A xtian male, nw 28yrs old, currently doin NYSC tins far North f Nigeria-near Abuja.

I dont hv a gal yet (or had any) as galfrend nor fiancee, in fact stil a virgin.

Wit family (marriage) life @ ma corridor, I'm jst 2 shy 2 speak 2 gals and feel uncomfortable in their company.

I'm tired as my urge for girls keeps growing in leaps and bounds by d day yet I cnt stand startng a relatnshp wit them.

Is ds nt endangerng my procreatn functns on ds surface, and hw cn i subdue ds internal-crisis of mine?

U need alot of counsellin

I'm in the same situation as u OP

I suggest you go to the beach and wash yourselves 7 times

Although younger, i'm a virgin boy too. not because i'm shy or there aren't opportunities(o yampian), its just decision, i want to be lyk ur age b4 venturin into it. but here u are, i tink u need to overcome ur fears, u cant rmain lyk that 4eva. . . gudluck broda

empowerme: A xtian male, nw 28yrs old, currently doin NYSC tins far North f Nigeria-near Abuja.

I dont hv a gal yet (or had any) as galfrend nor fiancee, in fact stil a virgin.

Wit family (marriage) life @ ma corridor, I'm jst 2 shy 2 speak 2 gals and feel uncomfortable in their company.

I'm tired as my urge for girls keeps growing in leaps and bounds by d day yet I cnt stand startng a relatnshp wit them.

Is ds nt endangerng my procreatn functns on ds surface, and hw cn i subdue ds internal-crisis of mine?

is there any way that you could join a christian singles group in your area? that way you could at least be around women who know that the sole purpose of the gatherings are to meet and mingle with other christians who are interested in relationships which will possibly lead to marriage. There are a lot of nice women out there who would be understanding of the fact that you are shy and dont really have any experience with women. in fact im sure alot would be pleased with this, in addition to the fact tht you are a virgin. Since you have never been with any other woman you are moldable and teachable. Please keep praying on this situation, and have faith. God will supply all of your needs. I am praying for you.

Mynd_44: I suggest you go to the beach and wash yourselves 7 times

^^^Be sensible.... Not everything is linked with spiritual problem.... Smh, some typical nigerian gullibility.
@OP, dis is serious! I think its shyness and you have to deal with it. Am sure you gat male friends who can help you out on cases like this. They may link you up.

Excelboi: ^^^Be sensible.... Not everything is linked with spiritual problem.... Smh, some typical nigerian gullibility.
@OP, dis is serious! I think its shyness and you have to deal with it. Am sure you gat male friends who can help you out on cases like this. They may link you up.

sometimes i wish arranged marriages were popular in the USA....it would save people alot of trouble of finding a mate. lol.

Excelboi: ^^^Be sensible.... Not everything is linked with spiritual problem.... Smh, some typical nigerian gullibility.
@OP, dis is serious! I think its shyness and you have to deal with it. Am sure you gat male friends who can help you out on cases like this. They may link you up.

It is called sarcasm dude

Tbh I don't find this normal maybe you hav an underlying insecurity you haven't tapped into yet. A man talking to a woman is the most natural thing no matter how shy. A woman can start ad a friend and this friendship grows or work colleague that you get comfortable with. A 28 yr old viirgin who's scared of girls. Hmm

Dude did you mean to write 28 or 18?

Welcome to NL. The home of all types of freaks where people will rather share their problems with than their shrinks