beblessed: Dating in my office. Hated myself when it ended and immediately changed my work place. Many colleagues knew about it.

ujchief: Worse mistake... Believing that girls are sane enough to know whats best for them.
She told me a guy approached her and is serious about marrying her. I was in my finals at uni, so i couldnt give her the guarantee and assurances of a live-long relationship. She claimed the guy was serious about mariage, so i believed she knew what was best for her. We agreed to part ways for good so she can get maried, how wrong was i!
The guy man wanted some action, and the only way to get it was to play the mariage card to displace me. Two yrs later, shes stil as single as i am, and the guy man has left for good. She must hav learnt her bitter lesson by now.

ujchief: Worse mistake... Believing that girls are sane enough to know whats best for them.
She told me a guy approached her and is serious about marrying her. I was in my finals at uni, so i couldnt give her the guarantee and assurances of a live-long relationship. She claimed the guy was serious about mariage, so i believed she knew what was best for her. We agreed to part ways for good so she can get maried, how wrong was i!
The guy man wanted some action, and the only way to get it was to play the mariage card to displace me. Two yrs later, shes stil as single as i am, and the guy man has left for good. She must hav learnt her bitter lesson by now.

shymmex: You can't really learn from other people's mistakes in relationships because people are different... You learn from your own mistakes..

Applying other people's experience(s)/mistake(s) to your relationship, will make it fail before it starts...

Go into every relationship with a clear mind, set out your objectives, and treat everything that happens as an isolated case..

shymmex:

Hmmmmm....How can it be a mistake when I just found out today, huh?

I've got loads of love to give.

Spreading love is shymmex' thing.

sharp_shap: I never expected the unexpected! I was waiting for the impossible. She dumped me at the momenT when I was so deeply in love

Aigirl: My gr8est mstak is stickin2 one guy,no bakup,no insurance,he knew it,tuk advntage of it,evn whn i find d guts2leave him,it stil hurts,nxt time,im a get bakups,insurnces etc.

Brite02: keeping backups back fires... my 1 cent

kitty kat:

Lots of love? I have not noticed it yet. When I do then I wld know if its a mistake or not.

Aigirl: My gr8est mstak is stickin2 one guy,no bakup,no insurance,he knew it,tuk advntage of it,evn whn i find d guts2leave him,it stil hurts,nxt time,im a get bakups,insurnces etc.

cindyrella: One mistake i made was holding on to [size=14pt]something that was already dead[/size]..

4wardever:
Actually, it is MUCH better to learn from other people's mistakes not ours cos not everyone can survive to tell their own mistakes.
Despite some of the misleading/outrageous posts stated here, there are still some valuable ones I have learnt from; @ Sex Kills, well done bruv.

@ shymmex, I get your drift that we should not carry stereotypes but I think our mistakes really are a reflection of the principles we applied and since principles are universal, it can be applied anywhere and by anyone. However, it is our personal experiences that are unique.

tobechi20: Öne mistake i made in a relationship is ENTERING A RELATIONSHIP.

I realised it is best to keep out of a relationship until one is ready to settle down.

habayommy: I was given admission into one of the fed uni but i refuse to go because she didn't pass her UME dat year. This most mumustic mistake hv ever made.

habayommy: I was given admission into one of the fed uni but i refuse to go because she didn't pass her UME dat year. This most mumustic mistake hv ever made.

That's what i call "mumucombobulated".

sexkillz:
That's what i call "mumucombobulated".

habayommy: Years back I was given admission into one of the fed uni but i refuse to go because she didn't pass her UME dat year. I wud hv been a grad @ 21. This is the most mumustic mistake hv ever made.

shymmex:

Love is an emotion..

Soon come, though.

Holla @ the king of love.

Phems: I key in2 relationship with her to help her out of heartbreak frm her ex,

believing it wud b 4 a short period.

She became addicted to me n wont let me go....

i regretted d step i took!

very difficult to say bye,...cos i don wanna break her heart again but i have to go 'cos i dont LOVE her!

habayommy: Years back I was given admission into one of the fed uni but i refuse to go because she didn't pass her UME dat year. I wud hv been a grad @ 21. This is the most mumustic mistake hv ever made.

dorothy111: I love this thread.
My biggest mistake was accepting her back. She cheated, and because I love everything about her, I thought I could forgive her, so we could move on. I was totally wrong. I broke up with her yesterday