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| He Wants An Abortion! by Sijo01(f): 7:33pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
They'v been dating for sometime now & according to her, dey'r planning of getting married next year, bt she's currently pregnant 4d guy & he want her to abort d pregnancy. wat do u think & wat sud she do? |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Natasha2(f): 7:37pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
when they were doing it without condom shey he was happy? she shouldn't do it haba for what is it the baby's fault? |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Goldieluks: 7:38pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
he should go and do an introduction at least,instead of aborting the pregnancy. 1 Like |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by MrCork17: 7:42pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Sijo01: Sijo01. so u want to abort?  |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Nobody: 8:26pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
@poster having a baby is NO SMALL MATTER, so if BOTH of them are not EMOTIONALLY/PHYSICALLY and FINANCIALLY ready then she best do whats right and wait until the time is RIGHT. if she has the baby regardless of his advice, this man will probably resent her, in the long run, for forcing him to be a father when he was not ready. . . . . . . . remember, having unprotected se.x and enjoying the coochie has absolutely NOTHING to do with the responsibilities involved in raising a child. dwelling on the when/how/why they had unprotected se.x is irrelevant right now . |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Nobody: 8:39pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
[size=14pt]Planning to get married and already planning to murder his baby!. . . Pathetic And when complications arise from the abortion that could render her womb useless in future, he'll turn around and blame who? Her, Himself or God? People can be stu[b]p[/b]id at times. . . Smh! [/size] |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Andrew3(m): 8:43pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Natasha,,:kai not that, he is too young to be a father. It was the work of the devil  |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Agybabe(f): 8:49pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
He doesn't love her enough. Chikena! |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Sijo01(f): 8:53pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Mr, Cork: Dnt wory ur baby is safe. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Sijo01(f): 9:03pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Agybabe: dat waz d same fin i said. bt pipo ar saying am nt been reasonable. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Spclst900: 9:10pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Agybabe:seriously, the guy na chop clean mouth even if the soup stain am for shirt him go jik am. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Agybabe(f): 11:43pm On Nov 12, 2011 |
Later if there arise any complications, he go dey blame the gal say why she no do stubborn head to kip d pikin. Abeg make them seperate, foundation no good. Yamayama. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by tellwisdom: 1:40am On Nov 13, 2011 |
anGINbabe, hw many abortions have u had??  . Truth be told |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Nobody: 5:58am On Nov 13, 2011 |
@op, u r d one who is careless here! because he proposed is nt a yardstick for u to allow unprotected se.x, unless ofcourse he openly makes it clear he want u to get pregnant b4 marriage. Girls, be very careful wit ur bodies, because u r d ones who will bear d brunt of too many abortion in future. BE WISE!. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Agybabe(f): 1:07pm On Nov 13, 2011 |
tellwisdom:What a question! There are two ways i can answer your question. An abnormal way and a normal way. But because your name suits me more and better and because of my name and personality i will answer a normal way. I have never done an abortion and will never try it come what may, because life is involve. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by oyinbogirl(f): 2:14pm On Nov 13, 2011 |
should you go ahead and have one simply cause he dont want? He didnt mind when he was having his way with you, now he should accept the consequences if he is a man. Any idiot can father a child, i take my hat off the the REAL men out there who are proud enough to care for what is theirs, even when times are tough! OP trust me you will regret it all your life if you go ahead, you wont know what blessings that baby mite bring you 1 Like |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by eghost247(m): 2:17pm On Nov 13, 2011 |
tough one depends on the circumstances they are in, meanwhile i do not support abortion in anyway at all |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 2:31pm On Nov 13, 2011 |
Na dem know. The guy is probably chillin wit the okpos while the girl, worried to death |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Sijo01(f): 12:32pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Boyloaf: oyinbogirl: I appreciate u guys 4 ur response but plz get it right. dis'nt abut me. & my post made dat clear. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by 195(f): 12:38pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
