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Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 2:55pm On Nov 13, 2011
no.
buzugee:

well they do say we are all made in his image and as such we are all endowed with enlightenment. i just choose to engage mine as often as i can or it will be a waste of endowment. dig ?  grin
there you go again trying to downplay your momentous achievements
we might be made in his image but you are especial
and we all bow before your awesome illustriousness
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by buzugee(m): 2:59pm On Nov 13, 2011
aribisala0:

no. there you go again trying to downplay your momentous achievements
we might be made in his image but you are especial
and we all bow before your awesome illustriousness
lol now you are just patronizing me. i do detect a hint of sarcasm.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 3:02pm On Nov 13, 2011
danda swami.
Ogun forbid that i be among the sarcastic
or that i am counted among the proud who fail
to reconize the enlightened and
visionary
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by buzugee(m): 3:10pm On Nov 13, 2011
aribisala0:

danda swami.
Ogun forbid that i be among the sarcastic
or that i am counted among the proud who fail
to reconize the enlightened and
visionary
LOL you got jokes. but yeah, we thank Yahweh for bestowing us with the understanding and knowledge to carry forward without stumbling.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by Kobojunkie: 3:40pm On Nov 13, 2011
plaetton:

@Op:
Thanks for raising this topic. I amazed at how some have tried to derail and trivilize this issue. I am ven more shocked as why the mostly females are somehow trying to justify prostitution. Prostitution has always and will always be with us, but to say that it's somehow ok is very sickening. Which young girl grows up dreaming to be a LovePeddler and which mother or father dreams to see their daughter as LovePeddlers?.
Our entire value system is inverted and perverted.A while ago, I had known a guy in lagos whose sole business was taking girls to europe for prostituion. i had seen parents bring their daughters to him, he sample would ask them what they could do and not do, and they would swear to juju and so many disgusting things. All for money?
This idea of "success" and "Making it" is totally out of countrol. It is the same reasons that a 23 yrd boy thinks that he should build a house and drive a flashy car .
Just walk into any campus in Nigeria ans its like one giant brothel. For a nation that produces almost nothing, why how does every girl want to have more money than people who are working? By the time they graduate, what type salary can possible satisfy their lifestyle. I have  heard tscary and horrible stories of what nigerian school girls do for money.
If you think prostitution is ok, ask any former LovePeddler. they have already died as many times as they have had se.x with man.
Yes poverty brings in all sorts of social vices but each person has clear choices to make. What about dignity, does that not mean anything anymore?  We have young girls who plying all types of trades like dress making , hair dressing, trading, etc. There are always choices.
Do you know all the nasty, perverted and degrading  physical abuse and psychological trauma that these girls suffer everyday
?
We cannot make excuses for greedy people who choose to dregrade their humanity to lowest level for money.
Lets face the facts,Our society is  sick. prostitution is not the problem, it is just one of the sickening fallouts from the deeper issues that plague our society.

WOW . . . You wove back and forth there, but I am glad you finally arrived at the problem. Prostitution is only a result of deeper issues we have-- deeper issues many of these gals were exposed to, that pushed them to ACCEPT a DEHUMANIZING existence such a the one many of them chose.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by deluxecad(m): 4:21pm On Nov 13, 2011
There can never be a justification for prostitution. There is always something worthwhile and productive to do rather than prostituting one's body.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by GenBuhari(m): 4:34pm On Nov 13, 2011
Rather than saying shame on Nigerian girls we should be saying shame on Nigeria as a nation, that our girls are forces to go abroad just to earn money from postitution.

It is also an indication of the racism in spain as it appears that options for Nigerians in that country is limited this is why you do not hear of the same situation in countries like the uk which is less racist than many other european countries like Italy and Spain
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 4:39pm On Nov 13, 2011
not necessarily racism you must speak the local language that is a big barrier
imagine a black man/woman in nigeria who only speaks french
i know for a fact that these countries offered free language lessons to those granted asylum
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by GenBuhari(m): 4:46pm On Nov 13, 2011
and if you are not granted asylum?
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by logica(m): 5:21pm On Nov 13, 2011
What's all the noise? The investigation should start in Edo State as we all know what's going on. Many documentaries have been done on this matter alone.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by publisher(m): 5:34pm On Nov 13, 2011
This may sound out of place but i prefer street pro$titutes to executive bit(hes who sleep their way to the top and still earn the respect of our society. The former most times just wants to get paid for sex with no evil motives,the latter is evil personified, and dem plenty for Naija.

