 Romance / Re: I'm Too Soft Hearted, How Can I Become Very Wicked by Juliearth(f): 5:47pm On Sep 23 |
Meaning:
Hi guys, I notice one thing about me.
I'm too emotional for a man. I'm too soft hearted. I don't want bad things to happen to anyone.
But recently, I realized that people are taking advantage of that and I'm tired.
Please can someone teach me the act of wickedness thru manipulation?
The way you destroy people but act like you are their help. That kind of manipulative destruction.
Any help please. Learn to master the act of stoicism. Block out every emotion and assess only when it's convenient for you. That way, you would know when to assist or not. 2 Likes |
| Travel / Re: Flood Destroys Bridge On Yola-Numan Gombe Road by Juliearth(f): 1:52pm On Sep 23 |
CyrusVI:
Their state Govs arent held accountable for anything
This is what you get when you channel all your energy into cursingone Abuja residents, when you can easily stroll to your State secretariat and go cause yawa Two state governments aren't accountable because a bridge gave way? What I expected you to ponder on here is the lack of preventive maintenance, which is a bane across all spheres. |
| Food / Re: Do You Still Eat Three Square Meals? by Juliearth(f): 10:49am On Sep 21 |
Meerahbel:
Are you planning on becoming a model Far from it. Trying to shed off a few kilos, and stay healthy. Fasting puts your body on a preventive and corrective mode. Moreso, I function better on an empty stomach and I detest eating out. Thus I can only eat when I am home(4) 1 Like |
| Food / Re: Do You Still Eat Three Square Meals? by Juliearth(f): 10:19am On Sep 21 |
richmond500:
As for me, lunch is not part of my meals again.
It's not like I can't provide lunch but that will put me in tight budget and I may not have something to save at the end of the day. L Even though I make a little above 100k in profits.
In Nigeria, if you earn N100k in places like Rivers state, Bruh u are broke, and I begin to feel bad for those earning around 50k, ona deh try.
I am on Intermittent Fast. Though not entirely inspired by sapa, but a drive to stay fit, it has enabled me to have some extra cash to spare. One wholesome meal a day, backed up by fruits or a snack cuts it for me. Weekends are exempted from this plan though. 1 Like |
| Religion / Re: A Demon Attacked Me While Asleep by Juliearth(f): 3:19pm On Sep 17 |
authentic18:
Amen
I was in sin
I guess this incident is a wake up call
Not even thinking sexually since it happened to me
I don’t wish anyone to experience it
By Gods grace I’d never experience it again
Years ago I used to hear people talk about this but i just shrug it off like what are these people talking about Amen! |
| Religion / Re: A Demon Attacked Me While Asleep by Juliearth(f): 2:42pm On Sep 17 |
authentic18:
Done
Everybody on earth has a nice woman for a mother
There are no horrible/wicked women on earth
God bless our parents. |
| Religion / Re: A Demon Attacked Me While Asleep by Juliearth(f): 12:20pm On Sep 17 |
authentic18:
3. Well all my life I’ve had only one good Nigerian out of the multiple Nigerian women I encountered
She’s decent looking with a wonderful heart
She’s married now with kids
She wanted to introduce me to her parents etc, she was raised very well. I had to let her go because I didn’t have money & women have shorter fertility window than guys
4. I’ve interacted with a number of them
They even have worse issues character wise than Nigerians
Very hard to find an American without some kind of mental illness, most smoke, use some kinda drugs or are alcoholics. It’s hard to find one that’s just regular with no piercings, no tattoos, mentally stable etc
It’s just to gain access to the American economy that’s all. The opportunities there are enormous, you can’t even get some remote jobs because our Nigerian addresses are blacklisted by firms over there. Tinubu & Buhari destroyed our economy at home, the naira has lost significant value. Limited opportunities for a huge population. Some people are resorting to fraud etc and I’m not built for that
If an American chick likes you, she can fly to wherever you are and take huge steps to help you level up
And a man is naturally wired to serve in return
That’s one thing whites or latinas do
Nigerian women date largely on the basis of class You must be better than them
Classism culture, Nigerian women are copying African American women gradually
People are on survival mode here so I really can’t blame anybody
The wealthy women here have egos and can be very disrespectful
5. There are a lot of lessons in Dune for guys
The evolution of a boy to a man
The last movie I watched more than 5 times was the Moses type of film that came out in 2015. Exodus: gods & kings
Game of Thrones too
Yes I found Dune 1 & 2 interesting Saying this about your mum on a public forum is not nice at all. I think you should edit that part out so people won't use it against you in future. Our parents are sacred and should serve as our gods on earth. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Religion / Re: A Demon Attacked Me While Asleep by Juliearth(f): 4:27am On Sep 17 |
Healthrelatedjo:
You are correct boss.
