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Love Letters To My Wife by Goergey: 3:18pm On Nov 13, 2007
I found love letters written by a man to my wife.
i didnt ask her about it but took my time to dig further and to my amazement,
she has been in romantic communication with this guy.
when i blew the lid with evidences, she agreed being very close to the guy but
swore that she never slept with him. i am confused and devastated.
why would a married women do that?
As for our sex life, she never yeilds and wen she does, its like fulfilling all
righteousness. I am very disturbed. Should i seek for divource?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by stellose(f): 3:41pm On Nov 13, 2007
dear it has not gotten to that stage , yes you have all the right to question your wife on this issue. so long as she is married, you ought to be her every now and then mirror.

you love yourselves, so sit down as one and put an end to the in coming letters.
for the love you have bestored on one another ,divorce is not the answer ok please.
the wedding ring is a continues process ,it has no cut edge, let love and trust be your watch word. peace my brother
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by angel101(f): 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2007
This one hard o!

stellose:

you love yourselves, so sit down as one and put an end to the in coming letters.
for the love you have bestored on one another ,divorce is not the answer ok please.
the wedding ring is a continues process ,it has no cut edge, let love and trust be your watch word. peace my brother

my dear judging from the guys post it is not obvious wether or not his wife loves him. It also does not seem like she has bestowed much love on him now. Also the trust seems to have been betrayed.

I do not think that marriage should be a life sentence. whats the point remaining in a bad marriage. That is not to say that i am advising u to leave ur wife. But that option cannot be ruled out. Only u can reach that decision though. my advise is stay in the marriage only if u are happy. dont remain to save face or fulfill all righteousness.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by cybersleek(m): 7:24pm On Nov 13, 2007
Obviously, there are hidden problems in your marriage which you have missed either by commission or ommission, speak to your with sincerely, find out what the problem is and sort them out. I guess your wife is getting something from the guy which you are not giving her, find out what it is and make amends, most affairs start becos of a gap in communication and affection which others capitalise on.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by Goergey: 8:52pm On Nov 13, 2007
Your advice has been quite encouraging for those who have sent very honest replies.
Right now we do live as total strangers. She does not give sex anymore and i feel like going out to get one.
i dont feel like that would be chating on her. She is one mistake of my life.
I should have known.
Guys its not funny for me.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by angel101(f): 8:57pm On Nov 13, 2007
Is she saying anything so far?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by OyinboNo1(m): 8:59pm On Nov 13, 2007
are there any children involved?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by opokonwa(m): 1:17pm On Nov 14, 2007
Get a professional marriage counsellor

Go for professional marriage counselling

SAVE YOUR HOME BEFORE IT BREAKS UP!

PAY HEAVILY FOR IT IF YOU CAN AFFORD IT.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by BobJames1(f): 1:25pm On Nov 14, 2007
No children involved and she hasnt said anything new.
I had to call in a man of God for councelling. i realy feel betrayed
and feel like just quit this stuff called marriage.
For me its no fun anymore.
The oly thing keepin me is my children. Four of them.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by ettehgate(m): 1:27pm On Nov 14, 2007
guy,
your life is in danger
staying in the same house with a woman that is supposed to be your
one and only and she having a crunch for another is the most dangerous
situation a guy can find himself in.

DIVORCE HER SO YOU WILL NOT DIE PREMATURE

if not if you die today she will be the happiest person on earth.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by 2dye4(m): 1:31pm On Nov 14, 2007
@poster; ur marriage is not beyond redemption, but both parties must see there are real issues to tackle and that its not gonna be easy. all the best. wink
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by ettehgate(m): 1:35pm On Nov 14, 2007
guys why are you not telling this guy the truth?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by somze(m): 1:37pm On Nov 14, 2007
@poster
i'm so sorry to hear this, like 2dye4, I think you should seek to redeem your marriage . . . this is indeed a difficult and painstaking process from what I've heard - I'm single myself, but it may just be worth the effort.

Try to fall in love with each other all over again. Try Christian counseling, romantic holidays, communication - about what you both feel, what you want and where you want the marriage to be.

I hope it all goes well.