Both still get fhucked like dogs though tongue
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On Nov 13, 2011
^^^^ If you were to discover tomorrow that your sister/girlfriend/cousin was a prostitute, would you also think the same of her? That she is being fked like a dog? Is that the same hateful statement you would make then?
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by Nobody: 5:46pm On Nov 13, 2011
Sadly majority of the African LovePeddlers in Europe i.d. as Nigerian which further adds
to the negative reputation. People need to realize that there is a reason these
women and OTHER women around the world do these things. Often times
it's to feed their children, help out families or in the case of Cameroon,
most of the times their own husbands and fathers send them there for the sole
purpose of selling their bodies for profit.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by Basics007: 5:46pm On Nov 13, 2011
buzugee:

lol now you are just patronizing me. i do detect a hint of sarcasm.
Lol. I'm quite suprised it took you so long to know he was being sarcastic. Actually it's the exchange btw u 2 i'm following in the whole thread
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by BlackBaron: 5:48pm On Nov 13, 2011
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by kayode256(m): 5:48pm On Nov 13, 2011
These girls that i witnessed are nigerian ( there is no need to be indenial as this is a publicised problem that most people are aware of)

On one particular occasion i was on holiday with a group of friends in spain and we were looking for a good rave/club to go to.  i then saw one pretty black girl wandering holding leaflets so i assumed she was promoting a rave or event.

i called her over, when we started talking she was speakin both pidgin and yoruba) Confirms she was nigerian). I asked her what she was doing in spain, this being a normal question minorities in europe ask one an other when meeting 4 the first time. she confirmed wat i was thinking and said she was promting clubs in the area.

She was very young but i was happy for her as i genuinely believed she was out there makin honest money. At that time i thought nothing about prostitution.

After we had finished in the club on the way back this is when i saw a group of at least twenty harrasing the white drunk clubbers for business  and guess what she was among them.
shocked


I saw them in the city centre everyday whilst i was there it made me feel sick embarassed

some looked like they were as young as twenty (some were clearly much older in their early thirties)  or maybe it is just the stress making them look old, (me i dont no sha)

after that occassion later on in that week i could here one of the younger ones speakin yoruba so i called her over and i said to her ("agburo why you dey do this kind work??)

she just gave me one evil look like she was goin to kill me lipsrsealed so i kept shut and carried on walikng,
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by all4naija(m): 6:17pm On Nov 13, 2011
plaetton:

@Op:
Thanks for raising this topic. I amazed at how some have tried to derail and trivilize this issue. I am ven more shocked as why the mostly females are somehow trying to justify prostitution. Prostitution has always and will always be with us, but to say that it's somehow ok is very sickening. Which young girl grows up dreaming to be a LovePeddler and which mother or father dreams to see their daughter as LovePeddlers?.
Our entire value system is inverted and perverted.A while ago, I had known a guy in lagos whose sole business was taking girls to europe for prostituion. i had seen parents bring their daughters to him, he sample would ask them what they could do and not do, and they would swear to juju and so many disgusting things. All for money?
This idea of "success" and "Making it" is totally out of countrol. It is the same reasons that a 23 yrd boy thinks that he should build a house and drive a flashy car .
Just walk into any campus in Nigeria ans its like one giant brothel. For a nation that produces almost nothing, why how does every girl want to have more money than people who are working? By the time they graduate, what type salary can possible satisfy their lifestyle. I have  heard tscary and horrible stories of what nigerian school girls do for money.
If you think prostitution is ok, ask any former LovePeddler. they have already died as many times as they have had se.x with man.
Yes poverty brings in all sorts of social vices but each person has clear choices to make. What about dignity, does that not mean anything anymore?  We have young girls who plying all types of trades like dress making , hair dressing, trading, etc. There are always choices.
Do you know all the nasty, perverted and degrading  physical abuse and psychological trauma that these girls suffer everyday?
We cannot make excuses for greedy people who choose to dregrade their humanity to lowest level for money.
Lets face the facts,Our society is  sick. prostitution is not the problem, it is just one of the sickening fallouts from the deeper issues that plague our society.
Hookers are even too close to talk about, there are lots growing to become pornstars!
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by publisher(m): 6:36pm On Nov 13, 2011
Kobojunkie:

^^^^ If you were to discover tomorrow that your sister/girlfriend/cousin was a LovePeddler, would you also think the same of her? That she is being fked like a dog? Is that the same hateful statement you would make then?

