jacq:

After both have done some test to see if u both are free from dieases to have sex without condom.

and y'all are ready to start havin kids.

drop it the first time. most people don't have AIDS , it's more exciting that way.

Well i hate condom and i do not want to get married again.
A ring will save no one from what ever .
That ring has no meaning in many a marrage.
If a Boyfriend cannot be faithful an "I do" will not make him faithfull-

Talk about it , get your self tested ( who dose anyway) and get the anti baby what ever.

Nobody has said anything about "Coitus Interruptus" It's what guys expect to help against a potential babyboom, although it is highly unreliable and exposes both parties to STD's and what have you, but look on brite side it was good while it lasted, until the results come out.

"Coitus interruptus" doesn't work. Sperms have a way of sneaking in when you use that!!

always use your condomn dont be deceived by LOVE, some of those that have aids got it through their sex partners

zebudaya:

drop it the first time. most people don't have AIDS , it's more exciting that way.

Huh? What world do you live in Sir?

If your truely love her you will use a condem until you marry her.That way she doesn't get pregnant and embarrasses her family.

Nameless:

If your truely love her you will use a condem until you marry her.That way she doesn't get pregnant and embarrasses her family.

Thats where birth control pills come in.

zebudaya:

Thats where birth control pills come in.

Birth control isn't fool proof, esp if she's taking antibiotics. Just wanted to throw that out there. Be safe folks.

condoms arent fool proof either, they break sometimes or slip off. The Pill is 92-99.7% effective as birth control.good enough A+

zebudaya:

condoms arent fool proof either, they break sometimes or slip off. The Pill is 92-99.7% effective as birth control.good enough A+

Oh wasn't saying either/or. . .but me thinks if you are old enough for sex you are old enough to use both. If it's too expensive then you can't afford sex.

But while we're on the either/or debate. Birth control is only anti-babies. What about (asymptomatic) STDs?

start off with condoms, if you and your partner feel like going at it naturally go to the clinic and do tests , if both of you are alright then use birth control and bang away. It's easier that way, but make sure the girl doesn't want to get pregnant or u're in deep $hit! but you have to use your discretion i would not do it with any girl who i know has had more than 3 sexual partners!

Very reasonable. But, me, I'm not doing it w/ any girl period! Was that a corny joke?

so you use condoms until you get married, but the dude you marry may have asymptomatic STD's what then?

I personally think sex is all a risk. I don't like condoms but I've got no choice. Condoms are very protective as long as you change them Birth control pills are safe as well but have their own side effects over a long period of time( >5 years). There's no particular time when to drop a condom 'cause there's no complete trust and assurance that your partner won't have an affair outside. We all make mistakes and fall into bad temptations as they call it. Just pray hard and try to have safe sex even when u fall into temptation otherwise have a condom free sex with your partner. It's more fun indeed!
As to when to drop a condom, no time!!! The r/ship might be steady today but tmrw how far? Before you find out, you might be a Clinton foundation candidate Safe y'all

zebudaya:

so you use condoms until you get married, but the dude you marry may have asymptomatic STD's what then?

Are you asking me? I wouldn't have unprotected sex w/ someone who hadn't been tested, married or not.

chinani:

Birth control isn't fool proof, esp if she's taking antibiotics. Just wanted to throw that out there. Be safe folks.

Do people take antibiotics all year round and whenever? Hmm!

No they do not.
Mostly just for 5 days

Since the relationship is STEADY, you can stop using condoms. Hopefully you
would have confirmed her level of commitment to the relationship.

I dont like condoms anyway, so i wait until the relationship is steady before
indulging in that sweet thing.

fntekim:


I don't like condoms anyway, so i wait until the relationship is steady before
indulging in that sweet thing.

I really wish i could believe u.

People like risks i must say!

you guys all have the correct textbook answers and for that I give you an A+, however lets come back to reality. Most dating couples drop the condom without test after 6 months of dating and having sex. You don't believe me abi? Why do you think the sale of "Postinor" is very high and 90% of the buyers are single babes. If they are practicing safe sex with a condom postinor would not be needed and if it was just a safety precaution to have some around in case of a burst condom then consumption rate wouldn't be that high. We also have a high rate of abortion in the country ask any medical student and he/she would confirm this.

People tend to get carried away and take the risk of having unprotected sex. I did a couple of that when I was younger eventhough I could write a perfect thesis on STD and preventions, thank God I didn't contact any thing.

The best advise is don't have unprotected sex without a condom and when you are ready for it you two should go for a test and make sure that you remain faithful to each other after that or use a condom if you want to venture out occassionally with other partners.

Drop the condom when you are certain that your partner is not HIV positive or when you are ready to raise a family. Other wise you may contract STD, HIV or become a father

@Calabaman.
True talk, but something must kill a man.
I seriously wish some of us can develop
selfcontrol and practise abstinence instead,
that way the issue of when to drop the condom
will not arise.
I know say some of una go shout say e go tay!!

When both of u have made a decision to start a family.

na wao

the first night.

Is condoms all about STD's and HIV/AIDS? what about unwanted pregnancy?

you drop the condom when you marry her.

Sickness no dey kill black man. abeg, go on soooon!!! do am as you like nobody dey drag am with you. if you want die who go come replace you? nobody, seun gooon go deny u. nairalanders go go fill your death register. that all. you think say dem go take ur place when it comes to death. abeg do ur ting jare no mind dem. enjoy