Now on the lighter mode . . . guys sorry o . . . I'd like to invite a[b]lmondjoy, nwando and co[/b] to see this. Perhaps as they argue it is wrong for this man to read his wife's letters. And he was snooping around grin grin grin
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by Vernor(m): 1:39pm On Nov 14, 2007
Hi @ etehgate, i support u, my brother pls move fast you are the man you must always be in charge whether you have or not be in charge. Dont consider anything drop her ok If she is sincere to you why did she keep those letters forget whether the guy slept with her or not. Although someone made a good suggestion, you can ask her what is the problem and if you observe you are @ fault make ammendment but most of all Run 4 ur der life or seek 4 divorce life is too short for u to make it a painful state, enjoy while u have d breath.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by snugle: 1:46pm On Nov 14, 2007
wow!now this is deep.seek some councelling,if you have gotten to the point where you feel your wife is ur greatest mistake,talk to her about it.fix the marriage or quit the marriage. .but,wow.this is deep.
How old is your wife?how long have you been married?when did she start the issue with the other guy?what led to it?r u doin sumtin wrong?so so so many questions.
i would advice you look past the issue and find out y she is acting the way she is. if it aint worth it, then quit it.its better to b sad alone than to b compelled to b sad by someone else
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by needeeg(m): 1:50pm On Nov 14, 2007
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ettehgate:

guys why are you not telling this guy the truth?
Is aint bad if u tel him, afteroll that's why is here!

All have said it man, so take ur time and go with some tips here, best of luck!! 8
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by ettehgate(m): 1:55pm On Nov 14, 2007
ok look at it this way,
if you want to store your babes number in your phone,
you try to hide it by using word that only you will understand

YOUR WIFEY HAVE THE AUDACITY TO KEEP HER LOVERS LETTER IN YOUR HOUSE

my brother to this woman, you are already dead.

you want her to admit that the other guy de shag her befor you know what to do?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by lamidebaby(f): 2:03pm On Nov 14, 2007
Goergey:

I found love letters written by a man to my wife.
i didnt ask her about it but took my time to dig further and to my amazement,
she has been in romantic communication with this guy.
when i blew the lid with evidences, she agreed being very close to the guy but
swore that she never slept with him. i am confused and devastated.
why would a married women do that?
As for our sex life, she never yeilds and when she does, its like fulfilling all
righteousness. I am very disturbed. Should i seek for divource?

Bob James:

No children involved and she hasnt said anything new.
I had to call in a man of God for councelling. i realy feel betrayed
and feel like just quit this stuff called marriage.
For me its no fun anymore.
The oly thing keepin me is my children. Four of them.
What exactly is going on here? case of multiple ID? Is Georgey = Bob James?
Analysing Bob James' post:
Bob James:

No children involved and she hasnt said anything new.
I had to call in a man of God for councelling. i realy feel betrayed
and feel like just quit this stuff called marriage.
For me its no fun anymore.
The oly thing keepin me is my children. Four of them.

This is crazy to say the least.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by somze(m): 2:07pm On Nov 14, 2007
lamidebaby:

What exactly is going on here? case of multiple ID? Is Georgey = Bob James?
Analysing Bob James' post:
This is crazy to say the least.
Good observation
Whats going on here undecided
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by almondjoy(f): 10:02pm On Nov 14, 2007
lamidebaby:

What exactly is going on here? case of multiple ID? Is Georgey = Bob James?
Analysing Bob James' post:
This is crazy to say the least.

somze:

Good observation
Whats going on here undecided

Bwha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha wha-ha-lah!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin Nairaland go kill person!

It is called a cyber "glitch"!!! cheesy grin cheesy cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin


Too much to drink I guess! grin
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by NaJaHaJe(f): 10:11pm On Nov 14, 2007
I wanted to comment then i realized that goergey boy and bob james are probably the same person.

thats just too wierd. It may reflect your personal life as well. Dont you think so,,,,,,,, BOB GEORGEY?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by Siena(m): 8:04pm On Nov 15, 2007
NaJa HaJe:

I wanted to comment then i realized that goergey boy and bob james are probably the same person.

thats just too wierd. It may reflect your personal life as well. Dont you think so,,,,,,,, BOY GEORGE?