Being 'fhucked like a dog' is a relative statement,there are many non-pro$titutes (male and female) who are still being fhucked like dogs by their respective partners. What's hateful about that statement? I really dont understand ur point o.

Pro$titution in Nigeria most times is a voluntary decision,though forced pro$titution also exists (which i totally abhor). If any of my female relations VOLUNTARILY decide to go into pro$titution in Nigeria or overseas,that's entirely their own choice and business,i go kill am? Highest i express my reservations in its strongest terms,if dem listen, FINE,if dem no listen,still FINE.
Everybody get him/her own life to live.


PS: I have a very close 'fhuck buddy' who recently (against my honest counsel) relocated to Milan and is now a pro-Ho over there. She's still my pal and we chat online occasionally. I aint no hypocrite.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 6:39pm On Nov 13, 2011
personally i prefer chicken f**king . brief and straight to the point grin
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by dady2011(m): 9:01pm On Nov 13, 2011
Aljazeera English profile a documentary titled - "People  & Power - The Nigerian Connection"  focusing on  Italy. It is a must see for all those who care about the plight of our Sisters in Europe to understand the risk that they put their live through to make those quick money (Euro) that they throw around when they finally visit home.

The debasement of womanhood that too many Nigerian girls/women in Europe go through in the name of money is unimaginable. No wonder many find it dificult to find a real good husband after screwing around in europe. The result unfortunately is that many just have children without knowing their real biological fathers to beat their biological clock, and the unlucky once get infected with STD/HIV/AIDs and return quietly to die in Nigeria without the opportunity to use/enjoy those easy money that they made from the trade.

Below is the link to the complete documentary in two parts (part 1 & 2) for your viewing. I like to see how many of you will still encourage your Sisters, Mothers, Wives and Daughters to go to Europe for prostitution after watching this complete documentary:

Part 1:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMef3Xt0IHk


Part 2


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xw-aaFPLOdw
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by snthesis(m): 9:20pm On Nov 13, 2011
so dats wat happened to Busybody shocked shocked shocked
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 9:38pm On Nov 13, 2011
GenBuhari:

and if you are not granted asylum?
it must be racism!!! no other explanation
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by GenBuhari(m): 9:44pm On Nov 13, 2011
Yes, because we know that these countries are notoriously racist and black people are mainly shut out meaningful empoyment.

That is why the same situation does not occur in less racist countries.

aribisala0:

it must be racism!!! no other explanation
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by sultaan(m): 10:06pm On Nov 13, 2011
The leaders should be proud that their young girls are for sale on European street and males are running scams all over.The evil of some will overshadow the good of many because we tend to point a what is wrong instead of fixing it.
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by sultaan(m): 10:11pm On Nov 13, 2011
publisher:

Being 'fhucked like a dog' is a relative statement,there are many non-pro$titutes (male and female) who are still being fhucked like dogs by their respective partners. What's hateful about that statement? I really dont understand your point o.

Pro$titution in Nigeria most times is a voluntary decision,though forced pro$titution also exists (which i totally abhor). If any of my female relations VOLUNTARILY decide to go into pro$titution in Nigeria or overseas,that's entirely their own choice and business,i go kill am? Highest i express my reservations in its strongest terms,if dem listen, FINE,if dem no listen,still FINE.
Everybody get him/her own life to live.


PS: I have a very close 'fhuck buddy' who recently (against my honest counsel) relocated to Milan and is now a pro-Ho over there. She's still my pal and we chat online occasionally. I aint no hypocrite.

You could have fixed it by marrying her.

So were you part of the problem or solution?
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by snthesis(m): 10:21pm On Nov 13, 2011
sultaan:

You could have fixed it by marrying her.

So were you part of the problem or solution?
SO BASICALLY, HE SHUD MARRY EVRY GIRL HE FCUKS tongue
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by lucabrasi(m): 10:31pm On Nov 13, 2011
ifyalways:

Where are their fathers and brothers?

It takes alot of self disciple and a lil' of fear of God for a poor young lady in Nigeria to be able to say pros.titution.

No jobs,getting basic education or handiwork is expensive,uncles wont even help without getting a piece of the pie,boyfriends wont help either(some guys actually encourage their babes to do it) plus the general rot in our culture,the rot of worshipping money and affluence.

