Just be sincere to urself. Did u feel guilt? Hv u confessed to him/her? What was his/her reaction? Do u think he/she can still trust/love u like before?

Mr, Cork:

Not really

What is not really? can you break it down a lil bit?

No

erm erm erm i don't think so.

Never did!

No

No.

Because I am scared of STDs and Sexually Transmitted Evil Spirits (STES).

In fact I also refuse to allow girls use me to cheat their boyfriends.
Should publish names and pictures?

never.

But let us say the truth.
Over 90% of girlfriends and boyfriends cheat.
Only very few don't cheat.

It is not easy to be faithful to someone you are not yet married to, because you don't feel committed to mere dating someone until you have agreed to marry.

Being faithful was tough for me whilst in a long distance relationship when daily temptations kept coming.
I had to restrict myself from interacting with impressionable and vulnerable girls and women.

Sometimes it is really too much to bear.
I nearly fell for the pressure of even married ex-girlfriends in the absence of my woman.
When a young lady comes to spend time with you for hours and she is too hot to resist, only God can help you. Because, naturally you are wired to respond to your intimate urge.

So, those who can resist temptations and refuse to cheat are a rare breed.
We are even an endangered species these days that promiscuity is the zing thing.

And  you can cheat someone you truly love.

There is something I call mercy cheating.
Like having mercy on a sex starved widow or grass widow and sex starved girlfriend, you just oblige out of pity.

In many places in Igbo land, young village men and even married men take turns to sleep with the young widows with the permission of their wives and elders.
In fact, it is a duty to make the widows happy and healthy for procreation.

There are many sex starved women I would have obliged to help, but for the sake of mutual fidelity to my woman, I denied the poor women and they were disappointed.

Goldieluks:

erm erm erm i don't think so.

be sincere.

Chimezie198:

be sincere.

i kissed a guy once just to get back@ my ex.

cheated on an ex once.
The r/ship had become really boring and the cheating finally broke us up.
Good thing i did though cuz we werent going to work anyways.

No

Orikinla:

But let us say the truth.
Over 90% of girlfriends and boyfriends cheat.
Only very few don't cheat.

It is not easy to be faithful to someone you are not yet married to, because you don't feel committed to mere dating someone until you have agreed to marry.

Being faithful was tough for me whilst in a long distance relationship when daily temptations kept coming.
I had to restrict myself from interacting with impressionable and vulnerable girls and women.

Sometimes it is really too much to bear.
I nearly fell for the pressure of even married ex-girlfriends in the absence of my woman.
When a young lady comes to spend time with you for hours and she is too hot to resist, only God can help you. Because, naturally you are wired to respond to your intimate urge.

So, those who can resist temptations and refuse to cheat are a rare breed.
We are even an endangered species these days that promiscuity is the zing thing.

And  you can cheat someone you truly love.

There is something I call mercy cheating.
Like having mercy on a sex starved widow or grass widow and sex starved girlfriend, you just oblige out of pity.

In many places in Igbo land, young village men and even married men take turns to sleep with the young widows with the permission of their wives and elders.
In fact, it is a duty to make the widows happy and healthy for procreation.

There are many sex starved women I would have obliged to help, but for the sake of mutual fidelity to my woman, I denied the poor women and they were disappointed.

hmm, how true is this hocus pocus?

Not yet

Okay. I never knew when nairaland changed its name to Nairasaints? What's up with everyone saying no to the op's question?

So as for me not to disrupt the flow, i also will say no.

I'll be back later to check if guys that are sincere start posting. Then will i also post the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

Many people cheat and live in denial.

Cheating is not only when you fork another person who is not your regular BF/GF.
Cheating starts once you start welcoming and smooching the person.

Always, No stopping until marriage

Orikinla:

But let us say the truth.
Over 90% of girlfriends and boyfriends cheat.
Only very few don't cheat.

It is not easy to be faithful to someone you are not yet married to, because you don't feel committed to mere dating someone until you have agreed to marry.

Being faithful was tough for me whilst in a long distance relationship when daily temptations kept coming.
I had to restrict myself from interacting with impressionable and vulnerable girls and women.

Sometimes it is really too much to bear.
I nearly fell for the pressure of even married ex-girlfriends in the absence of my woman.
When a young lady comes to spend time with you for hours and she is too hot to resist, only God can help you. Because, naturally you are wired to respond to your intimate urge.

So, those who can resist temptations and refuse to cheat are a rare breed.
We are even an endangered species these days that promiscuity is the zing thing.

And  you can cheat someone you truly love.

There is something I call mercy cheating.
Like having mercy on a sex starved widow or grass widow and sex starved girlfriend, you just oblige out of pity.

In many places in Igbo land, young village men and even married men take turns to sleep with the young widows with the permission of their wives and elders.
In fact, it is a duty to make the widows happy and healthy for procreation.

There are many sex starved women I would have obliged to help, but for the sake of mutual fidelity to my woman, I denied the poor women and they were disappointed.

Lol.

Are you joking? Tell me you are joking, pls.

Na today?

I haven't, and don't intend to.

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Yes, its a norm for me.

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Too many saints here. I have cheated on my gf before though i am not proud of it but i was at least man enough to tell her the truth when she never suspected anything and even when i knew the truth it was gonna end the relationship and that's why i no longer keep gfs so i am free to st***f any1 i like and not feel guilty about it.

if all of una dey say NO! Na who come dey cheat sef? Shiooooooooooooo

i have cheated, i am cheating and i will continue to cheat until God arrests me.

1. have i cheated on my partner?  when we were dating - YES. Since we got married- No
2. Have i confessed to her? YES
3. How did she take it?  funny enough, she didnt break my head. just a slap on my butt. lol
4. Would she trust me again? Ofcourse, YES

me self i don press another woman breast.i pressam small not tomuch.that one na cheating?

Never did with my ex-.