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Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Idowuogbo(f): 12:35am On Jul 05, 2012
ayosmiles: thanks, ur words have touched me. I was in a conference 2day when my friend called that my gal was waiting 4 me in ma office. I came late to meet her angry nd i had to apologise. Then she said i shld hlp her with somethin on d internet. I was just too tired to go to cafe, so i dropped her there nd left her with ma friend to hlp her. Come nd see vexin. I knw she wont talk to me for some days.
Ayo u dey mad? Dem use punny water swear for u ? Come, wassup wiv dis muguish character of urs Ehn? She jazz u? So wit all ur ru buoy swagga, u b1 bolo wey gal dey control abi? Marry her o! Marry her! I bet u anythin, one of your kids if not all would be fathered by adultery.She is addicted to cheating.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by shizzle11(m): 1:06am On Jul 05, 2012
grin ;DJeeez!
@onegai, you actually wrote that epistle on this

@op, you already know what to do: discard her like used tissue!
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Nobody: 1:37am On Jul 05, 2012
I bet that H0e Pussey wide as a Wizard's Sleeve.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by lagcity(m): 2:32am On Jul 05, 2012
cut your losses and stop investing in her emotionally. but continue to phock her and have it in your mind that you're phocking an escort. till you get another GF.

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Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Ranoscky(m): 3:01am On Jul 05, 2012
U stil need an advice on whato do about b*tch??

Oboy, na only zombie dem dey tel make im move if im no wan move o!
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Nobody: 3:23am On Jul 05, 2012
ayosmiles: I recently discovered my gf is datin her ex secretly. I confronted her nd she confessed nd apologised. Later she started datin anoda guy nd would even go to his house straight frm my office when shes visitin. First time i caught her she said she was goin there to watch movies. Next she was cookin 4 hin nd other things but she still denied. D guys gf came to my office to complain that my gf is disturbin her bf. I confronted my gal, she confessed nd apologised again nd promise not to do it again. Then one day i left her in d office to visit a friend. She called around 5pm that she was goin home. Guess wht, i saw her on my way home around 8.30pm with another guy. I came down nd called her. She left nd followed d guy as if she didnt see me. Now dis gal is also jealous, if she sees a gal with me she freaks out nd i chased all my female friends cos of her. All my friends advice i dump her. I love her, i wanted to marry her but now i dont knw wht to do. Can dat kind of gal change or shld i leave her.

And i bet you didn't do nothing.....

You Sat in tha car Like a Little Biiich while my man was tongue kissing her all up inside tha Mouth

And you ain't do Nothing....HaHa You a SLuurrrrrb

My man was grabbin all on your H0e Butt. Hands all in the Crack

He had her coochie funk all under neath his finger Nails....

Probably even had a few of her pubbic hairs stick inside the sweat glands of his Palm.

Hahaha And you sat there and watched.

Punk az Niqqah.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Ranoscky(m): 3:24am On Jul 05, 2012
And hey! If u marry dat gal, be rest assured dat ur children wil DEFINITELY be a biitch-asz-made product. U'r such a fvck-stick for even sayin u stil love her. Even if her toto na ATM, she is an EPIC F9!
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by JojoArmani(m): 6:31am On Jul 05, 2012
tobechi74: Poster, one question 4 u.plz

if u have a safe were u keep ur money, and u discover that d padlock cud be open by any key. Wat wil u do'?

Dispose it and get a beta padlock

keep it and pray d padluk automaticaly changes
Nice question man. @op answer de question.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by JojoArmani(m): 6:41am On Jul 05, 2012
Onegai: Everyone please stop insulting the OP. We've all been here where he is, some form or the other.
OP: she doesn't love you, to her you're the guy who will marry her, her backup. I promise you this! I was in your situation with a guy, while I was crying abt him, everyone and their father told me for sure, he had others, and I was his backup, in case he didn't find a hot version who had a good character. I'm happy now, because I'd rather be no.1. Don't you think you deserve to be no.1? Her jealousy is normal, my ex did the same, she's ensuring no-one snatches her backup while she's playing. Every good player has a dependable backup, and you're hers.

