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Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by dayokanu(m): 4:27am On Jul 11, 2012 |
koruji: Did you read the thread and initial post? I would advise you do so. The man already rented a new house for him and his new wife but the kids went there and beat up the man under suspicion that him and the new wife diabolically made their mom mad Richvkunt: |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Obiagu1(m): 4:54am On Jul 11, 2012 |
I bet that the properties thrown out of that house were all the man possess. Did he train those kids up to University level? Definitely not, he couldn't have been able to do it. Similar thing happened in my neighbourhood when I was a kid, in this case the man was threatening to send his old wife out of "his" house, but it turned out he was the one thrown out of the house with his only possessions, his bag and mattress. Some men are so useless. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 5:38am On Jul 11, 2012 |
I cannot type epistles right now cos I really no get time. I have made myself clear |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by maclatunji: 6:37am On Jul 11, 2012 |
koruji: That lack of a sense of justice always shows up in your post, once it has to do with some religious belief. Obviously you didn't read the story properly. Yes religion does influence my sense of judgement and justice. It is simply divine. Appealing to your or other people 's sense of justice, would be bringing me down to a mundane level. Justice thrives on equity and believe it or not, the man is the victim here. If he goes to court, the kids and wife are in trouble, although insanity would cover the woman in this case. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Revolva(m): 7:44am On Jul 11, 2012 |
Well that serves the man right in his hardtimes and in the hardship of the country that man did not respect himself and his happy family ,and want a young witch who has now cause havoc to the family, All this desperate young ladies are dangerous oo how could she make the mans wife to get ill and for what reason just so she can be the only one and the kkids wiLl have to move out of the house and she and the old fool will live together then she wiLl then kill the man and claim the house omo she no dey fear oo |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by mu2sa2: 8:01am On Jul 11, 2012 |
Many polygamy bashers ar hypocrites - one wife numerous girlfriends & concubines. This man is an honest man- he married a second out of necessity & very considerate in going abt it. Hypocrites! Criticize & criticize & criticize. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by pembisco(m): 8:17am On Jul 11, 2012 |
Any lawyer in d house pls,2 explain weather its legal 4 d old man 2 marry a second wife wt d gratuity or share it equally wt his 1st wife b4 using his own share to marry d secnd wife,nd wether its legal 4 d kids 2 trow d man out,and wether d house is exclusively d old man's..any legal practisioner 2 clear diz qxtns plz? |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by fuke(m): 8:23am On Jul 11, 2012 |
All of you are making comments from one side of a story. You should ask for the other side. There must be a reason why a father of four graduates decides to take a new wife. Many of you do not know what women are. I bet the man didn't take a new wife b/cos of gratuity. If he had money to produce 4 graduates he surely had money to have 2 wives and forget about training his children. ' There are men like that, many. One thing I have found out in life is that it is very easy to be ungrateful. The children can do what they like, the law of karma is there. It accepts no excuses and takes no apology. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by vanitty: 8:27am On Jul 11, 2012 |
So instead of getting proper health care for their mother, they decided to take her to a herbalist. Surely, the mother didn't even bring them up well. How can all 4 of them be this silly Then on top of that, they are rough handling your father, throwing him out of the house, disgracing him. Awon omo jatijati. Their mother's ailments could well be as a result of her foolish children, thinking how did she manage to bring up 4 failures as Children. So all 4 of them can't collectively take care of their mother, they are fighting for gratuity. Regarding Oko omoge, Papa 70 feeling funky, let him be. When the young wife is done with money, she will send him back to his first wife! Besides when the husband was working, what was the woman doing? Obviously she couldn't have been a housewife as the husband was lowly paid and if she was a housewife then God will see her through! They should take their mother to a hospital before her condition degenarate further 1 Like |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 9:31am On Jul 11, 2012 |
pembisco: Any lawyer in d house pls,2 explain weather its legal 4 d old man 2 marry a second wife wt d gratuity or share it equally wt his 1st wife b4 using his own share to marry d secnd wife,nd wether its legal 4 d kids 2 trow d man out,and wether d house is exclusively d old man's..any legal practisioner 2 clear diz qxtns plz?where is it written that u cant use ur gratuity to marry some1,and it isnt a must u share it with ur wife..na she help u work the work?i dont know why pple flog up sentiment when making decision..the man is old to know what suits him best. 1 Like |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by abt(m): 9:36am On Jul 11, 2012 |
chaircover: There are a lot of things wrong with this family and its a chain reaction that has now gotten out of hand. Gbam! |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 10:03am On Jul 11, 2012 |
vanitty: So instead of getting proper health care for their mother, they decided to take her to a herbalist.i believe the man has reason for that..let the papa70 enjoys his money he has labour to bring them up ..what if the woman is a full time house wife? |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by ochallo: 10:20am On Jul 11, 2012 |
