I am in a dilemma: My boyfriend recently had a female visitor from delta and she actually stayed over at his place for a whole week. He didnt inform me about the visit and i only found out when they both came to visit me.The most annoying thing is that he comes in the company of this girl whenever he is coming over to my place and they go out together whenever they leave my place. All through her stay, he never allowed me to visit him but would rather come around to see me.In all sincerity, the girl told me on the first visit that she has heard so many nice things about me from the guy which she didnt specify. Anyway i discovered the day the girl left his place that he has been the one responsible for her staying for a week because each time the girl wanted to leave he keeps begging her to stay{all these from his inbox and outbox}.Would u believe that i asked him for money and he told me he didnt have, that infact the girl was the one responsible for all the spending that took place all through her visit. Do you think i should just bow out of this relationship because really i started taking my mind away from him ever since.

Sorry to hear this dear, but to be honest with you, i think your boyfriend has got the hots for this chick. I know it might sound painful, but life goes on, speak to your boyfriend about it, and see what he has to say, better to know the truth than to keep guessing. I wish you all the best.

There is more to this than you are mentioning

is he really your boyfriend or just someone you have a crush on?
and when they came to see you did he introduce you as his girlfriend?
why didn't you ask the girl about herself and where she met your man or the relationship they have ?

u alone know where the shoe pinches, You wil figure it out with time,

Your boyfriend is strong o. He no even fear. He is either very stupid or doesn't give a crap about you

Outstrip:

Your boyfriend is strong o. He no even fear. He is either very stupid or doesn't give a crap about you

no her boy friend is hot

No bi small thing oh!
1week chooking for de guy and his Delta chic.
@poster, he must've told de gal some truth about u - truth like; you're buggin him for friendship, money, sex, etc, but he (your boy) has always resisted you.

I think you both need to talk. I can't really say much on this matter because it would be unwise for one to jump into conclusions most especially when you're yet to be briefed the whole details. So like I said earlier you two need to talk.

Sorry sis but I find it curious that you couldn't find out who the girl is to your boyfriend even though you've interacted one on one with her. I think it shows you are very insecure in this relationship for reasons only you could tell. And your boyfriend is "chiming" unto this by doing things "in your face" The handwriting's on the wall, you cannot love somebody you do not have respect for and this guy doesn't hav respect for you so how can he love you? Must you tell your boyfriend before you go to his house? And why do you BEG for money?

Once again. . .Some Men Some Men Some Men. . . . . Wetin kinda creation be this sef? Am tired jor. . . Some men dey make me feel like plucking their testicles and make to Soup for ma dinner!!!

y not sit him down & talk it out before acting on baseless fact

@ post, was there any introduction during his visit to your house, How was his behaviour towards you, though some guys can preten while things are going on.
Take heart my dear so some of them are,

invite a man from delta state to stay with you for a week

then y'll go say hi to your boyfriend

dont worry from his reaction you will get your answer. . . . i think

@Poster,
Its pretty sad. But like someone asked earlier, r u sure u guys r even close at all. If u r, then this is the beginning of the end. Guys in serious relationships (I mean the ones they consider as serious, not the ones considered by ladies) will definitely not allow a lady to stay in their house for a night without letting their gf know, not to talk of a week! Sweetheart, nobody is worth your tears, actually the only one worth your tears will not even make u cry in the first place. Take care.

romade:

y not sit him down & talk it out before acting on baseless fact

good!

ariblaze:

invite a man from delta state to stay with you for a week

then y'll go say hi to your boyfriend

dont worry from his reaction you will get your answer. . . . i think

better!!

Blame the moderators!They keep recyling TOPICS but can not recycle the DATES.
Seun,there are so many topics that needs to be expunged.

@ Jin kazaman
u tink say nland na tekken
abeg hide 4 sumwher
mumu guy

@gabrywyl
cos 1 yeye boy mak mistak u de talk anyhw
beta watch ur mouth o
wot abt babes wen de giv their bf staph
or cary belle 4 their X bfs,u neva talk abt dem
go hide e!

Which one is more worrisome to you, that he had the chic for 1 week or that you asked him for money and he didn't give you.I don't think the 2 of them are related.Deal with one issue first, you have a person whom you claim is your bf ''import'' a gal to his home for a whole week and you still have the mind to ask him for money, what kind of money is that,women! Well, painful as it may sound, he is not your boyfriend, period.

I cant believe you all didnt read well out of pity for the liar poster!
Did you notice she said she found out the guy made the girl stay a week from the guy's phone (inbox and outbox) the day the girl left?
How on earth will two people in a house be sending text messages to each other?
I am a chess player and i take note of everything i see!
Next lie pls

cooldud62*:

I cant believe you all didnt read well out of pity for the liar poster!
Did you notice she said she found out the guy made the girl stay a week from the guy's phone (inbox and outbox) the day the girl left?
How on earth will two people in a house be sending text messages to each other?
I am a chess player and i take note of everything i see!
Next lie pls

rotflmao

@poster
Dump his ass

cooldud62*:

I cant believe you all didnt read well out of pity for the liar poster!
Did you notice she said she found out the guy made the girl stay a week from the guy's phone (inbox and outbox) the day the girl left?
How on earth will two people in a house be sending text messages to each other?
I am a chess player and i take note of everything i see!
Next lie pls

That one na small thing now
at least the phone will chime and you know when he's speaking.
A friend of mine and her husband communicated by e-mail for about 2 months

@poster
maybe his cousin

lol

dann it
you guys are not getting me are you?
the poster said her boyfriend was at home with the girl,
the poster was not staying with them,
obviously, the boyfriend and the other girl had free flow of communication, so WHY WOULD THEY SEND MESSAGES

@osisi, your friend and her husband sent mails for 2months when they were in good mood

will you all get what i'm saying or i get more angry
we are not fools reading stories here @poster, get a life!!!

by the way, i just checked the poster's past posts and discovered she's a liar!
check em out urself!

@ poster
sowwy just take it calm

@poster: is this guy really ur bf cause i dont see that been possible keeping a female visitor for a week my boyfreind huh, if he is ur bf then you Bleep up ( sorry for that) and this your bobo get LIVER to do that, thats why i ask
- Are you guys JUST freinds or Lovers
- Or did you broke up with him before this incident, cause this is like an INSULT to you as a LADY

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@gabrywyl
cos 1 yeye boy mak mistak u de talk anyhw
beta watch ur mouth o
wot abt babes wen de giv their bf staph
or cary belle 4 their X bfs,u neva talk abt dem
go hide e!

Did I generalize? I said SOME MEN. . . I did no say ALL MEN. . .

@ Poster

Your boyfriend did a serious 'under G' move with you, but why do some men think that women are incredibly stupid?  

Most men matter na wetin women suppose dump for trash!  

Maybe they were playing chess during that one week. . .

November 2007 topic?

Derin must have long since moved on with her issues and found another boyfriend or probably married by now.