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Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by popoola33(m): 9:48pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
hoo girl na d most crazy tin u do. But all d way, u can still abstain and kp dat to ur self. Since it is only 1nce d gai nak u apako. But d only advice i just gona give to u incase of next time is dat ' Juge nt ur beauty by d number of pple who luk at u, but by d number of pple dat smile @ u'. K |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by SamMilla1(m): 9:56pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
You watch too much TV |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by ferdiking: 11:04pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
am sorry for his action but he just took the step before you cos sooner or later you would be the one asking for BREAK. Once beating |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Cdspencer(m): 11:37pm On Oct 20, 2011 |
Ehya and i ve been lukin 4 a virgin since. All d ones am doin don disvirgin since. I wld 've treated u lyk an angel if u were mine. Sorry shaa! U wil get ova it soon and start enjoying d quontolombia! Don't worry, sweet lyf could be found somewhere else. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by seedord247(m): 2:41am On Oct 21, 2011 |
I don't know why people no sabi be read weller. The op say no be the Virginity they pain am . . . . . Na the lost wey she get for the Guy they boil her heart. @OP You should be happy you lost your virginity to a yound Guy like you. Some of the ladies here on NL lost their Virginty to Teachers, Okada man, Suya Seller, Politicians, Agbero, Bus Conductor , Pastor, Alfa, Baba Alawo, Cult Guyz and co. . . . so don't be disheartening girl, you just need to move on and take your time to look for the right guy that's awaiting you. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Rogerss(m): 6:00am On Oct 21, 2011 |
@ poster, we just heared wat u told us. wat did u do to make him wanna get a break? I no from on my part i told a girl am still crazy for to give me a break so as to concentrate for my prof. exams, coz she always brings up something to quarrel about everytime and its really distracting. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by cynthiafred67(f): 10:12am On Oct 21, 2011 |
One thing I have learned in life is not to cry ova spilled milk, d deed has been done now it is time 2 learn 4rm ur mistakes and move on wit ur life try 2 pull ur self 2 geda and focus on ur studies. No man is worth ur tears And one more tin WELCOME 2 THE CLUB, |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nymphnode(m): 12:01pm On Oct 21, 2011 |
You wont really enjoy sex with most newly disvirgined for the next 2 years. Its either your are teaching them posture or telling them where to lick. Most of them still cry of pain for everytime you pump. I believe he is only trying to tell you to get some sex education. Learn from porn and give it back to him. Thrust me, its better to practise with the first guy, your can leave when you are ready for serious relationship. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by mopol2(m): 12:36pm On Oct 21, 2011 |
@op u mean the memories won't fade abi ? well make u go buy harddrive make u take store am , u wa dey lie,shey no be u open leg for am say make him skin do u ? so Bleep all this lie u giving us here , girls self with bullshit, abeg leave here jor and if u like dey open leg like dog make u no learn . |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by ashabibaby: 10:37pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
its ok hun, i kow its hard but u have to move on babe! |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by magikalz(m): 1:42am On Nov 15, 2011 |
Yeye gal,wetin u de complain about.U lost ur virginity to him.Go find am na, abi de guy steal am.Serves u rite.When d guy d wire u,u no enjoy am?Y d complaints now?Because he probably wants to leave you,u hav remembered ur virginity. Well,too bad.You had beta get up and move on.This guy don tear race.Mayb u kitten no sweet am?As far as am concernd,jst giv me de formula he use scatter ur brain sote u com open leg.E get one joncin gal i wan use am on.I hav had enuf hrtbreaks myself.Time to dish out some to others.Too bad!! |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by nuela100(f): 2:04am On Nov 15, 2011 |
@poster u have to move on with ur life sh*it happens but the second lesson here is never shed tears where nairaland is concerned cos some of them will make u feel more miserable than u already are |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 2:49am On Nov 15, 2011 |
Sorry ehn, Next time look b4 jumpin into any relationship |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 4:25pm On Nov 15, 2011 |
Op na me tell u make u go sleep with roadside mechanic? |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Chiori(m): 12:09am On Dec 28, 2011 |
@Bashybabe, you've been punked. Did you just turn 14 years old? You are not the first, neither will you be the last to be test-driven without being bought. I would do same thing as he did. After all, why buy what I can always borrow. Besides, whenever he calls you to get over to his place, can I shock you? You will go for another round of test driving. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by pato405(m): 10:59am On Dec 28, 2011 |
pulled yur pants for somone who hasn't paid yur bride-price. . u craze well well. yur future hubby will surely ask you about it because it's his right you just gave away freely |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by AlexOrha: 12:13pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
How long did it take you 2 give your self to him? |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by AlexOrha: 12:18pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
If it took to long before u submitted ur self to him, i'm sorry my dear you have already exhausted him. Believe you me, he's had his fair share of the relationship he's neva coming bac. That's what u get for being selfish |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by pato405(m): 12:20pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