@Lucabrasi,You are so mistaken if you think those your babes @ ikeja under bridge are innocent.Whoring get levels for naija and some of those P's have a sort of day work or the other.They braid hair,do sales girl,sell cigar by day the hawk their kini by night.

Greed,IMO is the main motivating factor.Poverty comes close though to some extent.

Anyhoo,its simple law of demand and supply.We can snort here all we want but when its dark,all men are black
.
im not saying all the girls working at a normal day job are innocent,after all prostitutes can be found amongst the hollywood artistes,bankers,even the medical profession but they are in the minority same as the girls under the bridge e.t.c
my point is that it is a conscious choice which those girls have made for easy money.its the same thing as a guy taking to armed robbery or yahoo yahoo to make ends meet.what i don't buy in the least is the often over used excuse that they are doing it due to the economy.they are not the only girls suffering you need to see how hard working girls from the eastern block work in europe and the uk they will do any job at all factory,cockle picking strawberry picking e.t.c while our own nigerian girls want to build ten mansions in a year
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 10:38pm On Nov 13, 2011
it is easy to sit in front of a computer and talk theory.
as the yoruba say
he who never encountered war boasts of his manhood.
it is interesting to meet real flesh and blood people and hear their stories
don't judge anyone if you don't walk in their shoes.
many teenage girls arrive in europe direct from village in africa and there is no better way to describe their situation than that they were sold by their own parents.  they  work for up to five years paying off a debt before they start working to earn money by themselves. by which time they are hooked on drugs/alcohol and look like they are 40 something they repeat the cycle by bringing in more girls since by the time they gain their freedom no one really wants to pay to Be Intimate with them
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by lucabrasi(m): 10:42pm On Nov 13, 2011
no one is judging them but the simple fact of it is that there is not excuse for prostitution.if polish,estonian,brazillian e.t.c girls can work in factories,in farms to earn money without resorting to prostitution then nigerian ladies have absolutely no excuse.its like saying an armed robber has an excuse for involving him/herself in that vice
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by aribisala0(m): 10:49pm On Nov 13, 2011
it is easy to be smug in front of a computer. the real world is different.
not every LovePeddler does it willingly.
have you spoken to or interviewed any. some arrive in europe at 13,14 and their passports are seized. some are locked up. some have babies seized . etc many of these girls come direct from villages in Edo state after swearing oaths with their parents' consent. it is not as simple as you think
the analogy with armed robbery does not work.
prostitution is legal in most european countries

the real issue is that many of these girls are illegal migrants brought in by gangs and so they cannot work legally
there are lots of brazilian and polish LovePeddlers just like there are nigerian farm workers. in london all nationalities are represented in prostitution
difference is many nigerians are brought in by human trafficking cartels who can and do kill to set examples .
they spend money on travel documents and airfare and they intend to be paid typically up to $80000 per girl over many years. of course not every girl they bring in is rewarding ; some are deported,run away,die etc so they have to be ruthless
so find out more so you can talk from an informed perspective.
in italy it is very serious business involving the camorra mafia they take a cut . much of this information is on the internet and you can talk to naija guys on ground too
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by Nobody: 10:55pm On Nov 13, 2011
Hope you guys are not ruling out human trafficking.
Let's go down memory lane. . .
Over the years, the government have refused to beef up security, now we have a problem with the boko haram menace.
The government refused to provide employment opportunities, now the men have taken it upon themselves to defraud the universe. grin Does yahoo yahoo ring a bell?
To the person that made mention of Somalia, why when we think of fraud Nigeria first comes to mind? Why not Somalia even though they are as corrupt too and even in the midst of war?
All of a sudden, it's a wonder why the females are into prostitution?
The females are supposed to be insusceptible to the moral bankruptcy that has been sowed deeply into the Nigeria system, right?
It has affected the men, now the women, soon. . . very soon children. How does child soldiers sound in your ears? You like? wink
Re: Shameful Culture Of Prostitution Among Nigerian Females In Europe by GenBuhari(m): 10:58pm On Nov 13, 2011
@OP
You are criticising without offering solutions.

By criticising these girls you are really criticsing all Nigerian women and by extrapolation all Nigerians including yourself.

It would more meaningful and constructive to try and find out why this situation exist and what we could do as a nation to fix it. What can be done to help the girls change their lives for the better and stop more girls from finding themselves in the same situation.
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