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Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Negroid001(m): 3:12pm On Apr 20 |
nnenwa5: Yes they all are. Including your mom and sister too. No offense 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Villa12(m): 3:13pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001:No one said you should marry a liability but thinking you want a girl you both earn same in Nigeria sounds really funny. Don't get me wrong, i never said it's not possible. It's hard to come by though but possible. Just have it at the back of your mind that you may likely marry late 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by folake4u(f): 3:13pm On Apr 20 |
nnenwa5: What is this? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Negroid001(m): 3:13pm On Apr 20 |
pocohantas: ? |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Negroid001(m): 3:14pm On Apr 20 |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Villa12(m): 3:15pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001:for a man obviously. You are looking for something possible but hard to come by so you shouldn't expect it come on a platter of gold. It will be easier for you if you're from a wealthy home. But if you build yourself to limelight then getting a woman within same class is always hard to come by bro. We didn't say you should marry a liability. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Villa12(m): 3:18pm On Apr 20 |
BlackRainDrops:simple I don't know why some guys like to decieve themselves. It is cultural. It is the norms. The children bear your surname 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by nnenwa5: 3:19pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001:Na me call your sister olosho?. You no attack the guy, na me wey point am out to you, you dey attack? Na wa ooo 6 Likes |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Tallesty1(m): 3:20pm On Apr 20 |
pocohantas:Be like you wan forcefully hold his johnson one place make his piss foam. |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Negroid001(m): 3:23pm On Apr 20 |
nnenwa5: No vex my guy |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Villa12(m): 3:24pm On Apr 20 |
Aplaudez:if she's someone you plan to settle down with then i see nothing bad in it. Guy na money wey no dey. All these things na small thing , expecially to someone you like. Guys that are doing it are not fools. They have the means and are very much capable. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Ifyok50(m): 3:30pm On Apr 20 |
[quote author=UjuJoan2 post=129539785] You can raise your standards all you want, marry a billionaire if you like. You will still be a provider, that is your role as a man!!! No woman wants to suffer through childbirth years, thinking of how to cater for the family financially too. Gender roles are clearly defined and nothing you men do can change that. Except you want to start growing human beings too for nine months, 2 years of your life spent on pregnancy and nursing a child. That’s 6-10 years of a woman’s life based on average household size in Nigeria. Oga, if you are not financially capable, who will cater for the home if your wife has to quit working because of health challenges associated with childbirth? I like your sister abeg. If she stays with the broke guy out of love, what’s to say he’s not going to turn on her tomorrow when he becomes rich. If you don’t want to provide for a woman, then don’t get married. Don’t even date. Become celibate and adopt kids. Nobody is forcing you to get married! Because trust me, any man who is not a provider can NEVER have respect in that marriage. Go and ask poor married men. The woman might provide but your role as a man will be diminished. Women can only support broke me up to a certain point. If a man takes advantage of the woman’s understanding and becomes lazy and dependent, my dear it will not end well for the man. As a matter of fact, that’s why some rich ladies never settle for broke guys. Because it’s easy for a man to get too comfortable and forget his role as a man. Even the Bible says that any man who does not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. How correct are you! Very true! Wisdom no go finish you. Men, please, let's take what this fellow has said. God, go help us. 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Verbtips(m): 3:37pm On Apr 20 |
Sonnobax15:equation balance man+money----->woman+money |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Avast(m): 3:39pm On Apr 20 |
Kingrshd3: Hmmmmmm Marriage is a different game altogether. No matter how experienced you are before marriage, you will still face challenges from your spouse. I thank God for the one I married. But the question is do you think the woman that you want, wants you in return? 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Fredoh(m): 3:51pm On Apr 20 |
Bookhub: …and they were opened by his sister. What a sister!! |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Johnn78: 4:06pm On Apr 20 |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Balistic4: 4:23pm On Apr 20 |
luminouz: Your last sentence is underrated. A woman that TRULY listens to you and CARE for you is gold |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Nonywendy(m): 4:27pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001:I believe u sir. But if actually u have made it in life and decide to help one girl escape from poverty u can do it but make sure she loves u like mad |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Dpopsman123(m): 6:01pm On Apr 20 |
Very true. Some people can be very selfish and self centered. Only a very few people can be happy and contented with their lazy, damaging and self complaisant class. That's why they use short term love/marriages with higher classes as an escape route. Enough of wickedness Wickedness! Be the change you want and attract same not lesser or more. Peace! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Dpopsman123(m): 6:10pm On Apr 20 |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Dpopsman123(m): 6:17pm On Apr 20 |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by xtianchris(m): 6:18pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001: From the write up you can see his weakness Earnings or not If you have a partner with Ethical intelligence you good to go.. She knows the game and she plays it well. Only have relationships with Responsible moral Girls .. Avoid Toxic girls . For your sanity Sake ...Lead and she follows... 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Dpopsman123(m): 6:21pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001: Shy your eyes prayerfully everyone. Poverty is wicked, Avoid this kinda peeps anytime ! Shun every Gold diggers in your life !! Be guided !!! 1 Like |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by iamtoofan: 6:36pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001: Her earning or status might be what consideration but setting it as a priority ... bro you are might kick off on the wrong foot Lemme chip in these, submission and respect stem from a woman naturally if she can see you(man) are above her in all ramifications Almost every woman seek a man above her class, and i think your misplaced priority for finance might make you miss the real qualities you should be looking out for No matter how much a woman earns she wants to chop her man's money stead, while her money remains her money ... so why stress 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Kelechi009: 7:16pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001: Everyone on this thread that you're arguing with an exception for Gerrard are living in Nigeria & they still have the backward mentality that their sole responsibility is to lift women from poverty, so every thing you say is flying over their head. I read your post and I hear you loud and clear. Please just know that you're on the right path, the average Nigerian man believes they are suppose to marry a girl from Makoko informal settlement and place her on a monthly salary. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by dmz1: 7:36pm On Apr 20 |
okoroemeka:oga how the agric ministry now!! |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Badmashiii: 8:00pm On Apr 20 |
zed7: How can i give this a million likes? Bro you're very smart. Relationship is all about money and power. Men let's stop fooling ourselves. Most men go purposely go for ladies beyond their economic class because that is their only leverage in a long term relationship. Do you really think a lady earning same income or higher income than you would consider a marriage with you? In her mind she's already "settling for less " if she marries you. Women hypergamy and pride makes them believe that a man must be absolutely superior to her to be her "EQUAL". 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Karleb(m): 8:05pm On Apr 20 |
Gerrard59: This hypergamy thing doesn't end with money. There's good look. Popularity. Competency. Youth. I believe there should be others too. Let's talk about these too. 4 Likes |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Lekan239(m): 8:15pm On Apr 20 |
Sonnobax15:u either work hard, be the sole giver and provider in your household like dangote and get rest of mind... Or u share bill and be washing plate for ous.. Mam wey wan share bill suppose share house chores too |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Badmashiii: 8:29pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001: Two captains can't control a ship. Definitely it will sink. Among influential people marriages,one party must surely be more influential,rich or powerful than the other. 2 Likes |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by Ajaxjay1996: 9:09pm On Apr 20 |
qtguru:... |
Re: Why I Can't Marry Below My Economic Class. by NothingDoMe: 9:12pm On Apr 20 |
Negroid001:Hmmmmm |
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