I worked and stayed in a hospital for 3yrs,and I know what I saw and encountered.All you said about the demon visitation is true.Thats the way they show up.I believe you.Some spirits will just want you to see them with your korokoro eyes while some will do their thing on a low. Share your experiences. |
| Religion / Re: A Demon Attacked Me While Asleep by Juliearth(f): 4:27am On Sep 17 |
authentic18:
I never thought this would happen to me
1st time I had sleep paralysis was at 26
Never had that more than two or three times
I sometimes sleep with my arms crossed over my chest if I lay on my back
Most times I sleep sideways
About two years ago a new tenant moved into our street & I’ve got my windows facing theirs.
They sometimes performed some kind of exorcism whenever they were praying out loud it seems
This went on for 2 years
I concluded someone living there was possessed.
The tenant in question moved out two months ago
I also slept with a strange girl about that period they left
I’m in my 30’s, unmarried, the country’s situation is harsh so I don’t see how one would get married and take care of kids when life is becoming expensive.
About 2 weeks ago, a 10 ft demon came to me in the middle of the night acting all jealous and screaming at me while attacking
I couldn’t move. This was worse than the regular sleep paralysis people have
It was dark shadowed about 10 ft
And I was like, what do I even have that the demon was all furious and jealous yelling at me
And then something probably flying off
Moments later I saw my spirit leaving my body, it was going up then I got reattached to my body
On YouTube, i saw something relating to silver cord attached to the human body
I struggle to sleep at night ever since
I hear dark spirits operate at night
I’m never fornicating again until I get married since that incident occurred
It’s also extremely hard to find good women these days as most of them are on survival mode looking for who to latch to
Just feels parasitic instead of symbiotic
I had one or two white girls who offered to help me out in the past in exchange for marriage but I declined back then because i thought I could get out of predicaments on my own
It’s in mens DNA to solve problems and feel useful, which in turn improves confidence
I regret that decision
My conclusion
1. Don’t live close to a possessed person or where exorcism of any sort is carried out
2. Fornication possibly opens up demonic potholes for evil spirits to access you. The girl I slept with is one I’d never have done it on a regular, it’s because I was frustrated. Like she smokes heavily, into drugs and is into selling her body. I never hang around cigarettes or weed
3. An American latina who I used to talk to once indirectly told me she went to get tarot card readings on me after we had a quarrel
I heard spirits also attack married couples
Never thought this would befall me until it got to my doorstep. The spiritual world is very real
4. I watched Dune 1 & 2 more than 10 times, more than I should have. The movie probably has strange parts & noises, culture appropriation, incantations etc
I really don’t know how to pray besides the most complete Lord’s Prayer
I hope I never experience this again
Just imagine a 10ft gigantic demon beating one up and sucking one’s life force
I woke up feeling ill for days
Took a little while to process what I had gone through
Don’t know who I offended
Not a religious person
This is no joke, just pray you never get to experience it
A number of Americans on YouTube said they’ve experienced what happened to me when I did a little search
Demons, spirit spouses etc are real
There are people who appear healthy physically , have nice financial portfolio too but are going through ridiculous things in the spiritual realm
Unless you are spiritually strong, you are right about number 1. Number 2 is a known fact and this is not even dependent on whether your partner is possessed or not. 3. What kind of women do you date Seems you have a thing for foreigners. Be careful though so you don't delve from frying pan to fire. 4. Is the movie a good watch? 1 Like |
| Romance / Re: He Travelled Without Telling Me by Juliearth(f): 8:10am On Sep 16 |
ItisWell22:
Isn’t it obvious enough?
It’s glaringly clear, babe.
Amen. 🙏
He didn’t even tell her when his travel plans clicked, until he got there. So freaking disrespectful. Imagine the years wasted with this one and the outcome eventually. |
| Romance / Re: He Travelled Without Telling Me by Juliearth(f): 4:18pm On Sep 15 |
Flywheel212:
So I met this guy like three years ago and within a year I noticed he was keeping me on a low so I felt he wasn't serious with me and I had a discussion with him that if he isn't interested in something more it's best we go our separate ways since I wanted a serious relationship which will eventually lead to marriage, he cried and begged that he was serious, things went on still no formal introduction to his family members or friends.
