because we see marriage in different wayas for friendship and couples

Sir_Butty:

i will end my rant with the definition of cheating in marriage. it is robbing your spouse of their rights or benefits or property (sex, time, money etc) and giving same to a non-spouse.

Dirac:

Until I joined Nairaland, I did not realise a lot of ladies lack common sense. How can the idea of a male best friend even be vaguely realistic. Look at it the other way, would you like your husband to have a female best friend?

Nayah:

hehehehe here we go, who talk about sleeping here? listen dear brother now I'm talking about myself, [size=20pt]sleeping with my best friend would be like an Inbreeding judging from our link which is like family[/size] and again I know some couples which have their own friends "best friends" and everything is fine, the most important is: your partner has to know all about your surroundings, if you hide it then he would have the right to be suspicious, but if you have nothing to feel guilty about there's nothing to worry about

Dirac:

Until I joined Nairaland, I did not realise a lot of ladies lack common sense. How can the idea of a male best friend even be vaguely realistic. Look at it the other way, would you like your husband to have a female best friend?

ibx1976:

Its so hard to admit it when you are wrong Anyway. I'll allow you an escape route from this difficult situation you put yourself in. Lets accept you misunderstood the post from the start and thought best friend can also mean a close family member.  
Absolutely!

Dirac:

Until I joined Nairaland, I did not realise a lot of ladies lack common sense. How can the idea of a male best friend even be vaguely realistic. Look at it the other way, would you like your husband to have a female best friend?

sexkillz:

^^She watches too many Romance Movies!

oswardic:

NAYAL

Something is definitely not right with your point or maybe am not getting you right. BEST MALE FRIEND means something more than your placement. For a strong and long lasting relationship, there's always a strong defense of not letting what happens in the home get outside, not even parents talkless of a friend, I'm definitely not saying somethings shouldnt be let known to your parents. If that is the case, what do you need that EXTERNAL BEST MALE FRIEND for? I need an ANSWER, List to me what you NEED from that MALE FRIEND NOW! and lets judge it one time. We all understand how relationships occur, firstly, making friends, getting to know each other (Emotions Growing) and feelings getting involved, and later the heart is not able to hold it anymore but to let out what it feels and before you know it, something serious occurs and you are known as BF/GF, Fiance/Fiancee, Now tell me, what do you think having MALE BEST FRIEND would occur to in the latter? I am waiting for a reply as soonest.
Lest I forget, how much time do you spend with your so-call brother thing? Whats the length of what you people discuss?
Marriage has its responsibility, and doing away with old time friends as in reducing your closeness is one of the major responsibilities. Meaning if they use to be your very very close friend, then that turns to a FRIEND, infact a casual friend.

Nayah:

Sexkillz, I think you don't get my behaviour, I'm not saying something to have right, I have convictions and troughout my short experience in life I expose my point and I defend it

The majority is not always right and we learn everyday, remember this is a discussion not a competiton

I dont get! What Majority? The ones against male best friend?
Hope you understand that the majority is against male best friend! Not male friends!

Now lemme ask you? what principles do you allow to guide you, or do you fashion your life after?
Religious Principles?
Societal Principles, or?
Cultural Principles?

And which of those Principles advocates a male best friend to a married woman? Pls school me!

Sexkillz, I'm protestant, and in the bible there's no line about having a male best friend as sin, plus as I repeat so many times what you share with your husband is uncomparable with what you share with your best friend!

If you able to make diffrerence between your wife and your sister, then the case is closed, if not  then you have a big problem

sexkillz:

I have a big problem? I dont think so! Now, Is there a line that says having a male best friend is NO sin? If i'm to digress a little, do you smoke cigarettes? I'm guessing No! is there a line in the bible that describes smoking  as sin?

And you keep mentioning what you share with husband is incomparable to what you share with your best friend, but you still fail to pinpoint those things you should share with your best friend and why you should share them with your best friend and not your husband!

Seriously what does that last sentence mean? If i cant differentiate between my wife and sister? I cant equate my sister with any random woman out there, that i call a best female friend! My relationship with my sister is totally on another level, as there are things about me that my sister knows, that probably my wife would never know, because she grew up in the same household with me! Not dat i'll meet someone, make her my best friend and you tell me she is my sister?
Now, if you still cling to that school of thought, can you now differentiate btw your blood brother, and your best male friend? Huh?