I always wondered how people felt comfortable inviting a strange guy/girl they fancy and just met (maybe club or street) into their homes.
Even my old foolish self (Thank God he is gone), never did this. It was either her place or some hotel.

i just always felt my home is my sanctuary away from possible loonatics, stalkers, window-stoners etc and the less of these sort that know where I live the better.
Would you feel comfortable inviting a random plaything into your house?

Na you know wetin you mean by "plaything" but i won't invite someone i just met to come outside my home let alone inside, i have to know you to an extent before you can be allowed to visit me at home.

its usually best to know someone a little better before inviting them to your home but not everybody thinks that way these days!

My friend used to do that until some chicks he brought back smashed up his place. Fear catch am he had to change. I don't understand how people can do it. Then again I don't do one night stands so I guess I will never understand.

I have always wondered the same too. It's so baffling, seriously!
Mind telling us some interesting things about your old self?

naijasexy: I have always wondered the same too. It's so baffling, seriously!
Mind telling us some interesting things about your old self?

LOL NO. It's not wise to talk about the dead

Who's supposed to be scare more, the owner or the invited?

2buff:

LOL NO. It's not wise to talk about the dead

Brilliant reply. May the dead rest in peace.

naijasexy:

Brilliant reply. May the dead rest in peace.

Wait aren't you that cute, dark-skinned chick that lives in some remote place in this Canada?
How far? Nice to see you never obtain frost-bite

@OP
in Africa (especially Nigeria) i wouldnt, anywhere else in the world, no biggie!

MRbrownJAY: @OP
in Africa (especially Nigeria) i wouldnt, anywhere else in the world, no biggie!

I wasn't even considering the african winch/mamiwater factor.
Just the usual crazy people, who also exist in quantum anywhere else in the world.

^^^these ones are easily discarded in the west. a simple phone call to the cops and the issue will be solved in no time, case closed!

sexy open minded play thing will always get the go ahead, but if she looks/acts suspicious then a quiet street (or car sex) is better suited, lol!

MRbrownJAY: @OP
in Africa (especially Nigeria) i wouldnt, anywhere else in the world, no biggie!

You ain't right!

Mrs.Chima:


You ain't right!

thats only how i see it....... if i call the cops to get someone removed from my residence, i want them to A) know the law, B) stand by it and C) be swift in solving the issue at hand and arrest the culprit if needs be. if for any reason (aka bribe) they may not be able to do so, then there is a problem.