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 Romance / Re: The Lack Of Money Is The Major Problem That Destroys Marriages In Nigeria by Great4God: 4:05am On Apr 21, 2019 |
I need to make my own contribution because this is an intelligent topic, the OP is 100% right, I am a full family man and I have come to conclude that money sustains marriage much more than love, lets not even argue it, if you have money, you can handle things of emotion better, if you have love,it cannot solve the physical challenges that needs money, so any man planning to go into marriage, be ready to handle challenges with money and not with love, otherwise, you will not be a happy man, family needs to eat, family needs shelter, medical attention, social life etc, once children start coming, the responsibilities automatically expands, school fees has to be paid, all these needs MONEY not LOVE and let us always remember that love is an illusion and not a reality, when you get to the market,what you use to buy foodstuffs is money and not love |
| Car Talk / Re: Top 10 Best Heavy Duty Truck Manufacturers. (photos) by Great4God: 7:54pm On Aug 13, 2018 |
nedu2000: Bros, no be only you ooooo,the thought of those trailers now d rise BP |
| Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Iceland : World Cup (2 - 0) On 22nd June 2018 by Great4God: 5:43pm On Jun 22, 2018 |
God no be man ooooooo 3 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by Great4God: 1:02am On Apr 11, 2018 |
Like someone rightly said, it is 100% in your mind, First, assuming you had an unprotected sex with the girl, your mind has started playing games with you on whether you have contacted any disease. Second, if you had a protected sex with the girl, what is then haunting you is your conscience and the fact that you have broken a vow you made with God Let us deal with the first one, the only way you can sort this is to go for a medical test, then follow it up with a confirmation test few months from now, the truth remain that you will be worried until you confirm that you do not have any infection, but before then, you have to take control of your mind, no matter how difficult it seems as there are 100% chance that you do not have any infection Coming to the second one, you have to make peace with your self and with God, you know so well that He is a merciful God" For all have sinned and cut short the glory", we are weak and are bound to deviate from time to time, seek for His forgiveness and mercy and do not be too hard on your self, ask God for strength in moments of temptation, especially with sexual urge, you cannot deal with it on your own In summary, you have to take control of your mind, let me tell you how you can do that, if you can fill your mind with negative thoughts, which is what is happening to you currently, then you have the 100% power to replace those thoughts with a positive ones, that is the way it works, I have passed this road before and it wasn't a funny one for me, until I took charge of my thoughts, it was like a miracle how every symptoms, illnesses, disturbances just vanished 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: How A Customer Stood His Ground Against Outrageous NEPA Bill. by Great4God: 2:59am On Mar 30, 2018 |
This is a good one, I can submit that most people are well enlightened about channels to go through when faced with some situations or some are simply not patient enough, I had a similar faceoff between my bank and FRSC double debitting of my account when I renewed my drivers licence, I was told by everyone of them that my money cannot be reversed, but I knew it was never going to be so, I explored every channel and eventually lodged a complain through the CBN channel, in no distance time,my money was paid back to me, so people should always explore these channels to get thier issues sorted out 2 Likes |
| Career / Re: Oge Kate: EBSU Graduate Does Charcoal Business For For A Living by Great4God: 5:09am On Mar 22, 2018 |
Kwessi: This is what I always advocate, as a graduate, you need to find better ways of doing things, you need to be innovative and creative, you mind need to think differently, otherwise, nothing spectacular |
| Career / Re: Female Graduate Hawks Food In Abuja (Photos) by Great4God: 5:05am On Mar 22, 2018 |
And a graduate, after wasting 4+ years goes back to hawking food on the street and we call that an achievement, to me,that is a pure waste of time, effort, resources and energy, I make bold to say this any time, any day, going through a formal education channel should have an influence on the way we think and do things, I cant see her doing anything different from what someone that did not have an opportunity of going through school is doing, She should have come up with a better and more refined way of doing a food business,not just cooking and carrying it about to sell,we should stop promoting mediocrity, and as long as she is doing this, let her drop the line of calling her self a graduate,at least for now I have personally involved in some huzzles in life, but anytime I find my self engaging in certain stuffs to make ends meet, I always drop this line of being a graduate, I don't even discuss my educational standing, if I see my self doing the same thing, the same way a person that did not have a formal education like me is doing,how should I be proud flaunting my qualification |
