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Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by jodam: 10:23am On Nov 12, 2012
190:


Diallin 080 -Boko -ASO-ROCK

Hello, please can i speak with Goodluck Jona
Yes please hold up
Hello Jona- Acidtalk say Nija babes dey wasteful and as such
no men 4 them, na true

Jona- Yes bros na so we see am, no men go ever marry dem with this attitude of theirs
99.9% of them are wasteful and unresourceful - such a pity


Una don hear una president, Nigerian girls keep been un resourceful - ur headache not that of the men

''una'' or ''our''

Acidtalk, tell me, are u into counselling (marriage/relationship issues)?
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by jodam: 10:27am On Nov 12, 2012
DailyNews: Nice words of wisdom...I respect you for this thread...it is now left for the wise to learn. No man, no matter how wealthy he is, love his sweat to be wasted...either by his employees, siblings, parents, relatives, friends, children, grandchildren, girlfriend, wive or wives! If you doubt this, ask Aliko Dangote or Warren Buffet. It is only men that steal, loot, or earn money through one illegal or unworthy means or the other that likes to throw money around, and even while they do, they dislike the people that hail them to keep throwing or those that help them to squander their wealth, cos deep down their hearts, they know that you are just a jolly good friend or wife. good luck.

I knew it....no be Dailynews?
He must talk im own.

And Acidtalk, pls try continue the yet-to-be-finished thread
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Joliecoco: 5:05am On Nov 13, 2012
LOL, true ,but things are changing now even in Africa.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by acidtalk: 12:00pm On Nov 15, 2012
jodam:

I knew it....no be Dailynews?
He must talk im own.

And Acidtalk, pls try continue the yet-to-be-finished thread


Will follow up with the continuation real soon.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by oluwacjay: 11:52am On Nov 19, 2012
190:


Diallin 080 -Boko -ASO-ROCK

Hello, please can i speak with Goodluck Jona
Yes please hold up
Hello Jona- Acidtalk say Nija babes dey wasteful and as such
no men 4 them, na true

Jona- Yes bros na so we see am, no men go ever marry dem with this attitude of theirs
99.9% of them are wasteful and unresourceful - such a pity


Una don hear una president, Nigerian girls keep been un resourceful - ur headache not that of the men

cheesy
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by yumsty: 4:02pm On Nov 19, 2012
OK/2/NV:
OP u failed misreably in your post by not mentioning that these whores should try to stick to one joystick and hang on for the ride for once in their c u n t-bleeding lives!
not oll women are whores bro.stickin to one man is like d hardest thing u can ax a bitch to do.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by acidtalk: 4:59pm On Nov 20, 2012
Women now justify their cheating nature as a way to revenge men cheating on them too.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Wislet(f): 2:00pm On Nov 24, 2012
acidtalk: Women now justify their cheating nature as a way to revenge men cheating on them too.
oga Acidtalk enjoyin his married life on a Saturday grin grin (pic)

Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by acidtalk: 5:10pm On Nov 24, 2012
Wislet reupload the picture abeg.
I can't view anything.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Wislet(f): 9:37am On Nov 25, 2012
,......,..

Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Wislet(f): 9:41am On Nov 25, 2012
de pic no wan make u see am.
U can manage dis one.

Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Wislet(f): 9:46am On Nov 25, 2012
shocked tongue tongue grin
dey chase all ya NL wives till u become lik dat man. Heheheheeheehehe
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by acidtalk: 6:33pm On Nov 25, 2012
You are also of the list of my wives.

1st - Onila (because she be virgin). Then you and Goldieluks go struggle for 2nd and 3rd position.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by nuattitude74(m): 7:46pm On Nov 25, 2012
Acidtalk,my broda ! Yawa dey O ! There's a battle of the sexes going on in 9ja, and I guess the whole of Africa as we speak. The ladies are beginning to jettison the values we hold dear and true ! This feminism thing is surreptitiously assuming alarming proportions O ! Our ladies are living in Women's liberation la la land ! Especially those ones in the diaspora. A friend of mine who got a scholarship to graduate school in the U.S was around two months ago to attend her sister's wedding and I went to visit her in her family house. As I was leaving, her mum packed some take-away food for me but couldn't find a nylon bag to put them in. I told my friend to please help me hold the food as she was seeing me off outside to where I parked my car. The babe refused O ! She said, I should carry the food myself that na so 9ja men dey do ! We dey look women as servants. Anyway,I self-consciously (because there were so many people seated) carried the two packs of food and we both walked to the car. A week after,this babe was about returning to the U.S and asked me to come take her to the Airport. When I got there the next morning,she had put together some heavy Bags and luggage which were to go into the trunk of my car. I simply opened the Trunk and stood back to watch her lug the stuff into the car, with huffing and puffing, she struggled with the stuff. By this time her dress don begin dirty. All these while, she was looking me with "bad-eye". Anyway,when she went into the house, I helped her put the stuff into the car so that she no go go damage my car for me. When we reach Airport,I just open the trunk of car and she went through the process again! She was mad and asked me what type of MAN I was ? I could allow a lady to be carrying such heavy load while I watched, that I no be gentleman @ all ! I just smiled and said "safe journey my dear." So, Acid my guy, you have got your work cut out for you as you tell the home truth to ladies and restore the natural order that's being tipped on its head. Heck,you fit even lose your life in the process. However, don't relent. Your post is very instructive. The truth is that at the end of the day,it is a man that marries a woman and not the other way round. MORE THAN THE MEN ( Note emphasis ), women usually do need to prove that they are "marriage materials". It might sound unfair but there you are. It's a fact of life,ladies ! Women do need to siddon and wait for their men to propose to them. These days,you don dey hear such nonsense as " a woman can propose" ! Utter balderdash ! Next, they'll tell you marriage isn't that important sef ! Some ladies are taking the " what a man can do, a woman can outdo" to a higher plateau these days ! Some actually pay their cheating partners back in worse tokens ! My hubby phucks around,I'll phuck around too ! Isn't that crazy ! I know I'll be called all sorts of names: male chauvinist Pig etc etc. However, e no go pass the cuss wey some guys don receive on Nairaland. However, that's the cross we have to bear to set things straight and restore the old order. I lie in wait of the next installment of your post.