^ I pray - anyway how did your abortion  |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by nuela100(f): 8:31pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
He doesn't seem to be real, If not why would he risk an abortion? |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Cuddlemii: 9:05pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
This is a very daft situation. The typical pregnancy denial and lack of responsibility tale. The guy obviously does not love the babe. He was ready to marry her but he is not willing to accept their baby. What a sick joke! Its quite unfortunate that the lady is in this predicament but its also a lesson for ladies who deceive themselves with procrastinated profits, dividends or outcome. Its even good she is pregnant at least they don't need to fret about impotency or bareness in marriage. He doesn't need an elaborate wedding again, the money should be used on the baby, they can just do something small. But if he insist on abortion, I don't know the best advice as this is a very dicey situation. I mean what if the lady is destined to give birth to only one child in her lifetime or she looses her womb out of unforeseen circumstances like electrical failure or unsterilized tools or an inexperienced doctor, They need to thread carefully, I pity the lady. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by neyostica: 9:20pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
@op pls tell her to keep the baby and give her life to christ so she can have peace |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Nobody: 9:27pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: where did the guy denied the pregnancy or lack responsibility? he just decided that it was TOO EARLY to have a child. who knows? they may not be ready financially to have a child, not ready in their employment situation or living arrangements. saying that a guy lack responsibilities when he uses his brain and decide that it´s best to have an abortion (because they are not ready to care for a child) IS being responsible in my world. the irresponsible ones are the ones who go ahead and have a child (or even children) when they CLEARLY aint ready to properly care for one (for the next 18yrs). everybody has s[b]e[/b]x today, even bums living under bridges, should any Hot and stoopid fools out there have kids when they CLEARLY cant take care of their own selves?! |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Cuddlemii: 9:54pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: I see the bolded was the only point that manifested to you right? Whether he denied it or not, the fact still remains that he is telling her to have an abortion which is even worse than denial. Like I earlier stated what if the lady looses her womb, dies or develops a complication in the process, what happens? Or you think life is a fairytale where you get away with all manner of things. Secondly, if it were to be your loved one or sister or family member, would you have allowed her fiance or bf ask her to go for an abortion? Even if you accept and she dies, how do you want to live with the guilt. Its even better they give birth to the baby and give the motherless baby homes or welfare to take in the baby for some years till they can find their bearing, they visit the baby regularly and take the baby once they can stand on their feet. Have they tried seeing they can get help in raising the child. So many options other than abortion. Dude, we are all finding a solution for the couple! Chill |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by freecocoa(f): 10:09pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
No need for long post,the guy doesn't love the girl period,that's all I have to say. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by 195(f): 10:23pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
^Freecocoa when are we doing our abortion |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by coogar: 10:37pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Sijo01: maybe they won't let them do the wedding in the church. . . .naija churches and their rules and regulations. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Sidmond: 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
That guy is not yet a man, he is but a boy. If his problem is that the church wil not accept to join three why did he not abstain as the church rules state. There should b a test for males n females to show that they r now men or women cos no b by stature,d lady in question should think deeply n follow her heart. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by freecocoa(f): 11:03pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
190_@:Athink you no dey fear me again abi?as if your thing can impregnate a woman,don't be deceived o just incase AMY comes to tell you she's preggers for you. |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by 195(f): 11:08pm On Nov 14, 2011 |
Hmm Amy |
| Re: He Wants An Abortion! by Njgirl1: 12:17am On Nov 15, 2011 |
first I wish d dude in question were d poster that way I would scold his backstabbing arse into 2020 but this should be a lesson to the ladies ; women have been stood up on their wedding day so just cos u re wearing an engagement ring dosnt mean u re sure. What on earth did the lady and man think will happen when they do it without protection abi dey no do biology mtchew now the son of a bitch wnts her 2 kill an unborn human being. Abortion is murder we all began like that. My advice to the woman keep the baby and start searching 4 a new man |
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