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Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by iiiyyyk(m): 2:44am On Mar 13, 2012 |
ARES: YEAH THATS WHT U BIATCHES GET WHEN U HV AN 89% GOOD GUY BUT BECOS THERE IS ANOTHER POT BELLIED COW WHO CAN BUY U IPAD 6 BEFORE U EVEN OPEN UR MOUTH, U START FOCUSING ON THE 11% SHORT COMINGS OF UR GUY. WELL I'VE GOT NEWS FOR U... UR NEXT POST WILL BE HW HE GAVE U A BLACK EYE FOR CALLING HIM UR EX NAME you took the words out of my mouth. wicked woman, just 4 month the blackberry is no longer satisfying you. i imagine how emotionally miserably the rest of your life will be. this is a lesson to other of your types. there is 99.99% that any time you meet with your x, you will definitely cheat physically because you ve already cheated in your mind. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 2:55am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Op dats wat happen wen u marry someone because of money |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by lolaluv1(f): 2:59am On Mar 13, 2012 |
There's a reason you broke up with your ex and married your husband. I think you are forgetting the bad attributes in your ex and you're only remembering the good and the exciting with him. Make an effort with your marriage. Please, try to forget your ex; leave him in the past and face your future with your husband. You didn't really give much info about the things you are like in your ex.... |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 3:20am On Mar 13, 2012 |
lefulefu: Op dats wat happen wen u marry someone because of money *Slaps him HARD with 'LIKE'* |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Konnektions146(m): 5:08am On Mar 13, 2012 |
another broken home in de making. this is de isssue with ladies of dese days-confusion, misplaced priorities. i dont wanna be judgemental but i bet de ex is a nice guy but not as rich as de husband and now she discovers money is not everythin. women is just somethin else. u cant eat yur cake and have it. all u need to do is try and love your husband perfectly and find new things in him dat will keep u goin. good luck but i wish ladies will learn but no way! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by sunky644(m): 5:23am On Mar 13, 2012 |
@Killz, u no go kill me. Can't believe I could laugh loudly in an uncontrollable manner like this very early in the morning, I just gave a break to cool my brain with nairaland when this biochemical pathways almost scattered it. She must ve been pinging truly when she was been told till death do them part. How do we even help the funny lady sef? Olojukokoro, alailamojukuro. May God help you sha, thank God I am not ur husband and thank ur star I ve not started suspecting that ur mind is still with ur ex would ve asked u why u decided to marry me when u were initially engaged to a man u love so much and can't stop thinking about? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Rogerss(m): 6:21am On Mar 13, 2012 |
wicked woman. surely if u contributed half da amount spent for da wedding u ll not want to see it fail. cos trust me it has. just a matter of time. thank u for giving me more reasons for not going to get married. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by queensmith: 6:25am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Of course! Angry bitter Nigerian men have made it about themselves! Why not? They are faultless and blameless in their affairs? Thats why there's no prostitutes in Nigeria spreading hepatitis to married male professionals in the capital. Enough of that, the woman is foolish no doubt but most of you guys are loking for an opportunity to vent your anger, abeg don't do it here we are talking of a serious matter that the OP wants to resolve. At least she has approached her problem, most of the men here will simply go looking for their ex and start an affair. Don't even deny it everybody knows how you billy goats behave. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by gulfer: 6:38am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.Your choice, live with it and stop nagging. Tell us exactly what you missed, is it the physical or emotional part of your ex? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by kkkossy(m): 6:45am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.Is your ex now married and why did u leave him initially? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by haruna1970(m): 7:10am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband.my dear ejaisky, this do happens to many new relationship. you would not only be thinking of your ex, you will also be like that of your parents. it's just a passing phase. you will get over it. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 7:11am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Why the crucifixion all you judgemental scum? Do you get off making people feel worse off than they already are? All the insults almost seem . . . personal Like all of you had a girl that left you because you were broke or something Calm the flip down |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by honeric01(m): 7:17am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Maybe she actually cheated on her ex too? Maybe she was the reason herself and her ex splitted? Maybe she has a problem with fidelity? Maybe maybe I think you're a problem here. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 7:46am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Idowuogbo:Dies on Arrival! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by vokious(m): 7:49am On Mar 13, 2012 |
~Killz~:hahahahahaha...killz have finished diz woman ooo. *Still laughing* |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Mynd44: 7:51am On Mar 13, 2012 |
vokious:How are you sure he is not the said ex? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by mamarisko(f): 8:02am On Mar 13, 2012 |
my dear its the thing of the mind, u choose to remain hooked to ur ex. decide that u are now a married woman and u want to enjoy ur home, pray and settle for this man u have married and forget about ur ex as far as i am concern he is a distraction now. why did u get married in the first place if u r not ready for it. think right |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Mynd44: 8:04am On Mar 13, 2012 |