She is NOT for you and she will never be for you, even if you break up and she comes shedding crocodile tears and dressing like MFM, because she's gotten used to using you to stroke her ego and it's a bad and tough habit to break once you've started, ask anyone (99% of us have done it to other people and have had it done to us). What other excuse does a gf have for pretending not to see her man when he meets her in the coy of another guy? She no wan vex that nig.ger, so she no mind disrespecting you. If that other guy had not been important to her, she would walked away to the Numero Uno in her life, and since she didn't come to you, what does that tell you? What she is doing is hurting your ego, and last I checked, Love doesn't hurt you. It simply doesn't.

All the fun you have with her is infatuation, trust me! It is Mango that is overripe and spoiling that is sweet, the feeling of not knowing where you stand with her is making you pursue her. That her behaviour is learnt in Player 101 class (your male friends who have behaved like her towards innocent girls recognise her tactics). Abi you wan see the love letter I write my ex, declaring love while he was doing the same thing your woman dey do?? I never forget am? Better person don come sef!

And I promise once you leave, the tears and MFM attending to get you back will start (because which person in the world doesn't want to know that somewhere there's a guy/girl patiently waiting) once she realises that she is the backup of all those other guys (first guy's gf came to report her, so she definitely is). DO NOT ACCEPT HER BACK. I know someone who accepted the man who used her for backup, he's cheating confidently. Anyone who can cheat on you confidently and openly before marriage will NOT wake up respecting you and not cheating after. There are chicks wearing scarf and carrying bible and faking pregnancy in the crucial days of a relationship to nail a man down, your own is flaunting her flirtations and you wan marry??

If you think you deserve to be no.1 in someone's life, look for someone who treats you right. Or stick with this chick, because hey! You have "fun" times.
Girl u get time o o so na cos dis guy u type all dis na wa o o.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by lillaowow(m): 6:57am On Jul 05, 2012
ayosmiles: thanks, ur words have touched me. I was in a conference 2day when my friend called that my gal was waiting 4 me in ma office. I came late to meet her angry nd i had to apologise. Then she said i shld hlp her with somethin on d internet. I was just too tired to go to cafe, so i dropped her there nd left her with ma friend to hlp her. Come nd see vexin. I knw she wont talk to me for some days.



You really need Jesus.
Wiat for Jesus to tell you what to do
(don't you get it, the girl is a big time LovePeddler and you're her 'fall back' plan cos other guys don't want her for a long term. Let the Dam off )
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by kilimanjaro(m): 8:18am On Jul 05, 2012
Ekiti1:
guy I gbadun ur reply die. Two bottles for you.
One bottle is okay, i don't drink much. Lol
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Onegai(f): 9:02am On Jul 05, 2012
Make una free me, I like writing epistle! Lol! Have you never been in a situation where someone had to explain something easy to you as if you were a child?? I've been there, and I was grateful that someone explained it rather than a one-liner "dump that I.diot".
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Nobody: 12:25am On Jul 08, 2012
Tha Op sat there and watched his woman get Molested right in front of him, straight up clown
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by ayosmiles(m): 6:57am On Jul 08, 2012
I think i might have been unfair to her. After d whole incident nd wht ppl said here i decided to ignore her totally nd give other girls a chance. I have this friend dats always takin care of me, cooks 4 me, buys me things nd does things my gf dont do but i cant date her cos i dont love her nd av told her several times nd she kept askin me why cos she loves me. I told her we were not compatible. Well, we started spendin more time 2gether lately. She came 2 my office. My gf saw her nd totally freaked out. She was cryin right there nd my friend was embarassed that she had to leave. My gf started beggin me to forgive her everything nd dat she didnt date d last guy i saw with her nd she's ready to change nd she cant live without me. I couldn't resist d sympathy nd guilt i felt. I hate to c her cry. We made up right there nd things are back to normal. The problem now is that i was supposed to see my friend yesterday but i called nd cancelled d meetin. This gal i cute nd lovin nd interestin but i dont love her, i love my gf. I hope am not making a mistake.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Lobi(f): 5:31pm On Jul 19, 2012
ayosmiles: I think i might have been unfair to her. After d whole incident nd wht ppl said here i decided to ignore her totally nd give other girls a chance. I have this friend dats always takin care of me, cooks 4 me, buys me things nd does things my gf dont do but i cant date her cos i dont love her nd av told her several times nd she kept askin me why cos she loves me. I told her we were not compatible. Well, we started spendin more time 2gether lately. She came 2 my office. My gf saw her nd totally freaked out. She was cryin right there nd my friend was embarassed that she had to leave. My gf started beggin me to forgive her everything nd dat she didnt date d last guy i saw with her nd she's ready to change nd she cant live without me. I couldn't resist d sympathy nd guilt i felt. I hate to c her cry. We made up right there nd things are back to normal. The problem now is that i was supposed to see my friend yesterday but i called nd cancelled d meetin. This gal i cute nd lovin nd interestin but i dont love her, i love my gf. I hope am not making a mistake.