this kinda stories just gets mi pissed. . wahtever happened to the days when women valued and treasured their virginity, keeping it till they got married. how come our own time and age is just full of B-ITCHES and strumpets who just pull their pants once they get to the age of self awareness that they've got a hole down there. ALL CRAZY FORNICATORS. and even after marriage, some of them still return to their vomits by finding their ways back to these guys who used them before marriage. they'l screw them again and again. the brain mass of women is just getting smaller and smaller by the generations. our own girls of this generation already have theirs less than a housefly. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by driek: 4:27pm On Dec 28, 2011 |
my dear dats life for u o, jst deal wif it and move on, mine sef is similar jst dat we did not av sex.me and dis guy got hooked up thru a frnd on bbm, we were talkin and all shit he seemed realli sweet and nyc and we later decided to meet,even after we met i still liked him and i felt he liked me,he ewas always csllin me to cum see him den i decided to go see him in in skul p,we kissed and romanced we did not ave sex sha cous i told him i was a virgin and not ready to ave sex now, after d kissin and romance i left his ouse,will u guys believe dat he stopped callin me,we even hardly talk on bbm, dats ow life is o and bois,i begin to imagine dat wah if we had sex wah will he ave done, jst be careful in dealin wif guys,we cant run away 4rm dem we nid dem, wish ya all d best and be careful in ur nxt decision |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Britta: 2:49am On Dec 29, 2011 |
that is a very hard way to learn, but trust me on this. you will never listen to any man's lairs till you die |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 9:18am On Jan 15, 2012 |
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Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 9:19am On Jan 15, 2012 |
Me* not Mw |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by cyrexx: 10:02pm On May 15, 2012 |
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Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 10:13pm On May 15, 2012 |
bashybabe: I dnt knw the meaning of a break but I know it means break up after he promised not to break my heart and giving him my body he dumped me he told me he's needs a break hav never done anytin wrong to him dunno what I v done to deserve this I ♥ d guy so much av bin cryin 4 dayz , pls nairalanders when a guy said he needs a break or wanna be free for a while what does it mean unfortunately this is the reality for millions of women/girls. That is why our mothers are NOT lying when they say it is VERY important to leave these boys alone until you are ready (mentally). Men do not mature at the same rate as women. Most boys/men when conflicted emotionally or in effort to escape the emotional part of dealing with women, will run unlike us who prefer to "talk it out". He may in fact be taking a genuine break to gather his thoughts and figure out his next move but my girl, get all of the tears you have and cry it out. Get the frustration out of your system so you can be stronger! Give it time and your wounds will heal. Whether or not he comes back is irrelevant!! It's a hard thing to think about but you will understand soon enough. Take this as a VERY important lesson: a man will do and say everything to get in your pants. You must accept his words as wind and instead go by his actions. If it's "real" he will work for your love, affection and then think about s3x. Anything less than that can wait or is just not even worth it. *this thread is old but the topic is STILL relevant. So any girl going through this, trust me you are not alone...just be smart about how you give your heart and body to a man. 1 Like |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by babsomotde(m): 8:29pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
sORRYY...But may God grant you a new heart to replace becos mending it may remember you of the experience. He is through with you. THAT'S all. |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nella(f): 10:47pm On Aug 31, 2012 |
@ poster I hav gat to say dt u hav some portion of d blame here. I doubt ds ur guy was evn a smooth criminal frankly he jst sounds immature n so do u. Whn a guy z usin u 4 sex u wld knw. So long as u r a smart chic, so also whn a guy doesn't rili lov u. U missd d warnin signs. U hav to endure d pain, its d harsh truth. Shine ur eye next tym n dnt b xpectin no Harlequin romance |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Adeemman: 1:58am On Dec 13, 2012 |
Sorie Ooooo
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Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by poshpimkiey(f): 2:05pm On Feb 27, 2013 |
lindabon:madmoiselle, u harsh o. D fool is heart broken and crying stupidly n u're being so nasty to her. Nne ndo o. Which one is paining u, d soreness, d fact dat u were such a bimbo or are u missing ur hymen. Btw do u hv to cry when u're deflowr'd not raped? He didn't force u na n i'm sure u were all @give me more u bad boy% dat day. Pls let us hia word biko. Anumanu |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by poshpimkiey(f): 2:06pm On Feb 27, 2013 |
lindabon:madmoiselle, u harsh o. D fool is heart broken and crying stupidly n u're being so nasty to her. Nne ndo o. Which one is paining u, d soreness, d fact dat u were such a bimbo or are u missing ur hymen. Btw do u hv to cry when u're deflowr'd not raped? He didn't force u na n i'm sure u were all @give me more u bad boy% dat day. Pls let us hia word biko. Olopolo dudu |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Soglad(f): 7:08pm On Feb 27, 2013 |
Ariyke: Bashybabe i feel ur pain but urs is beta my own guy wey don nearly propose neva told me 2 give him space i just went 2 his mummy's place and he came their with another lady to introduce 2 them after we dated 4 3yrs believe me am still wondering wat i did 2 deserve such, it happened 2sundays ago so just pull urself 2geda life continues i believe there are better guys 4 us out there!!@ Ariyke never mind, ur husband will locate u soon. In as much as i want to get married, i get scared wen i hear dis kind of thing.dont ve a boyfrnd |
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by nichole2(f): 10:07pm On Jun 20, 2013 |
Thank u God for my life all de warnings my 5brothers gave me never leave my ear, I kukuma don't hv emotions never fallen inlove dats why am still a virgin ah eledumare ese oo fun aye mi , ah aha awon okunrin buru |
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