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Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 12:35am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: U can play 3 geezers at a time?? Sweeeeeeeeeeeet Jesus!!!!! Enough technology to eliminate the decimals?? I agree. What about the legendary status that follows u everywhere. . . . . .Posterity will surely judge. Take a cue: When u like a guy enough to the point of ur heart skipping 2 beats when he calls, go for IT!!!! U have nuthing to LOSE. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 12:39am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Hannibal:The status can be claimed to be just rumours. Nothing serious. My hubby has to believe me over them. If not ehn! . . . . . . he'll tell the story. When a girl likes a guy and he's making her feel all the right jitters, that's exactly when she needs to play hard to get. She'll be able to control herself and be able to gain the kind of respect she deserves. If she does not play hard to get, it will be very hard to get a guy who loves her as much as he would if he got her easily. Guys love the chase and they appreciate the fact that they had to chase to get the girl. Nothing good comes easy. . . . . . that's what they say. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 12:45am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: I agree witcha!!! The chase is fun. . . . . . .every man enjoys it but if it stretches too long, it becomes watery. Let a guy chase for 3 days and decide what u want to do with him. Even if u are not ready to date yet. . . . . .Leave hints for him to know u are interested but not 100% sure yet. Closing doors on him all the time and expecting him to come back for more is R-I-S-K-Y. Before u know it, your home-girl is sneaking behind u to see the dude. Remember, the ratio is huge. 7:1. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by StephenP(m): 12:47am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Ladies, please do play hard to get but don't play too much or too hard. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 12:51am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Hannibal:Finally! Leave hints like what? No real friend sneaks behind her friend's back to get a dude she knows loves her friend The dude has to be smart too. If he truly likes the girl, he won't be swayed easily. As huge as the ratio is, there's still a possibility. Guys are real pains, I swear. I wonder why on earth they cannot define what they want and stick to it. They want girls who play hard but drop hints. Jeez! Every married woman deserves a medal. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 12:57am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: We are more sure of what we want than women. Men don't ask hypothetical questions like y'all do. . . . . they spot their targets and they go for 'em ASAP. The ratio is very much against em females. The odds are stacked against y'all!! Men's patience are receding. . . . .It used to be 1 month back in the days. . . . . now it's 1 week. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by eldee(m): 12:59am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl:Try 'Dude, I know you're one legendary chap, and I know how many women will beg to go out with you . . . but erm, let's cut the chase, I'm in love with you and you kind of like me, let's make this work' This is a good hint . . . 99% efficient |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 1:02am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Hannibal:Men do not commit. Most women have the intention of viewing relationships as commitment. That's why guys go into relationships anyhow. They should allow their patience to keep receding, the divorce rates are increasing. Explains why they marry jezebels b4 they figure it out. eldee:Lol! That's so weak! You flatter yourself wayyyyyyyy too much. Hisssssssssssssssssssss! Women beg to go out with you? Na wa! I'm in the midst of hot items shey? Go and sit down jare. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by eldee(m): 1:08am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl:Come . . . let me be Sumone asked me for hints and I gave the one that works for me Hannibal and Sly have theirs . . . ask 'em, they'll tell you And yes . . . you're in in the midst of hot items |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 1:12am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: Women contribute more to divorce more than men. . . . .What have u got to say to that?? Besides, is there any guarantee that a guy u played hard for won't break ur heart atomically?? Some men are vicious. . . .the more u play them. . . the more they wanna leave ur heart broken/bludgeoned and ripped apart. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 1:16am On Jul 20, 2008 |
eldee:Lol! Sorry o! Keep your hints to yourself jare! They don't work for me Hannibal:Women contribute more to divorce than men? If they spent more time playing hard to get and more time courting, maybe they would have realized that they needed more time apart. There is no guarantee about breaking of hearts when it comes to men which is why you should have many backups. All of them cannot break your heart at the same time. It is impossicant. Some women are vicious because they know how to be discreet in shattering the hearts of men. They also know how to do it in such a way that no man will know he's getting played. Trust me. . . . . . .I know |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Nobody: 1:21am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: That's true. You got to filter the wheat from the chaff and analyse. A lot, I say, a lot of psychopaths abound |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by A40(m): 1:22am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Of course yes we guys respect the challenge but ladies dont overdo it because it will come back and bite ya thats for sure |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 1:26am On Jul 20, 2008 |