deep sigh

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Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by sexy74(m): 7:00pm On Jul 19, 2012
poster what else do you want to understand, DUMP her faster than Usain Bolt, or cant you get another girl:
Remember dem no dey learn left hand for old age.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Montedosea: 7:12pm On Jul 19, 2012
@Op, believe me,I just left a relationship like urs. U just have to dump her and cross d rubicon! She told u she didn't date d other guy but ignored u cos of him? And u believed?? U hate to see her cry but she doesn't mind to see u sad... Its better to write it on ur forehead that ure single than be ridicled behind ur back cos of a gal. A word they say....
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Mynd44: 7:16pm On Jul 19, 2012
Dump the biatch
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Onegai(f): 8:27pm On Jul 19, 2012
[/quote]Her jealousy is normal, she's ensuring no-one snatches her backup while she's playing. Every good player has a dependable backup, and you're hers.

She is NOT for you and she will never be for you, even if you break up and she comes shedding crocodile tears and dressing like MFM, because she's gotten used to using you to stroke her ego and it's a bad and tough habit to break once you've started, ask anyone. And I promise once you leave, the tears and MFM attending to get you back will start. [quote]


Ladies and Gentlemen, after the OP read the above, his darling proceeded to act as was predicted above and HE TOOK HER BACK. Yup. Their wedding will be coming up soon grin
OP, when you propose to this chick, inform me, there's this book I want to buy you (and one of my exes) as a gift, it's titled "WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU'RE EXPECTING TO MARRY AN EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATIVE, STRONG PERSONALITY SELFISH GIRLFRIEND". It's very good, one of my friends who did just the same as you wrote the foreword on the new print version grin grin
At least someone else will read this thread and hopefully learn, all is not lost...
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by omosexy1: 9:52pm On Jul 19, 2012
Look at this man claiming he has a girl-friend. Please you are sharing that guy with other guys. You better dump her for your own health because she is using you. Once she gets what she wants, you are off. And please brother, go buy some brains.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by ayosmiles(m): 1:54am On Dec 14, 2012
we finally broke up anyway, on my terms
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by Mynd44: 4:22am On Dec 14, 2012
ayosmiles: we finally broke up anyway, on my terms
Good for you bro.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by nlofficial(m): 5:30am On Dec 14, 2012
Wow! Finally.

