Nayah:

Hey kokoye what a description!!

pendo89:

lol nayah gal. someone's comment is classic.
I talk to the person differently.Not the way I do to everybody else
And yep I make myself available for communication.
Lastly,I throw in signs like body language.If you are not quick to notice,I intensify but in moderation,if you still don't it! then you are a dunder head and am done cz the feelings die with that assumption > dull head and slow.

queensmith:

Someone in my life needs this advice sooo badly.

I think the person needs to reflect on how he/she feels and the genuineness of these emotions before approaching the other.

Then just be natural and admit to it, don't expect anything just be glad to get your feelings out in the open no matter the consequence.

Respect the other persons response, it's possible for him/her not to feel the same. Beating youself up about it isn't going to do any good.
Or employ me to do it, I like gettin up in everyone's business

2buff:

Step 1) You have to have a very clear picture in your mind of what "Shyness" is. Look at yourself and shyness as seperate entities. It is a pointless weakness.
A thing with no purpose other than to rob you of your intended prize. Do not let yourself be deceived that your shyness "protects" you. Truth is, it hurts you and keeps you in that perpetual state of bondage, never doing what you need to do to be free. It is an attribute you can easily do without.
With that, kick it to the curb.

Step 1a) If step one fails (it really shouldn't if you [b]did [/b]and [b]thought [/b]EXACTLY what I told you to), do something extreme to destroy your shyness. Like running around the house (or neighbourhood at night) butt-nekkid. 

Step 2) Now that you have backhanded shyness like the b[i]i[/i]tch-made nigga it is, walk up to your target and communicate wetin dey your raw mind. Be careful though, because your lack of shyness may seriously intimidate the other person, because lets face it, not everyone has their mind under control like you have. Do it in such a way that lets the person know you're willing to hold their hands as they grow the heck up into [b]your [/b]reality.

kokoye:

we were friends first . . of course

she started giving me special attention . .calling to check up on me . . multiple times in a day but not in a chocking manner.

she would stay on the phone with me even when we really had nothing to say . . availability

she picked up the tab at times when we went out - partnership

she suggested that we go to McDonalds instead of some expensive restaurant - for better or for worse

she was where I was weak and tried to compliment - completion

I was the last person she called or spoke with before she slept at night.  whatever


that's just me . . .

WebSurfer:

oh my nayah, what is it you have wanted to reveal to moi?

kokoye:

we were friends first . . of course

she started giving me special attention . .calling to check up on me . . multiple times in a day but not in a chocking manner.

she would stay on the phone with me even when we really had nothing to say . . availability

she picked up the tab at times when we went out - partnership

she suggested that we go to McDonalds instead of some expensive restaurant - for better or for worse

she was where I was weak and tried to compliment - completion

I was the last person she called or spoke with before she slept at night.  whatever


that's just me . . .

tellwisdom:

can i tap her on the breastttt for a start??

Just try to behave like your pseudo first  , anyway good afternoon

Sweerie, we have stubborn goats as females in Nigeria. They cant manage a MAN

kokoye:

we were friends first . . of course

she started giving me special attention . .calling to check up on me . . multiple times in a day but not in a chocking manner.

she would stay on the phone with me even when we really had nothing to say . . availability

she picked up the tab at times when we went out - partnership

she suggested that we go to McDonalds instead of some expensive restaurant - for better or for worse

she was where I was weak and tried to compliment - completion

I was the last person she called or spoke with before she slept at night.  whatever


that's just me . . .

Nayah, bless your heart dealing with that tellwisdumb.