i know we have mature minds here.pls your advise will go a long way in helping me make certain decisions. Thanks in anticipation.
I met this girl at an event last yr dec,we got talking then we exchanged numbas. I had 2 leave town soon aftawards so we never saw after that day but we talked on fone all tru. We usually talk for almost each day n it last 10-25mins each time.we got 2 know each other and my likeness for her developed. I did not waste time in leting her know i like and she didn't complain. However,around feb i told her i'll be coming back 2 town and problems started. She stoped picking my call and dis could go on atimes for days n wenever she decided picking she would tell me she wasn't with her fone. When i probe her further she would say sorry. Dis continued for sometime and i was left frustrated but wat baffles me most was that she never showd lack of interest when we talk but i wasnt making progress. I finally got to town and we saw for the second tym. During our discusions she told me she is in a relation and she also said wat i know abt her is all i should know 4 now. Anoda issue i raisd was why was she not picking my calls and she said i can't understand. I told her the only way i can understand is if she tells me bt she refused and stil promised to change. Sincerely after dat day she changed and i also noticed her response was different. she opens up more and for example on 3 occasions last wk when i tell her 2 hv a swt nite rest, she responded amen".Finally,2days ago we saw again in her shop and i told her we should move our friendship 2 anoda level that i don't hv much time 2 waste dat i really like her(blah blah) n she still maintained she is in a relationship. While i was stil there a guy just came over asked her few things then left. Just after he left she told me dats her fiance, i ws shocked bt not to betray any emotion i asked her wat his name is and she told me. When i got home dat day i had 2 talk 2 myself that do i reall wanna continue in this or not. Common sense tells me 2 forget her and run,but somehw smthing is still tellimg me 2 stay.Please what should i do,i'm relatively new in this type of thing. Mature advice pls

From all indication I fink she wanna have a backuo plan S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ as 2 if her fiance fails u become d next guy ! #useurhead

Only u knows ow hurt u feel
If u wanna cont dat way
Ur choice n if oda wise
U know beta

if your story and assumption is true, i suggest you just let go and seek someone that will be just yours... she not certain of what she want and i suggest you dont end up getting the same treatment if she end the other relationship for you

she made it clear to u, my advise s leave her. move on with ur life,
i understand that u love her and is not easy to forget,
u are alread see her fiances, and she is the one that told u,
for u to continue the relationship i think is very risky, she may
used u as she like and dump u, in a way u we nt lik

it better that u forget her, than to have heartbreak
if it happen nobody we lay blame on her b\cz she has alread show u her fiances

I have being seriously thinking about this since friday. Atimes, truth may be a bitter pill 2 swallow. I've nt called her since then.

I have being seriously thinking about this since friday. Atimes, truth may be a bitter pill 2 swallow. I've nt called her since then.

Your common sense is right

The best is jst 2 leave ha alone.since she alrdy ve a fiance.

beylinko: During our discusions she told me she is in a relationship and she also said wat i know abt her is all i should know 4 now. . .
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Finally,2days ago we saw again in her shop and i told her we should move our friendship 2 anoda level that i don't hv much time 2 waste dat i really like her(blah blah)

bros, how far you nah? if another bobo wan dey spoil your runs, how e go do you for body?? na just question oh. free the girl. if she dey destined for you she go come back.

when i tell her 2 hv a swt nite rest, she responded amen"

just must laugh

She told you she is in a relationship.. Why not respect the other guy and just move on..

give her a break and forget about her. Guy if u disturb this girl again, U DULL !!

gaddafe: give her a break and forget about her. Guy if u disturb this girl again, U DULL !!

oshe jare!!! tell him for me again

Let her be. Put yourself in her fiance shoes. Would you like to be dumped? What will be will be.

Go wit ur common sense, Bro.