| Family / Re: Man Flogs His Wife With Belt For Slapping His Side Chic At Filmhouse, LEKKI by Great4God: 3:30am On Mar 04, 2018 |
gudvibz: Madam, we shouldnt pray for certain things, there is absolutely nothing you can do, things always seems clearer when we are not in the middle of it, I am talking from a personal experience I had, there was a nasty incident that happened to me few years ago, some people around me were saying if they were in my shoes, they will do this and do that, but few months after that, one of those people witnessed almost the same incident, what did they do-NOTHING, rather, they even came back seeking advice and direction from me,issues in marriage are usually very sensitive,untill you are in, you will not fully understand 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: Why Marriages Breakdown: 11 Lessons From My Personal Experience by Great4God: 10:08pm On Feb 19, 2018 |
You see all the above, they are what makes a marriage, romance does not make a marriage, love does not make a marriage, they are the misconceptions people have, the op has said it all,truly from experience,He who has ears, let him hear |
| Travel / Re: Dana Air Speaks On Aircraft Door That Fell Off (photos) by Great4God: 6:35pm On Feb 07, 2018 |
I wouldnt say the observation was right, but DANA to me seems to take the maintenance of their aircraft very seriously, I flew with them for the first time to Portharcourt on monday and I must say it was was of my best experience in travelling through air, compared to other experiences |
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Is It Wrong For This Young Lady To Have Accepted Lunch Before Being Interviewed? by Great4God: 8:49am On Feb 01, 2018 |
All these makes meaning when you are starting out in the job space,at a point,all these wont matter or disturb you, I cant go for an interview now and someone will keep me for hours, I will simply tell them I have other things to do and gently work away, there are so many rubbish we take in this country in the name of looking for a job, you need to cross your mind,dont let it disturb you,if they call you fine, if they dont, is not gonna be the end 1 Like |
| Health / Re: Back Pain- Orthopedics help please by Great4God: 12:21pm On Jan 28, 2018 |
sd6: Bro, have you found any solution to the health challenge, I am in dire need of one, the pain and discomfort is not here Thank you |
| Phones / Re: Make A List Of The Phones You've Used And Are Using Now. by Great4God: 8:44am On Jan 21, 2018 |
I am currently using Itel 1508, I will not advice my enemy to go close to that phone, i dont know how to describe the rubbish |
| Webmasters / Re: 5 Things To Consider Before You Hire A Web Design Company In Nigeria In 2018 by Great4God: 10:48am On Jan 20, 2018 |
Most of your points here are not valid,I wont make further comment |
| Webmasters / Re: 9 Top Reliable Ways To Earn Money From Your Blog Without Google Adsense by Great4God: 9:43am On Dec 01, 2017 |
Good Post, informative and enlightening 1 Like 1 Share |
| Business / Re: I Want To Invest 5million In Btcoin by Great4God: 9:11am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Belemalov: If you are serious, I have someone that have gained much authority in cryptocurrency and bitcoin, he handles global training on that,and also have some personal investment on bitcoin, if it is ok by you, I can link you up to Him, if you are convinced,He can guide you the more, if you are also in Lagos,you guys can meet one on one, thats what I can offer, let me know what you think |
| Business / Re: Help Review Afia9 Online Shop by Great4God: 9:53am On Nov 28, 2017 |
First, I must commend you guys for this, the two thing I have to point out here has to do with 1. Why only the focus in Enugu, since you are running an online store, why not improve on the coverage and work out the logistics angle for delivery 2. The pictures of your team, they are not professional and they do not invoke trust, this is an online platform and it involves people parting with their money, so trust should also be sold and one way to do that is through how you portray your self-so you guys should create a more professional and responsible image 3. The name- Though you have explained why, but it doesnt really flow with me(personal opinion anyway), while it is common with people in Enugu, do you think that alone can bring people to transact on the platform. That been said, I will run a more wholistic and comprehensive audit of your site, to point out things that are right and those that needs to be tweeked, I will also make recommendations as a digital marketing expert,I will do this for free, if you will then need to implement some of the recommendations, we can discuss further. let me have a mail to forward my audit to-reach me on sageinternationalng@gmail.com 1 Like |
| Religion / Re: Bishop Oyedepo: 'If You Don't Pay Tithe, You Are Permanently A Beggar' by Great4God: 2:44pm On Nov 24, 2017 |
The way these people carry religion, you will start wondering why non religious country still succeed, some countries dont even believe in Christ but Nigeria is no place close to them 1 Like 1 Share |
| Romance / Re: A Former Boyfriend Offered Me 30 Million Naira To Divorce My Husband. Help Me! by Great4God: 11:24am On Nov 02, 2017 |