This is a very good Nigerian film right here. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by maclatunji: 10:30am On Jul 11, 2012 |
vanitty: So instead of getting proper health care for their mother, they decided to take her to a herbalist. The bolded is classic! |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by megxo(m): 10:40am On Jul 11, 2012 |
LYF IS A MOVIE........... wia d part 2 na... |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by bloomin: 10:40am On Jul 11, 2012 |
That's life for you, sometimes, a man struggles with his wife to make a living and rear their children, and when you finally say "thank God for seeing us through" your darling husband will spring his surprise! you are suddenly too old for him, he needs a sweet sixteen to fit his new personality!. Well, i love what those children did, but, i will suggest that they get help for their mother at once! so, that they will not loose her. As for their father, he is enjoying the fruit of his pooh! 1 Like |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by member479760: 11:43am On Jul 11, 2012 |
OP - i comot my cap for your story ooo! how old bi d old-man? |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 11:50am On Jul 11, 2012 |
A fact is staring at you people in the face and you all are refusing to see it. THE MAN DOES NOT OWN THE HOUSE. Is that so hard to see. I have seen numerous men marry another woman in their old age and the children still respect and love their Dad. what is obvious here is that the children have NEVER seen any value in the man. They have always disrespected him. We all know why children disrespect their parents. We cannot know the extent the man went to, i imagine he called the children to come and carry their mad mum he cannot deal with it. Infact instead of keeping the other house he wants to move his sweet sixteen into the house when the kids and their mum have vamoosed. I imagine this made the kids suffer from temporary insanity it can happen to anybody faced with this kind of man. This is not to justify their actions but certain provocations can make anybody lose it. I hear some men saying mayb 1st wife was never a good wife. Na lie. We know you men if she wasn't good enough he would have abandoned her since. He won't wait till now. Any man that will be this heartless was always heartless. i will propose that the woman kept the home together financially and morally and that the man was more of an absentee father which is why the children can treat their father thus. I have no sympathy for him actions have consequences. 1 Like |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by cliveland: 12:01pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
we do we have more cowards than men in naija dis days.... my old father perhaps in his late 65-75 years decides to marry a 2nd wife after my mum had slaved and spent her life time for 'US" and because he suddenly happens into some cheap money decides for a new thing not only will i THROW HIM OUT........in short my father could never in his wildest desires and dreams dared it.late now. Maybe we should look this scenario: a man marries a lady when they were young, they struggle to have kids as a couple and never had a blessing, however unknown to the man she had a back-up plan and had children with other men outside her matrimonial home and brought these kids home in one guise or another as cousins, nieces, nephews etc. And the man cause he never had any trained them all as if there were his, only for the woman now they into their old ages tells him that each of these kids are hers but for Mr. A, B, C & D who now want their children back..... meaning he toiled in vain.. perhaps they are all graduates now and secured better jobs..... of course we shall all proclaim her as an "ASHAWO"!!!! |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by coogar: 12:12pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
Richvkunt: I recently witnessed something that shocked me and made me wonder what has happened to the foundation of the family,if a couple of grown up kids could gang up and kick their aged father out of his own house? this is the funniest story ever - what a wimp of a man...thrown out of your own house by your own unruly kids. the man is at fault because he went out to buy trouble that made his own wife a lunatic, he deserves to be thrown out. minus the mum going loco, the man has every right to marry a 1st, 2nd and 25th wife if he so wishes. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by lazbay(m): 12:18pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
One of d best threads on Nairaland so far. I wish to point out that the man has never bn responsible. I've seen men like that. Infact they are many. I'm sure d woman paid d lion share of d school fees of d children & other expenses. That's why the children had no respect for him & threw him out. Anoda issue is who built the house? It must have bn d woman with little or no support from d man. I know a man who merely supervised d construction of d house he's living with d wife till today. All he did was buy food occassionally for workers. Pple still call it his house because he's d one always on site & d woman gave him d sense of belonging & even used his name for reciepts but d children knew d truth. Sso if this kind of man should abandon his wife & marry another wife, then he has clearly asked for a fantastic red card which must never be negotiated. Only dat the children should have allowed him to walk away from the field {house} unmolested. D children are graduates living in his house. A reasonable father would have bn concerned about how to set up his unemployed graduates in one biz or d other wit his gratuity rather than buying a fresh cunt to bleep. I'm sure d trauma led to d wife mental problem. The man shld be held responsible. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by freecocoa(f): 2:04pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
