BigBelleControl:
ok If money grew on trees, girls would date monkeys.

N3TRAL:
Relationship is not for the broke 😂

Awesome01:


If love, dating and marriage is transactional like you said, why are females the only gender bent on monetary values?. Are they the only ones making the relationship work?

Or are you saying only guys gains from the relationship? So they should be ones to always pay with money for ladies attention ?

AllBlack:

Why the heavy emphasis on NIGERIN WOMEN as if they invented this behaviour and it is exclusive to only them? Do you sincerely think it is any different with ALL THE WOMEN from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Anufemeki1:
Nigeria women are the worst when it comes to begging for money and material things even same day you begin to talk to them. It is very appalling as many other women from around the globe dont behave this way.Say hi to some Nigeria girls and the next responseis buy me hair or pay my rent as if they dont have a family they came out of.It is very shameful.

DaddyCoool:


Pinsure or idonbelivit

jayAjoku:
okay o If you will do what I tell you on your own no wahala just google Stanley Kubrick, now after that I want you to go to YouTube and watch footage of the original moon landings now watch it with the knowledge that there’s no air in space and the suns light is traveling 93 million miles to reach earth then ask why all of space is dark when you can see stars from the earth ask yourself while watching o , when you see the part where they are using a rover on the moon ask yourself why the dust on the moon doesn’t float it just falls back to the ground knowing there’s no air in space . I sha know you won’t do it you will just reply me with one nonsense again and YouTube is on your phone o

Jazmine10:
Because when a man loves, he gives instinctively. Men are natural providers. So a man that cannot give to his woman does not love her. Albeit, you can give without loving a person but you cannot love a person without giving. Hence giving is a strong indicator but unfortunately abused.

SweetDipBenny:
True tho but una own too muuuch

AllBlack:

Why the heavy emphasis on NIGERIN WOMEN as if they invented this behaviour and it is exclusive to only them? Do you sincerely think it is any different with ALL THE WOMEN from Latvia, Croatia, Japan, Iran or Canada?

in life, everything between two humans (male or female or both) is a business transaction. Everything. Even a simple handshake involves giving and getting mutual respect or feeling or recognition or approval.

The good thing is, you have the option of walking away from "THE OTHER PARTY" if you feel their "business" ethics doesn't suit your standards instead of complaining. That is where maturity comes in.

Kobojunkiee:

●You seem to be having a hard time seeing it still. Is the sex you have with a prostitute which you pay for different from the sex you have with your girlfriend which you don't pay upfront for? Isn't it all the same penetration, pleasure, hormones, etc.?

StrongAlphMale:


If you claim love is GIVING, why can't you GIVE financially to him too? Or do you hate?

DaddyCoool:
■ It is NOT about the sex, it is about the payment. There is a huge difference between preparing a nice meal for your neighbor in hopes of later borrowing his lawn mower, and asking him if he'd lend you his lawn mower in exchange for a nice meal!

Mamci:
Blame the Nigerian men that would rather throw money around than woo a woman
A real man doesn't need to impress a woman with money

Kobojunkiee:
I am afraid I don't follow at all. They are both transactional interactions. So where is this difference you claim?

DaddyCoool:
■ There is HUGE difference. The first type you are being neighborly, doing something altruistic - it will give your neighbor a warm feeling. The second type is a straight transaction "give me this in exchange for that" - there's no humanity, no warm feeling!

englishmart:
When a Nigerian woman complains that she doesn't get good men as suitors, what they're saying in effect is that they're not getting rich suitors.
They are all able-bodied parasites.

TalkTalkTwins:
truth is, it's not even about poverty or anything.
girl will visit you, you'll spend 30k for feeding in a week and the moment she spends 5h on bike to the market, she'll be on your neck.

when you complain they'll be like, 'are you not sleeping with me', 'am I not bearing children for you'?

just accommodate them my man and pray to have enough to take care of your children and wife (adult child).

TalkTalkTwins:
truth is, it's not even about poverty or anything. girl will visit you, you'll spend 30k for feeding in a week and the moment she spends 5h on bike to the market, she'll be on your neck. when you complain they'll be like, 'are you not sleeping with me', 'am I not bearing children for you'? just accommodate them my man and pray to have enough to take care of your children and wife (adult child).

Offpointng:
Was driving back home and decided to get something from a shop close by and Behold these two young adults probably in their 24/25years with the lady heavy, Obviously they're married or maybe got plans to

Now they both manage this small shop but if you see the way they both were playing with joy on both faces and the pregnant lady helping him out. Mehnn my bones weak and I asked myself how was this guy lucky?? Like finding a young beautiful lady to support you even in your low state. Infact the way I was smiling like a Ram in the car while watching them both shocked me.

Told myself I have to buy something from this people either I need it or not. Bought some #1,200 something, gave her 2k and asked she keep the change for my baby that's coming, she smiled, thanked me and prayed for me

Entered again and asked me, how did this guy got lucky?? Most guys like us whose level increased without finding love in our broke state finds it very hard to trust women. As for me, if we're still in talking stage and I figure out you're after money i instant ghost and totally ignore you

GOSPELTRUTH31:


I believe you're still a teenager!
Listen to this Timeless advice.

Love is the most meaningless word on Earth if it cannot pay bills, solve problems, make life healthy, etc

If you want your love to be meaningful you must provide
I bet you will hate yourself if you don't have money

Grow up!

Anufemeki1:
Nigeria women are the worst when it comes to begging for money and material things even same day you begin to talk to them. It is very appallingas many other women from around the globe dont behave this way.Say high to some Nigeria girls and the next responseis buy me hair or pay my rent as if they dont have a family they came out of.It is very shameful.

Jazmine10:
Because when a man loves, he gives instinctively. Men are natural providers. So a man that cannot give to his woman does not love her. Albeit, you can give without loving a person but you cannot love a person without giving. Hence giving is a strong indicator but unfortunately abused.

vickydevoka:

Is very simple, get a lady that loves you more and be open to her. That’s the secret of long lasting marriage. Leave watin pastor de talk

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

theInfinity:
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Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

theInfinity:
I have come to realise that many Nigerian women think that the only way for a person to prove their love is by giving them and they stylishly tag it being "caring".

Even a criminal can spend on you when dating you and deal with you when he finally marries you.

Funny, most men may not be able to give because they are struggling but that doesn't mean they don't care.

Why has friendship with many Nigerian women become transactional.

A sugar daddy can still give a lady but the truth remains that he will go back to his back at home and will never divorce her to marry you.

Please beautiful Nigerian women, let's stop making a relationship a business transaction.

ade4real2016:
■ They will never see sense in this epistle at all...Let them continue nah... Consequences await anyone that does not listen....

22o62021:
Broke girls with entitlement mentality everywhere