It can be a win win situation if you ask me, discuss this with your husband, let him know you plan to leave him, but you will make his life better, collect the 30 million, give your husband 10million,then leave him to your new marriage,chikena 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Poverty Rate Of The 36 States Of The Federation Zamfara Top The Chart With 91% by Great4God: 10:33am On Oct 27, 2017 |
Movic1: How do you define poverty, have you been to Anambra state before, I can categorically tell you that poverty has been defeated in Anambra state, that is one state that looks like where every family is living confortably, Anambra people are not struggling for basic things in life, their eyes are on bigger stuffs, so it baffles me how this research was conducted 2 Likes |
| Phones / Re: What Is The Worst Phone You Have Used So Far? by Great4God: 9:00am On Oct 19, 2017 |
ITEL 1508, No body should near that phone 3 Likes |
| Celebrities / Re: Iyabo Ojo: "I Can’t Marry A Poor Man, No Love Without Money" by Great4God: 12:22pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
Why do people find it offensive when people express their displeasure to associated with poverty,this makes me to begin to ask if some people like poverty or like being poor,is there any thing that is bad about her expression, She cant marry a poor man, and she went ahead to even give her reasons,look, we are free to choose what we want in this life, if your choice is to associate with poverty, that is up to you, another person has choosen not to, why then the insults here and there, na waooooo 4 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Being A V1rgin Is Killing Me…who Will Help Me?” — Nigerian Lady Cries Out by Great4God: 5:58pm On Oct 13, 2017 |
Virginity does not define character, it does not define morality, it does not indicate how good you are,if you are a virgin,that is your decision,but personlly,why I dont so much roll with them is that most of them are rigid, they see life myopically,they find fault so much and they always want you to see things from their perspective,marrying a virgin does not guarantee that your wife wont go out,so whoeever is a virgin should keep it to her self, meanwhile, I never wanted to marry a virgin,I cant be disvirgining a woman after my weeding 1 Like |
| Family / Re: Father Bathes His New Born Baby: "My Wife Needs Rest" (Photos) by Great4God: 10:34pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
There are other better ways to assist your wife, not bathing the baby,it takes a special act to handle new babies and women are naturally groomed in that act,go find other ways to assist her, this one no get meaning |
| Celebrities / Re: Yul Edochie Governorship Homecoming Campaign Holds Sat, Oct. 14th 2017 by Great4God: 10:26pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
profmiganigal: You dont know what you are saying,you people think that governance is as complex as these politicians make it to be, stay there,He is pursuing His ambition and you are here displaying your ignorance 4 Likes |
| Celebrities / Re: Yul Edochie Governorship Homecoming Campaign Holds Sat, Oct. 14th 2017 by Great4God: 10:24pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
Suspect33: My brother,is it not pathetic, the youths that should support thier own are the same people that are runing their own down,i tire no be smalll 6 Likes |
| Romance / Re: Ways To Woo A Girl Without Using Money. by Great4God: 5:00pm On Oct 12, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: You harsh ooo, as in oji amu ejighi ego |
| Sports / Re: Augustine Mulenga Weeps At His Daughter's Burial (Photos) by Great4God: 8:31pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
God will grant Him the strenght to pull through,my hearts goes out to Him |
| Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Isn't Clean Enough Down There And It's Affecting Our Sex Life(pic) by Great4God: 5:01pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
You need to tell her,if she is one that appreciates,she will improve,sometimes,we take things for granted,someone like me,I am very sensitive to sense of perception, If a woman dont shower well,I dont sleep with her even in the same bed,If a woman dont brush,I can never get my mouth close to her,If a woman uses the toilet,then bye bye to any sex act, once I pecieve any thing like smell,even sweat,it affects my sex drive |
| Romance / Re: Am Dating A Girl Who Is Older Than Me ... Don't Know How To Tell Her About It by Great4God: 6:25am On Oct 07, 2017 |
haibhe: Age has a lot to do with relationship,it is psychological,love or whatever does not play much role here,it is not ideal for a man to be younger n a relationship 1 Like |
| Family / Re: Woman Dumps Her Husband Over Short Manhood by Great4God: 8:26am On Oct 06, 2017 |
I can make a submission here, any man that thinks that what the woman did was totally wrong must be having a small manhood, Let me also say that for a man to be developing and His manhood is not, is also a big challenge, for any man having such challenge, He should seek to know how to correct it,you dont have to blame women,calling them olosho,hoes or whatever,it can be embarrassing for a woman to meet a full fledged, muscular developed man only for the man to posses a tiny manhood, women need to have a feel of a man and that is part of the game, so for anyone facing such challenge,try to see how it can be improved 1 Like 1 Share |
| Family / Re: Woman Dumps Her Husband Over Short Manhood by Great4God: 8:17am On Oct 06, 2017 |
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