I feel no iota of pity for the man,mstcheew. Good riddance. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by ronkebp(f): 3:35pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
Sagamite: Because the "two shall become one", whatever the husband own belongs to the woman also and vice-versa.....now i know you do not beleive in the Bible or the Koran, as long as we are obeying the "be fruitful and multiply law" and "a man shall leave his family and clive to his wife and they shall become one" the man's gratuity technically also belongs to the woman, if the man is sweating; she is also sweating, if he is crying; she is crying, if he is rich; she is rich and if he is poor; she is also poor. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Ivynwa(f): 3:53pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
Peeping into the thread Oga Richvunt that woman wey come shop gratuity money still dey there? She never pack her bag waka? okay-o-o make she wait-o-o. Na she fit get the next beating from those no-nonsense children. No be gratuity moni she wan shop? Make she foolishly dey there until she gets bathed up in acid or even lose her life to an old man's gratuity moni. Hahaha |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by armyofone(m): 3:56pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
even if Sagamite doesn't believe in the bible or koran, the oyinbo law of where he resides must apply. if you have been married for some years, the woman must get something if the marriage eventually ends. in the UCMJ, i think it is half the time of his service. Automatically you get part or % of his retirement pay in the Civilian justice system, not too sure how long to be married to get money but you will get money . The man can't run away with what you both worked for even if you were "stay at home" mommy. ronkebp: |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by ronkebp(f): 4:04pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
armyofone: even if Sagamite doesn't believe in the bible or koran, the oyinbo law of where he resides must apply. He knows all these, that is why he is avoiding taking the step.....scary cat |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by AyeeIdris(f): 4:42pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
We really need to read a story well before commenting. First the poster said that after the father rented the apartment for the smallie, they were living HAPPILY until the mother's illness developed. So the woman's ill health was not caused by the father's actions. Have we grown so modernized that we no longer believe in the existence of Jazz again. Not saying the 2nd wife did it but then again not saying that she didn't. The baba might be right. Instead of fighting the man, they should have invited the baba to come and dig out what was purportedly buried. Their priority should be getting their mother well again |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by ronkebp(f): 4:51pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
chaircover: just saw this. ...i no bad reach dat level ooooo |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
I'm not in support of him sharing his gratuity with his wife. I'm sure over the years the woman must have made some sacrifices, mayb instead of buying a new shoe, she put it into the upkeep of the house. On getting the gratuity, mayb she was expecting a nice gift or a dinner. Instead she heard she was to be replaced by another woman. Which woman would that kind of news not affect. That's why I really don't blame girls who say the want to marry rich men, instead of struggling with a man. This man in question is a good example. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
dayokanu: Yes. For crying out loud if a man is not willing to walk the whole 9 yards why get married? So, renting a new apartment with his new okpeke makes it all right? In there somewhere is a heart Dayo. |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by dayokanu(m): 6:14pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
naijababe: People get married and get divorced everyday from the days of Adam. In every society there is marriage and divorce. The man is not interested in the union again, should he be forced to stay in it? I am sure you had boyfriends you left, Why werent you forced to stay with them. People marry and ppl divorce everyday its not like the man has commited an offence. The former french president has divorced multiple times, Presidential candidates John McCain and Newt gingrich High men and peasant farmers in Ikere Ekiti divorce everyday. The man wants out for his own reasons and he even rented a house for the new bride so she wont eat from the previous wifes labour. So what more should the man do? be forced to live with his first wife? or deny him his right to divorce? |
Re: Grown-Up Kids Kick Their Father Out Of His House! by maclatunji: 6:46pm On Jul 11, 2012 |
Ayee Idris: We really need to read a story well before commenting. First the poster said that after the father rented the apartment for the smallie, they were living HAPPILY until the mother's illness developed. So the woman's ill health was not caused by the father's actions. Have we grown so modernized that we no longer believe in the existence of Jazz again. Not saying the 2nd wife did it but then again not saying that she didn't. The baba might be right. Instead of fighting the man, they should have invited the baba to come and dig out what was purportedly buried. Their priority should be getting their mother well again You watch too many Nollywood movies. "Jazz" is more scientific than you think, it thrives on psychology, optical illusions, lethal poisons a lot. So we are right for the most part in seeking proper medical treatment for the woman. |
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