stillwater:Abi. Playing hard to get reveals if the guy has enough tolerance and love to be able to handle you. A-40:You respect the challenge but you complain when it's too much. How can you do such? All guys are different. To some guys 3 days is too long, to others 3 months is just right. That's why I said you guys are confused. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by eldee(m): 1:31am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl:Playing hard to get does not affect the future relationship positively Man is programmed to cherish what he doesn't have, it's natural When he gets it, that's a new question C'mon that period is just a time when you show a false image of yorself You only start understanding each other when the relationship starts So you still believe that a 21st Century Ahab exists? Nah . . . Lets get it straight A bloke has three backups, he's a playa A lady has two, she's the office biatch Even Lil Kim agreed |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by jgirl3: 1:36am On Jul 20, 2008 |
eldee:Save your hints for who? Oniranu! I agree with you sha. If a girl is playing hard to get and the guy is not patient enough to give her time to think, I think that's part of what I am saying. Some characteristics reveal themselves during the 'playing hard to get' stage e.g. verbal abuse I'd rather be the office biatch than be a pathetic woman at the age of 40 still single and searching all because I put my eggs in one basket. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 1:37am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl: Women are vicious. . . . . Let em continue. The end shall surely justify the means. 20 men can break your heart at the same time. Ever heard of tag team?? Do u know it's possible for 6 friends to be dating u without your knowledge?? They jam each other in your crib, pretend they don't know each other but laugh behind your back!!! If i tell u the kind of stuffs i did in ma Uni days, u would go to the abbey and become a nun. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by eldee(m): 1:47am On Jul 20, 2008 |
j-girl:Wrong again . . . 'em ones that 'play' three guys wiv 'em knowing never end up marrying They end up as pub gist ladies . . . 'I saw her wiv A and B, I must try my luck too' Hannibal:Yeah . . . those names that come up in pubs before football matches After everything the 'playa chics' end up as ushers in church Afterall God loves everyone |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 1:55am On Jul 20, 2008 |
eldee: . . . . . .U catch ma drift. I laugh me ass out whenever gurls try to play men within the same city. Men for what they are love socialising. . . . .within minutes a dude can make 20 friends in a pub and merry. While referencing and cross-referencing. . U find out that u and 3 other guys are paging the same chic and we all come to an agreement to stay mute! The funniest one is meeting ur friend in ur gurl's room and pretending u guys dont know each other. . . . . Blimey. . . .the chic in question tells the other guy u are her cousin/admirer and vice versa(what a cheap method). Oblivious to her, when em geezers go back to the pub, they compare notes and laugh it off. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by A40(m): 1:56am On Jul 20, 2008 |
@j-girl Noo you guys are the confused ones see what you girls dont understand is sometimes we even act interested especially when we see she is playing hard to get and then the moment yall let your guards down and give us that funk dat sweet dat nasty and gushy stuff we are out the door.Some guys will calculatively wait while some will just walk out what matters to me is chemistry if you like a dude dont hide it |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 1:59am On Jul 20, 2008 |
A-40: Touche. . . |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by eldee(m): 2:06am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Hannibal:Exactly . . . and there are some times guys just decide to have fun They all invite the 'playette' out at the same time, laughing at the different excuses she doles out Meanwhile, our pimpette is there amusing herself with her 'intelligence' |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Hannibal: 2:18am On Jul 20, 2008 |
@ Eldee, Exactly ma sentiments!!! The same intelligence possessed by a church mouse. . . .Poor, watery and uncouth. Guys can be deadly. . . . .Trust me!!! Without any prior arrangement. . . .You meet your friend dilly-dallying with your supposed chic and u keep a straight face. . . . He sees u, he reads your body language and he leaves immediately to let u have your time n space with her. After the whole rendezvous. . . . . . .You meet him at the pub, compare notes and work together as a unit to make her pay. Meanwhile, the nymphet is right there believing stupidly that she is a playette. . . . . What a laugh!!! |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by A40(m): 2:21am On Jul 20, 2008 |
You even see guys running bets on who would bone the chic quicker! and there the girl sits thinking she is doing the playing.Pathetic |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by chika98: 2:37am On Jul 20, 2008 |
So long as you don't over it do then it's cool |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by HCH3COO: 2:49am On Jul 20, 2008 |
chika98: |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by Nobody: 3:34am On Jul 20, 2008 |
Mr.Modifier |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by HCH3COO: 3:52am On Jul 20, 2008 |
whatever man |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by topup: 5:24am On Aug 26, 2008 |
This stuff is sick! You guys sure love to talk and gossip! |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by kenuoyibo(m): 4:41am On Apr 11, 2010 |
Playing hard to get will disfavour you if: 1. the guy lacks persistence 2.the guy has better options around 3.his closest click advises him to burst you that you are not worth the chase. There was a guy that toasted a girl,so she didnt jel. He deleted the girl's number, only for her to call a radio station's dating programme to lodge her complaint. |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by abrahym(m): 10:43am On Apr 11, 2010 |
Yep i support gurls to do shakara bcoz my sister do thesame |
Re: Guys, Do U Think A Girl Needs To Make Shakara B4 Saying Yes? by daduke2k(m): 10:56am On Apr 11, 2010 |
Wotz wif u guyz and bringin up old threadz? Damn, dis shyt nidz 2 b lockd upz. . . . |
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