Now, The advice I have for you is to remember that you're a man. Always treat your girl like a dog. (not in that sense) That's how to handle girls. No nonsense! She will respect and fear you. (TAKE GOOD CARE OF HER) That thing you had was nothing but a loosed dog. Don't let it happen that way in your next relationship.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by roymary: 5:47am On Dec 14, 2012
Marry her MF.
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by olumaxi(m): 6:59am On Dec 14, 2012
Love covereth al sins..if u r convincd u lov ha..go ahead..wit continued eforts on ur part,she'll change..but jst rememba u r d 1 to live wit her,not us
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by ayosmiles(m): 7:51am On Dec 14, 2012
The funniest thing is dat she eventualy changed and stopped every liason with other guys becos of me but it was too late, d love wo more there. D break up was inevitable. She actualy loved me, i found out too late
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by stpat1(m): 8:36am On Dec 14, 2012
I am so surprised that from all these stuffs u said she did (if they are true anyway), you still came here to seek advice? Na wah o. Is it that u have a problem approaching chicks or what?
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by gboss4sure(m): 8:44am On Dec 14, 2012
I don't give a damn of my GF dates other guys cause to me is a license to date other gurls. You do me I do you man no go vex. Guy better start dating other girls and also deny it when she ask you. Make her get jealous and if she likes make she die
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by stpat1(m): 8:45am On Dec 14, 2012
ayosmiles: I think i might have been unfair to her. After d whole incident nd wht ppl said here i decided to ignore her totally nd give other girls a chance. I have this friend dats always takin care of me, cooks 4 me, buys me things nd does things my gf dont do but i cant date her cos i dont love her nd av told her several times nd she kept askin me why cos she loves me. I told her we were not compatible. Well, we started spendin more time 2gether lately. She came 2 my office. My gf saw her nd totally freaked out. She was cryin right there nd my friend was embarassed that she had to leave. My gf started beggin me to forgive her everything nd dat she didnt date d last guy i saw with her nd she's ready to change nd she cant live without me. I couldn't resist d sympathy nd guilt i felt. I hate to c her cry. We made up right there nd things are back to normal. The problem now is that i was supposed to see my friend yesterday but i called nd cancelled d meetin. This gal i cute nd lovin nd interestin but i dont love her, i love my gf. I hope am not making a mistake.

Somo le le yi? Ode ni e jooo. Is your Mother alive?

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Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by stevo4shiz(m): 12:31pm On Dec 14, 2012
OP i HATE guys like you.

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Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by ledafaze(m): 12:58pm On Dec 14, 2012
ayosmiles: I recently discovered my gf is datin her ex secretly. I confronted her nd she confessed nd apologised. Later she started datin anoda guy nd would even go to his house straight frm my office when shes visitin. First time i caught her she said she was goin there to watch movies. Next she was cookin 4 hin nd other things but she still denied. D guys gf came to my office to complain that my gf is disturbin her bf. I confronted my gal, she confessed nd apologised again nd promise not to do it again. Then one day i left her in d office to visit a friend. She called around 5pm that she was goin home. Guess wht, i saw her on my way home around 8.30pm with another guy. I came down nd called her. She left nd followed d guy as if she didnt see me. Now dis gal is also jealous, if she sees a gal with me she freaks out nd i chased all my female friends cos of her. All my friends advice i dump her. I love her, i wanted to marry her but now i dont knw wht to do. Can dat kind of gal change or shld i leave her.

Please I beg you in the name of God... Just look for whatever you get from her elsewhere... Apply 190's formula and tell her ur account is dry.. Send her away by fire cos d signs are already there... Even after the second apology, you're not meant to ask her again... just let her go
Re: What Do U Do With A Girlfriend That Dates Other Guys by ledafaze(m): 1:00pm On Dec 14, 2012
olumaxi: Love covereth al sins..if u r convincd u lov ha..go ahead..wit continued eforts on ur part,she'll change..but jst rememba u r d 1 to live wit her,not us


OLUMAXI

Please dont do that mistake that she will change... NEVER ever accept that form a lady or a guy... if u think u cant live with what she has presently, let it go and if u love her, try to live with it... shikena... If u are waiting for change... ure on ur own... there is nothing as constant like CHANGE

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