i agree with killz

Whats your contribution??

Metalgoong:

@OP

keep on asking question!! . . you will be filling a gas tank of a car while another lover boy would be driving it

@OP

I have experienced a similar thing too. Best thing to do is this:

1. Dont make urself always available to her.
2. Always encourage her when she does something right.
3. Control ur temper when u are with her.
4. Compliment her when even whn its not necessary.
5. Control ur emotion, and stop telling her how much u love her too often.


I hope my little advice will help. Goodluck brah 

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fr3ddi3:

BUT ON THE OTHER HAND,

If u are with your girl, and she chooses to recieve chunks of calls in ur presence, that shows the level of DISRESPECT she has for u.
She should be able to put her damn phone away, and give u ur attention when u are around. For her to even receive the calls from those "male friendz" of hers, it means they are somehow important to her.

Jst follow my little tips above, its not a 100% guarantee that she will end up with u, but atleast u'll stand out from her numerous "male friendz"


Am talking from experience bro!!

fr3ddi3:

BUT ON THE OTHER HAND,

If u are with your girl, and she chooses to recieve chunks of calls in ur presence, that shows the level of DISRESPECT she has for u.
She should be able to put her damn phone away, and give u ur attention when u are around. For her to even receive the calls from those "male friendz" of hers, it means they are somehow important to her.

Jst follow my little tips above, its not a 100% guarantee that she will end up with u, but atleast u'll stand out from her numerous "male friendz"


Am talking from experience bro!!

fr3ddi3:

Yeeey, I DON DIE OOOOH!!!

@3ndy: if dats ur style of cheatin on ur man, den go ahead sista. Bt plz d0nt cal me names.

oh hunnie bear-.- prefer this name.-. cheating isn't an option for me, having the perfect b/f a girl could ever want-- honestly
but i wouldn't say the same of u, come on every body, we all know what cheating looks like, even without having cheated b4
we all hear stories, comportment, changing of character, the up mentioned relationship going astray, what d poster described didn't smell like d girl was cheatin-, so u guys cut her some slack, she speaks with guys!! and so?? if she were their consultant or smthg would it be bad to speak with them?? as for the late hours, well we all perfectly know that nigerians aren't d best in knowing when things r appropriate to do,
i mean my b/f gets calls from he pals at any hour of the day till i warned them!! that at night i prefere sleeping than hearing their non-sense i great u baba, u too much stuff, so if he hasn't got any other proof than that i'm sticking to the "your g/f isn't cheating on u!!""
as for the calling u name didn't notice ur name was crap!! or junk!! or shut up!! or am i wrong?? u know these days pple get the strangest names!!

fr3ddi3:

@OP

I have experienced a similar thing too. Best thing to do is this:

1. Dont make urself always available to her.
2. Always encourage her when she does something right.
3. Control ur temper when u are with her.
4. Compliment her even whn its not necessary.
5. Control ur emotion, and stop telling her how much u love her too often.


I hope my little advice will help. Goodluck brah

fr3ddi3:

@3ndy:
Lets assume i get ur point Mrs. VOLTRON, defender of all ladies. Evrything i said so far are jst mere speculati0ns. I neva said dey are fact.
I d0nt knw y u're takin ds so personal, lik am talkin 2 u or sumthing, coz u're supposed 2 advice d OP & nt me.

And as 4 d name callin, trust me, i hav been readin lots of treads frm NL even b4 i joind. I knw very wel dat some pipo are naturally sick. I wunt be so surprizd by d way u post.

@killz;
lets say i was wr0ng all along, & evrything i wrote so far hav been "BULLSHIT in 3D". Wats ur personal opinion on d OP's topic?

3ndy:

mr freddie,  this "sick" girl over here is telling u to think b4 u talk,  and for saying my ""sickness"" is natural means u're claiming my family is as well,  mmm mmm carefull what u say to most pple,  i wouldn't take it to heart coz it's jst a chat room and u're speaking from d protection this fact gives u,  but if i were u i'd really watch my mouth!!
as for the issue of the poster i think he's just as well resolved his case on his own case or he just needed to talk it out or smthg without taking any advicem serious,  so my words were actually directed to YOU!!! god have mercy aren't u proud that u got this 'sick' chick over here's attention,  i mean lots of pple wuld!!
secondly mrs voltron is really happy to see dat u're speculatin ur advice around without a ground of experience,  u'll really make it in life goin on dat way!!

dabrake:

was referring to fr3ddi3. you roger?