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Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Wislet(f): 1:34am On Nov 26, 2012
^^^^^ essay.
Makes sense though.
But u musn't be a 'do back' guy.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Goldieluks: 3:23am On Nov 26, 2012
acidtalk: You are also of the list of my wives.

1st - Onila (because she be virgin). Then you and Goldieluks go struggle for 2nd and 3rd position.


Which Goldieluks? If the matter don reach where I go drag you or share you with anybody naim be say I quit.
angry
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Olodo1: 12:07pm On Nov 26, 2012
SabrinaNene: I was rolling on the floor when I read this post. Are you serious?...I'm sorry what century do you live in. Maybe cos I grew up with different parents, but I'm not getting married to be some guy's foot stool. Also this perception of "ahh women you better do this or you won't get married" is rather degrading. Last time I checked people come into the world alone and they die alone, yes marriage might be something good to have along the way, but I'd rather be happy and alone *or even in a civil partnership, than be with some guy that tries to treat me like a 2nd class citizen. In my opinion any guy that feels threatened or emasculated by a woman because she asks him to get water for her to wash HIS clothes, needs to check himself. Its called SELF-esteem, esteem of your damn self, and if having to go get water would really hurt your ego that much...then maybe you aren't really a man...ever though of that...#just saying.
Yall need to stop blaming women for everything....


this statemenu is misleading. This is africa a place with cultured people.
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by Nobody: 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2012
acidtalk: There are so many mistake Women (and Men) make and this has caused many of them to still remain single. Those that managed to hook a partner with such behavior are either divorced or miserable in their marriage.

Women should take precaution and avoid the following grave errors.

DO NOT BE :

* Quarrelsome : some ladies are just too aggressive you will almost think they were made from fire. They could argue and even sometimes fight over both trivial and no too important issues.

* Curses : this is a very serious issue. NO man! And I repeat NO man!! Wants a woman (girl friend or wife) who uses the slightest of curse words either while just joking or during anger. The average African doesn't take curse in any form likely. Every man wants a woman who if she doesn't pray for his success will just rather keep her mouth short.

Words like; your are mad, you are crazy, oloshi, olorigburuku, oyianrah, bastard, damboranbaka and so many others might be considered as a mere joke to you, but the average African man holds them against you.

*Wasteful : women should know that it is NOT cute at all to be wasteful in any form. Be it throwing left over meals away, going to the fast food when there is food at home, using bottle water to cook, packing 5 pieces of meat at once, insisting you can't eat with meat and lots more are what a man notices and even if he doesn't tell you, he will hold it against you.

In this present Economy situation all over the world, the last thing a man needs is a woman that doesn't know how to manage. Every man wants a woman who would insist on him increasing his wealth than helping him to squander it.


* Superstitouos : study your friends and people around you very well before uttering somethings on your personal believe and fate. Imagine telling an extremely religious Muslim or Christian who calls on God only that you know very well some people are behind your problems and as such you will go to one native doctor or the other to seek help. You have just pushed a prospective suitor away. Always keep your personal spiritual believes to yourself as making another man see things from your point of view might only spell disaster.

* Respect : women of Nowadays have watched too many of Oprah Winfrey show that they now think 'Women are now above Men'. Africa tradition most especially on Marital life will remain no matter the amount of civilization we try to inject into our tradition.

A situation when a woman says the only condition she can wash her husbands cloths is that the man should go and fetch the water, or if he knows he want her to cook dinner he should go and bring out the soup from the freezer. Some of these examples sound ridiculous but they happen everyday in our society today.

No matter how rich and executive you might be, go back and copy the old tradition to how women respected and treated men. Only then will you find the true love a man has for you. Respecting and obeying your husband will Never make you less of a woman.


......To be Continued.
bros but u know say naija babes no go fit do without nagging and quarrelling.na dat one be their hobby grin
Re: Ladies Avoid This Behaviors And See Yourself Getting Married Soon (A MUST READ) by acidtalk: 9:04pm On Nov 05, 2015
Just for reminds

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