Offpointng:


Read my last paragraph again

Offpointng:


Read my last paragraph again

Revolva:


True but a Nigerian girl.will leave ur sorry asz for no good reason without looking at what you have done for her

They are not good creatures these days




One i scope just 3 days ago at a bar , she served me drink the next day don de say make i buy her fone, so pathetic with her , why are some gals just senseless

Kobojunkiee:
♧■●¥₩£€●You choose to see it that way does not remove from the fact that it is a transactional interaction nonetheless. In both cases, deals are reached by those involved.

jimcaddy:
in the UK, who do you want to use money to impress? When almost everyone can afford the basics for themselves. Sex is also not cheap abroad like it is in Nigeria.

Kobojunkiee:
And how many men give this commitment you speak of?

Lordbinsmar:


But guys and ladies gain one or two things from the relationship. You have to understand the dynamics of relationship. For a guy maybe safe sex, emotional support etc depending on the type of guy. For a lady money, protection etc depending on the type of lady involved.

Life itself is a business, nobody does anything in this life without been beneficial.

If you feel you are againing nothing from a relationship you better quit unless you are stupid enough to be used by others.

AllBlack:


And let me tell you again. Even rich babes & guys look into prospects, social & financial status, social benefits and other factors when relationship or even sex is involved. The demand might be indirect or bit-by-bit but it will happen.
You think wealth equivocal to behaviour? think again. It is just like saying kids from rich homes don't steal or lie. It is a behavioural trait.

Like I said before, not all females (and even males) are so materialistic or focused on benefits in relationships. It all depends. And if you find yourself with a demanding person and it doesn't work for you, then there is option to leave rather than complain.

Case closed.

jayAjoku:
okay o If you will do what I tell you on your own no wahala just google Stanley Kubrick, now after that I want you to go to YouTube and watch footage of the original moon landings now watch it with the knowledge that there’s no air in space and the suns light is traveling 93 million miles to reach earth then ask why all of space is dark when you can see stars from the earth ask yourself while watching o , when you see the part where they are using a rover on the moon ask yourself why the dust on the moon doesn’t float it just falls back to the ground knowing there’s no air in space . I sha know you won’t do it you will just reply me with one nonsense again and YouTube is on your phone o
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TheVictorious:

The other guy was right. Do you know what Maslow's hierarchy is?

benqo01:
■ Tell me how many women wants commitment all dey want is a man that will buy them gift,give them money that is their love language dey re too blind to see!!!!

DaddyCoool:
■ Not true AT ALL. The first type there is no quid pro quo - the recipient of the meal is under no obligation to do anything. Not everything is transactional. Just the other day I tricked a beggar into thinking he found a substantial amount of money which I intentionally dropped. Straight charity - no transaction involved whatsoever.

DaddyCoool:
It is NOT about the sex, it is about the payment. There is a huge difference between preparing a nice meal for your neighbor in hopes of later borrowing his lawn mower, and asking him if he'd lend you his lawn mower in exchange for a nice meal!

DaddyCoool:


What I don't understand about people like you is that you'll ignore all real experts and things starring you in the face and instead focus on some nonsense some kook posts on YouTube.
Russia was in a breakneck competition with US who'd get to the moon first. They have never ever even hinted the moon landing could have been fake. Neither did China.. They took their defeat gamely.
No real EXPERT in such things (including Elon Musk) has ever even hinted the moon landing could have been fake. Always some kook on YouTube with points that have long been debunked! Get your head out of YouTube conspiracy theories so you won't be making a fool of yiurself!

AllBlack:


Please tell me that Maslow's principle only applies to Nigerian women or that it is not obtainable in other countries (or environments) with respect to their economy and IMMEDIATE the present situation of the subject.

Kobojunkiee:
The first took a risk and made an investment with the hope it would pay out in the future. If the neighbor refuses to reciprocate, does that change the fact that the one who offered him the meal hoped for a meaningful transaction to follow?

DaddyCoool:
■ So it is same to you if a girl has sex with you because she "loves" you and enjoys sex with you, then later asks if you'd lend her 20K; compared to a girl charging 10K for 15 minutes of sex?? If they are both same to you, then u r really weird!
As I've told you, there's transactional, then there's TRANSACTIONAL!

Kobojunkiee:
Look, we pretend all these are somehow different so we can feel good with whatever delusion we subscribe to. The fact is the very sexual instruments and hormones are employed in both cases so whatever differences we claim exists between the two acts are not based on evidence but ideas and ideas/beliefs are subjective.

DaddyCoool:
■ There is nothing subjective about the difference of a girl ENJOYING sex with you partly with hopes of later getting money, and a girl briskly selling sex to you and watching the clock while at it! There is a world of difference between the two if you are a normal hetro male!

Kobojunkiee:
Like I said, the difference you insert between those two transactions depends on the pill wey you dey swallow at any given point in time..

It is the same for most everything. A woman having sex with her husband and a woman having sex with a stranger.....na the same sexual organs and orgasms all of them fit get, just they each choose to interpret the encounter differently based on delusions at work.

DaddyCoool:
■ Everybody knows sex is more than sexual orgasms - ugly or deformed women have exactly same sexual organs! It is NOT subjective the difference between a girl moaning for more and a girl watching the clock and complaining you should hurry up!

DaddyCoool:


You obviously haven't lived in the inner ghetto. Same thing obtains wherever there is poverty and want

Kobojunkiee:
Is there a particular reason why you feel their is gain is trying to get me to see this through your particular decision/religion at this point?

Most everything in this world -- including those who like to believe have value---- are meaningless to begin with. The value/meanings we give them comes from the particular delusion/religion/ideology we hold dear at any given point in time. You realize this and you will see this for what it truly is.

DaddyCoool:
■ Why would I try to convince someone who chooses to NOT live in the real world about anything? In the REAL world there is a HUGE difference between the two scenarios. Only in the world in your head are they the same!

jimcaddy:
This cannot stop because you see the country we find ourselves in has effed up our minds mentally. Many Nigerians are psychologically effed up. I won't blame us, it's the situation of the country. We see everything as opportunity to get something out of someone. The poverty level in Nigeria is so high, despite the resources that this nation has. Nigerians shouldn't be going through hardship like this. Other countries who don't have up to half of the resources we have are doing way better than us. It's a sad reality we find ourselves. It's so hard to date these days that it's better you either do "friends with benefits" or just stay single for life. Every Nigerian woman is wired the same way with their thinking. It's so sad honestly. But like I said it's poverty/ hardship mindset that has affected us all.. in the UK, who do you want to use money to impress? When almost everyone can afford the basics for themselves. Segggz is also not cheap abroad like it is in Nigeria. You can't just give anyone money and knack her aboard unless say na hooker. But in Nigeria, even good girls that can from decent families don turn hooker finish. It's a scourge, a serious one.

englishmart:
When a Nigerian woman complains that she doesn't get good men as suitors, what they're saying in effect is that they're not getting rich suitors.
They are all able-bodied parasites.

Dancebreaker:

In any clime without social welfare system and there is rampant economic insecurity, relationship is transactional. It's business and everything else is secondary or a bonus.
The bolded will be difficult because women are overwhelmingly economically worse off. It's about survival.

However, women with enough income can lead the way. We have to be realistic.

The problem now is even most well off ladies still feel entitled to a guy's money, irrespective of his pocket strength.