I had this chick that i had been on her case for about 8 months now, i really liked her and there was a stage i felt she could be the 1, suddenly i just got tired of her games but just still chasing her because i had spent so much of my time and as an experienced hunter i knew with women , u never say never, to cut the long thing short i finally nacked her this week and it wasn't spectacular, maybe if she had succumbed earlier i would have still been crazy about her, but as at now i've discharged,

SoReal:

Howdy all,
I met this guy bout 2 weeks ago. Therez this chemistry that we both can't deny. He seems like a very nice person. He thinks we should work on a rship. this may sound silly but don't u think a girl needs 2 play hard 2 get for sometime? just so she doesnt seem desperate.
Comments PLSSSSSSSS

Hannibal:

Playing hard to GET might come back to bite your ass REAL HARD.
Why waste time when u already know chemistry exists between you 2s. . . .
Ya playing hard to get might get him bored which may drive him to other chics.
Get real. . . . Take whatz yours!!!

Hannibal:

Playing hard to GET might come back to bite your ass REAL HARD.
Why waste time when u already know chemistry exists between you 2s. . . .
Ya playing hard to get might get him bored which may drive him to other chics.
Get real. . . . Take whatz yours!!!

j-girl:

As usual!
Guys saying how bad it is to play hard to get.

On a personal level, I don't play hard to get but that gets me in so much trouble because the guys don't cater to me as much as they are supposed to.

So girl, make him work hard for at least a month.
Guys only appreciate what they work for, not what they get so easily.
You need to play hard to get to get them to cherish you forever and ever.
Don't mind Hannibal's advice. He's only talking this way because he's on the losing side of the fence.

Play your games, it keeps them on their toes even in the relationship.

ibkaye:

CH3COO:

that's the kind of game you were playing with me

j-girl:


On a personal level, I don't play hard to get but that gets me in so much trouble because the guys don't cater to me as much as they are supposed to.

So girl, make him work hard for at least a month.
Guys only appreciate what they work for, not what they get so easily.
You need to play hard to get to get them to cherish you forever and ever.
Don't mind Hannibal's advice. He's only talking this way because he's on the losing side of the fence.

Play your games, it keeps them on their toes even in the relationship.

ibkaye:

chineke, me? am not flirting o, just friendly conversation

Hannibal:

Work hard for a MONTH??
God knows i won't be there by the time she comes back to her ground state.
Keep who on a leash for one month??

Although i must agree there's a thin line between the schitzo.
If a woman has your number and has declined two of your invitations without mentioning the possibility of a future date, she's not playing hard to get; she's playing hard to never get.

If she were interested, she would call you at some point or at least apologize for being so busy and give you a future possibility, like mentioning that next week is much better for her and that the two of you can go out then. If she's busy all the time and makes no attempt to keep the window of possibility open, it's clear she doesn't want to waste either of your time. Move on, game over.

j-girl:

Saucekid must hear this one. Bonafide Olofofo like me. I must live up to my TMZ name.

ibkaye:

you think so? not at all

CH3COO:

It's important we set the right foundation. Sauce kid or not, follow your heart. I'm not a rapper but I'll have you forever dancing to the hymns of my eternal love.

j-girl:

If the girl has it all. She's fine, sexy, daring, and is a career woman all-in-one, you'll see how many guys she'll be suspending.
It depends on the the way the girl looks too.
Wowo girls don't make shakara too much because they know what the chances are.

Hannibal:

There are many pebbles on the beach. . . .

Fine, sexy. daring and a career women. . . . .They are 2 for $5 everywhere u turn.
While u are playing hard to GET. . . .A woman with more qualities is hoping n praying to land a man to stopher endless sleepless nights without a man.

Women can't make decisions to save a life. . . . .what if, what is, why, how, when and all that.

Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts.
Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life.

Buncha time-wasters!!!

j-girl:

Women ask so many questions to be sure. Nowadays, I advise women to have a main boyfriend and then have as many backups as they can keep away from each other. If a woman can handle 5 guys, so be it. Guys of today do the same and whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander. This is the same reason why I think playing hard to get is a waste of time. Say yes to all 10 of them and cut them down one by one. The process of elimination has proven to be one of the best.

Hannibal:

If u lead the way, others would follow.
Look at this polyandrist. . . . . .5-10 boy/fs at a time.
You forgot the whatchumacallit has a meter that reads??
The nuisance value will be so high, it will drive your bride price down to decimals in Cedis!!!