mamarisko: my dear its the thing of the mind, u choose to remain hooked to ur ex. decide that u are now a married woman and u want to enjoy ur home, pray and settle for this man u have married and forget about ur ex as far as i am concern he is a distraction now. why did u get married in the first place if u r not ready for it. think rightIt is not a thing of the mind. It is just pure madness |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by tiebe: 8:21am On Mar 13, 2012 |
@OP, the mistake has been made already. and i'm sure you're not the first to have second thots when you got married. however, u'v got to learn not to dwell on thots about your ex. these thots will HELP you cheat proper cheating. You are MARRIED now, ur husband should have 100% of u. do all you have to do to get all thots of exes outta your head. you'll start focusing on those thots instead of focusing on ur marriage. if u do this, ur marriage will fail and u will think it failed because u married the wrong person when it actually failed because u ddnt put in ur best. You don marry. Your ex should remain an 'ex' dnt try to make him the present i've realised that in relationships, nobody has any sure answers. . . but always trust ur instincts. The reason u broke up with your ex even if u cant place a finger on it, was a good enuf reason. . . dnt let him come into ur marriage. there's not enuf space for 3 of u. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by karpentar: 8:36am On Mar 13, 2012 |
[i][/i][/b][b][b][/b][quote][/quote]Thanks @Owo2390. I'll put the past behind me and be a good wife to my husband. You can't. The past can never be put behind you. The Okafor law effect is on you and there's nothing you can do about it. The law states: "a hole once correctly drilled, can always be drilled again". It gets worse, if the earlier driller like your ex performed better. I pity the poor husband that is busy gasping/struggling to impress you, but not knowing that he's just nibbling the already drilled hole like a rat nibbling cheese. My free advice to unmarried guys is, “avoid Okafor law, seek a virgin green field”. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Tboiz(m): 8:40am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Let the past be the past. Don't try to wake d dead. Forget d former things. Move on |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by sunkoye: 8:40am On Mar 13, 2012 |
the marriage is sure headed for the rock, and it might not survive the impact!! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by kkkossy(m): 8:56am On Mar 13, 2012 |
@op, are u satisfied with the bashing here? Or are u already hiding in shame? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 8:58am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Mynd_44: hmmmm *thinking hard* |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 8:59am On Mar 13, 2012 |
I tire for women and the way they behave most times. Damn! They are really disgusting a times. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by mohid(m): 9:01am On Mar 13, 2012 |
;DWhy the crucifixion all you judgemental scum? Do you get off making people feel worse off than they already are? All the insults almost seem . . . personal Like all of you had a girl that left you because you were broke or something Calm the flip down lol...na wetin politicians don cause eeh!Most men here sound like whinny victims... Sweetheart move on, we all miss our ex at some point,u just naive enough to admit it! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Heck: 9:07am On Mar 13, 2012 |
This OP is sick she needs prayers I just saw her in a dream frollicking a friend of her ex. She needs double deliverance whoever justifies her needs Mosaic stoning. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by scriptwizz: 9:11am On Mar 13, 2012 |
NO REACTION FROM THE OP, HAS SHE JETTISON THIS THREAD? |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by horny4u(f): 9:33am On Mar 13, 2012 |
Killz Its very unmasculine when a guy bullies and nags a woman, it makes me wonder if he is gay or just abnormal. Leave the lady alone if you can not help. mohid: ;DWhy the crucifixion all you judgemental scum? Now thats a real man, advised but not judgemental....he took a leadership role to protect a woman, provided a solution for her.....Killz you may want to buy notebook n enroll with him |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by niggaman(m): 9:33am On Mar 13, 2012 |
For the luv of God, if u nid to quit...pls do and thats if ur ex. would want u back. There's no point being in something u are nt happy to be in.....dis shld serve as warning to pple who go into marriages for all the wrong reasons.......i sincerely hope u find peace & happiness again, we all deserve to be happy and its not about the wrong choices we've made in our lives, itsabout being happy |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Onyiip(f): 9:50am On Mar 13, 2012 |
op this is a serious problem and you need to pray hard. Inshort fast for 40 days cos you are 95 percent likely to cheat with your ex physically when you get an opportunity to be with him cos you are already doing so with him emotionally. Gudluck 2 u sha |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:56am On Mar 13, 2012 |
horny4u: KillzEnroll with who? That hypocrite? I refuse to enroll with a guy that believes in beating women to show them who's boss. . . And my earlier stance still stands! The solution is there, but in offering a solution, she really has to understand what she is doing. You believe it's normal to think of an ex after 3 months in marriage? It's abnormal to me. . . She has refused to answer the earlier questions i asked so what should i do further? I'm willing to help, but she aint stretching out her hand. . . Btw, she has made up her mind . . . "Should have stayed with my ex" I don't know what help she was asking for. . . She's discombobulated |
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