Tgirl4real: My dear,

remove the log in your eye before trying to remove the speck in anoda.

Point noted.

Richvkunt: This is the funniest and most conceited thread I have read on this section in a long time.
You are one of the problems of this section of NL.
While I accept you might have changed or might be trying to change,it appears you have a short memory or have chosen not to remember your past antecedents in this section of NL.
I would have you remember the giant log in your eyes while trying to remove the tinnnny speck in others eyes.
Once again I come in peace!!!

debrief08:
I agree and I apologise especially to you. But I am still begging[b] let us focus on people who post and their problems,[/b] let us not turn a thread for advice seeking into an ego contest, please.

Richvkunt:


I would like you to please read this old thread and then you will see why there are problems on this section.Please pay very close attention to the posts from the usual suspects.

https://www.nairaland.com/779640/mothers-plzzzzz-help-me#9318339

Richvkunt: Madam,
I know this is your thread.
You want to know why there are problems in this section,right?
I just gave you an example and you are trying to sweep it under the carpet?
How can you solve a sickness,if you do not know the root cause?
When you sweep it under the carpet the problem will continue to fester until it rears its ugly head again.
I suggest you read that thread again,but I am quite sure you remember it and the nasty role played by some women on it.
Like I said I come in peace,and that thread is only a tip of the iceberg.
Should women be so cruel to fellow women who come on the forum with their problems?
Just my thoughts!

neyostica: when you and your gang stop trying to break ppls home, then we will focus

neyostica: when you and your gang stop trying to break ppls home, then we will focus

Kevin_II:
Thank you my brother. no mind all the hypocrite wicked people

debrief08:
I agree Madam, Most times i comment i always try to stay focused on the issues, I also beg and cajole others who start name calling to differ respectively. I lost my temper on the Ogo thread and I explained there, otherwise, please show me where I go fighting and calling names becaause people differ or insult people becuase they are different.

Tgirl4real:

U are right, twas on Ogo's thread and iwas so surprised at your outburst. I even made excuses for you, yet you didnt stop

debrief08:
This is what am talking about when i say oppinions differ, some believe people should stay even in an unhappy situation even when there is serious abuse, some dont hold that believe, when you give your advice, the poster is free to choose, no one will force the posster to take advise from any one, its their decision. You my think advice I give is wrong but its an oppinion, just as you have your own oppinion.
If you give yours and I give mine the poster chooses which one to take and which one to ignore, I wont go and force her/him out of her home.

debrief08:
Sir, Please its a difference of oppinion, no need for insults na. If you differ with my oppinion attack it not me, we are adults we can make our points without name calling

Richvkunt: [/b]


Madam,
You are being very economical with the truth here.
Do you remember the poster called agiboma?
Why has she been attacked at every opportunity by members of the dreaded cabal?
Why has she been ridiculed on almost every thread since she came to NL romance section to state her problems with her husband?
Why madam debrief?Why?
The simple reason why she has been attacked by the cabal is because she refused to take their advice to divorce her husband.
She received advice from all posters and decided she wanted to see if she could make her marriage work-and to God be the glory she has testified that there is an improvement in relations to her husband-is this not a credit to posters on NL?
I could post the link to agiboma thread if you want,but I am quite sure an intelligent woman like you still remembers it don't you?

Tgirl4real: Is this thread really necessary? You need to convince me it is.

Kevin_II:
na una sabi. just to announce that i have my eyes on this section so whoever is giving wicked advice will have to face me from now on i don talk finish
if people are sadistic we cannot allow them to derail other peoples lives because anyone looking for advice is in reality in a confused state and you cannot trust them to see through the sadistic intentions of some people here in the state they are. so we owe it to humanity to call such sadists out so the honest people looking for advice will realize that such advice is pure wickedness and note not to follow them. once again i don talk finish. make i go find my daily bread but am watching y'all

jay bee: How about you do your bit and worry less about other people's posts.
Like you said, we are all here to give advices. If you give yours and it ain't going down well then absolutely no point trying to shove it down one's throat or unnecessarily fight for which advice is better.

So long as we all are still allowed to exercise our freedom to free speech on the condition that it's contrary to rules and regulations of Nairaland then I'd advice you worry about your bit and ignore the others.
Y'all should really stop taking NL too serious.
It's only an on-line forum

Bawss1:

Was just going to say that. But at the same time I will also add that many people assume that because this is all virtual it's OK to hurl insults and abuses forgetting that such acts are not without consequences. There is nothing we do whether real or virtual that we will not have to account for when the time comes.

debrief08:
Is this thread really necessary? You need to convince me it is.
Lol, Madam you are the moderator, you can lock it up if you feel its not necessary, I am just trying to appeal to people to focus on issues especially people who come here looking for help and not on attacking peronalities and insults. But final decision rests with you.
Oga Richy, I can not defend any bodys actions but I can only beg to respect the oppinions of others and not be constatntly turning every thread to a personality efight and attack. I may be wrong but I think you are okay with what is going on and this thread is a waste of space so the moderator can lock it up abeg, am tired. If people want to fight, keep bringing up past issues, hurt each other and call names anytime a new thread is opened then fine. I am done

Outstrip: Richvkunt is so predicatble Pathetic if you ask me.