PMSLMFAO!!! cheesy
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by lilrukevwe(m): 9:05pm On Nov 15, 2007
na waoh wetin person nor go see 4 life wife they deny husband Bleep eh well bros take am easy na small small them take they go london u be man becos if u are nt u for done throw her thanks 4 the patience it wud pay off ok
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by lilrukevwe(m): 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2007
na waoh wetin person nor go see 4 life wife they deny husband Bleep eh well bros take am easy na small small them take they go london u be man becos if u are nt u for done throw her thanks 4 the patience it wud pay off ok
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by almondjoy(f): 5:44am On Nov 16, 2007
lilrukevwe:

na waoh wetin person nor go see 4 life wife they deny husband mess eh well bros take am easy na small small them take they go london u be man because if u are nt u for done throw her thanks for the patience it would pay off ok

Abi you be Boy Georgery and Bobby James too? grin Can't you see there is a problem with this thread?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by Bosdem(f): 9:41am On Nov 16, 2007
If she says she has not slept with him, i guess you pardon her, if she agrees to cut all forms of communication with him and you are still sure she loves you, if not, dont waste ur time bro. all the best
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by okike84(m): 9:58am On Nov 16, 2007
'if ur woman don break ur hart
ur slippers don cut make u no try amend
am cos e no go eva be like b4'

guy seek a divorce she has got a divided
attention dere is no point tinkin of wat
to do infidelity is infidelity in wat ever form
it comes
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by rosquare(m): 10:57am On Nov 16, 2007
@Boy Georgery abi na @Bobby James
there are three way to handle such issues.

1 stay with the situation,accept it as your fate, and ask
for grace to carry your cross.

2 take necesary actions (murder excluded) to change your situation. you will
need strenght and wisdom.

3 walk away from the problem with your dignity intact
it means you'll have to start all over again.

just hold on a minute grin. before u decide,consider the following

how long av you been married?
do you have children?
are you sure your hands are clean?
during your courtship,did you see any of these signs?

take a walk to a quiet natural environment and do a soul
searching exercise as you ask yourself the questions above.

remember you are the one wearing the shoes,and it is only
you taht has the full story.

Finally, PRAY TO YOUR GOD.
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by NaJaHaJe(f): 10:16pm On Nov 17, 2007
@ Sienna

what does PMSLMAO mean or rather the PMS?
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by predi(m): 9:40pm On Nov 18, 2007
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ok look at it this way,
if you want to store your babes number in your phone,
you try to hide it by using word that only you will understand

YOUR WIFEY HAVE THE AUDACITY TO KEEP HER LOVERS LETTER IN YOUR HOUSE

my brother to this woman, you are already dead.

you want her to admit that the other guy de shag her befor you know what to do?
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abi o! the thin tyre me o!
for me ehn! its not even the shaggin aspect dat hurts, its evident that psychologically, se woman aint feelin yu and shes not wit u at all- u say u hav sex like just fulfillin all righteousness, wetin u don dey do since for dia?

bobs, straight pack ur things or or her things -wateva and get a divorce o!



just as failure is a spring board to success, so is divorce a spring board to a beta and fulfilin marriage[/sub]come to think of it, yu get 2 test new waters-wat u've been dreamin of yur whole married life[sub] chai!! u dey enjoy o!
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by ifyalways(f): 10:01pm On Nov 18, 2007
dead men dont bite. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Love Letters To My Wife by sussy1(f): 2:51pm On Nov 21, 2007
You are indeed a man i read ur post in Roman about ur subordinate of a thing and i was force to check ur profile and found out that u r new member,i guess all wat u want is advise on how to save and protect ur marriage(that is wat makes me to call u a man).
You see it very scares to see a man that will discover all these that his wife does and still want to make it up with her,but u know wat? no matter wat u ve to make it work.The bible has made u to be the head,so if anything happen to the marriage the Lord will 1st ask u b4 asking her.So i will advise u to make it work at all cause at this point of ur marriage there is no going back not even for anything.Even if it will cost u reading some literature for support,visiting xtian counsellor(that is if u are a xtian) for advise i think it really worth it,not because of today but because of the judgement day.
So my brother try and restore back the first love btw the two of u pls.May the good God give u the wisdom require to make ur marriage work Amen.
Note:Pls run away for that ur subordinate oo,it is a SIN and the Lord will not existate in punishing u for that.

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