Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.

~Killz~:
Lmao @ "help" a woman married less than 4 months to escape back to her ex. Chineke!

Help to do what exactly? To carry your cross? To bear the consequences of leaping before looking?

Are you fccking kidding me? When they read you "for better for worse till death do you part" were you pinging?

Were you smoking when you said "I do?"

Ejaisky: Luckgames and kills, i asked for help nt insults. I wouldn't cheat on my husband.

Define "Help".
Define "cheating".
And finally describe the kind of help you really need. . .

While you are at it, i want you to realize that there is something like "Emotional Cheating". **Thinking of another man while your husband is lying beside you. . .** I'm guessing you think of your ex while your husband is making love to you right? (Cant deny. )

Conclusively, where the fcck did i insult you? I can't even find discombobulated in my post. . . I'm waiting for your definitions before i diagrammatically reveal to you how you are in fact cheating on your husband already. . . #Waiting!

owo2390: why are people so judgmental, she started the thread seeking help because she knows that her residual feelings towards her ex is detrimental to current marriage. Attacking her doesn't solve anything, I understand that people have a right to their respective opinions but all the assaults on the poor woman's character are unfounded and uncalled for.

~Killz~:
Smh @ I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.
And someone said something about being judgmental? Your yansh dia! How will you feel if you were this woman's husband?

And how will you feel if you were a close friend to her husband?

Bluntness does it for me in cases like this. . . This is so effed up!

queensmith:

We are doing so because we pity the poor man that married the OP who is obviously still in limbo with her feelings, she is selfish and confused, she had no right to drag another man into her foolishness. She should have dealt with her problems before jumping into marriage. Its downright wrong what she has done, the insulting is even not enough, she should be flogged mercilessly! marriage is not a joke!

It's only people that don't "really" value marriage and what it entails that'll not understand what is really going on here. . . This aint no boyfriend/girlfriend relationship! Since we can't flog her physically, we'll flog her lyrically. . .

xynerise:
easy bro

You dey laugh? You sure say no be skydeep use another ID post this thing?

owo2390: I'm not in support of her action; her actions are obviously unethical. However, i'm against the incessant raining of insults on her, she's clearly misguided and asked for help, people should be trying to help her and not condemn her to flogging or whatever. This is 2012 not the 1800s.

I don't want this to turn into some big arguments, there are too many of those on nairaland already. I think she deserves some sympathy because she was brave enough to ask for help on such a sensitive issue on a public forum in a pretty conservative country as Nigeria.

~Killz~:


You dey laugh? You sure say no be skydeep use another ID post this thing?

luckgames:

You are evil and you will cheat with your ex
Just question of time fool
I hope your husband find out and kick your black A??

xynerise:
your green yansh.

It's black sir. . .

~Killz~:


You dey laugh? You sure say no be skydeep use another ID post this thing?

owo2390:

Evil is an insult.

You will be cheat with your ex is an unfounded accusation.

I said sympathy not empathy. And in my first post i told her to tell her husband and work it out.

Pls sir relax. It's not an accusation. Can you define "accusation?"
Bullshit is bullshit and does not look like chicken sh[i]i[/i]t! When treating bullshit, you use a shovel, and not a spade. In treating chicken sh[i]i[/i]t, you use a broom and packer. . . This is BULLSHIT! If you agree what she did was wrong, advice her accordingly without sounding "pettish".
If this woman was your wife, and you mistakenly stumbled upon this thread, what will you do?

Smh @ Evil is an insult!

angelhair: I wish you guys would get off her back. @op, I understand because I have bn in ur shoes. When I was married, my husband started d beating during our honeymoon! I was doing laundry a few months into d marriage and I saw a condom in his pocket. It wasn't for me because I was pregnant then. I hated him. I cursed him and I wanted to get back with my ex.
You guys can never understand what she is going thru to make her think that. My dear op it does get better. Hang in there my love and tell it all to God. He really understands what you are going thru and he will make things well with you. Take care luv!

OK2NVME: [s]All of u critisizing shuld shut dah hell up!

Chics get married 4 several reasons these days and its not all about luv.

I pray u never get put in that impossible position [/s]