Then he started making plans to travel, I was part of it, the plan was for us to get married then travel together, before I knew it he became secretive and and avoiding me, fast forward to some months back he called me on a WhatsApp call crying for me to forgive him that he was abroad and doesn't know what came over him and why he couldn't tell me, he claims he is still in love with me and wants us to work, without a promise as to what all this will lead to, he wants us to lean on hope for the best. My dear, the signs are glaring. Apparently, he is using the word, "love" to keep you in check. If he loves you, would he travel without you? Did you contribute financially towards the trip? If yes, then there goes your answer. 2 Likes |
| Family / Re: Should A Man Love His Wife More Than His Mom? by Juliearth(f): 2:57am On Sep 11 |
Natbrowny:
Y'all need to understand emotional intelligence and boundaries
Love for mother is different from love for wife
Ur mother was married into the home by ur father, same way u married a lady as a wife into ur home
Mostly - wife and mother will not give a man any issues if there is respect for boundaries.
U cannot love one more than the other. They are seperate and the feelings n emotions dey breed are different. If u don't love ur wife enuff, ur kids will feel it. U cannot unlove ur mother too.
God bless you for this. Emotional intelligence is key to a successful union. An emotionally intelligent spouse won't asked who should be loved more or less. |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 2:30am On Sep 11 |
Advision:
Goat and cows aŕe typically free range in Nigeria.
Chicken are typically battery-cage and high on synthetic growth hormones.
You're likely better off with the former. I didn't factor-in this in my assertion earlier. I was barely counting calories. You are right! 1 Like |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 8:27am On Sep 09 |
Rubyjade:
Oh food is relatively cheap in Minna depending on where you are in Minna. Yes, you are right. There are markets for everything. 2 Likes |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 8:27am On Sep 09 |
Nazgul:
7k cannot get you a jumbo sized frozen chicken here in Lagos. Although if you add like 1k to it, it can get you live old layer, but not jumbo size. That is sad. I guess we are quite lucky. 2 Likes |
| Travel / Re: 2 People Swept Away By Flood While Sleeping In Anambra Found Dead (Photos) by Juliearth(f): 8:46am On Sep 08 |
Almunjid:
Which kind sleep be that? Sleep so tey flood sweep u away? This kind sleep na sickness Ooo. It's possible they cannot swim and so, when tjr floods swept in, they were at its mercy. |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 8:41am On Sep 08 |
Rubyjade:
Where is that? Minna, Niger State. You can get it at a slightly lower price if you are buying multiple. 2 Likes |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 5:47am On Sep 08 |
MrLibrarian:
does eating chicken regularly contribute to weight gain? Chicken is a good source of protein and a healthier option compared to most meats out there. It is also not calorie-dense as compared to beef. Moderation, however, is the key to watch out for. Eating morethan the calories your body burns in a day would definitely result in weight gain. |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 3:15am On Sep 08 |
flokii:
Start a fish pond or locate one close to you.
Fish is a healthier option and good source of protein in your diet You are right, but Fish can be quite tiring and there is a restriction on what you can prepare with fish. |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 3:13am On Sep 08 |
Nazgul:
Laps. The lady I buy from usually gives me 4 laps for a kilo. I do tell her to cut it into 3 pieces. Making it 12 pieces in all.
Those 4 laps is what I pay 5k for. I don't know why people buy chicken in kilos. Here, 7k can get you a jumbo-sized chicken andnthat includes half kilo of laps (2 pieces) and other parts. 2 Likes |
| Family / Re: A Kilo Of Meat Is Now #7,500 In Abuja. by Juliearth(f): 3:10am On Sep 08 |
Sucre6:
Kilo of meat was 7k like two months ago here in abuja
What I do now is go to mararaba, buy three chicken for 15k monthly, kill, prepare and refrigerate,
I use it to cook and it last for more than 2 months for me You are right. Chicken offers more value than beef. Another close alternative is Goat meat. 2 Likes |
| Food / Re: See The Tomatoes A Friend And Sister Of Mine Got For Less Than 4k. (pics Ins.) by Juliearth(f): 3:08am On Sep 08 |
fadilaMaikiriki:
See the tomatoes a friend and sister of mine got for 3k something. So cheap, right? She said you can even get for less than that amount if you go certain days. Location is FCT-Abuja.
In case you're in Abuja or anywhere, and you need something like this, plus other food stuff, including livestocks( goats, RS, cow, etc) at cheaper rates, I got you covered.
You can buy fresh like this and process by yourself, or I process for you.
Nairalanders, please patronize me. In Minna, you can get a big painter (20L) worth of tomatoes for same amount or less, depending on your bargaining prowess. It's save to say that the worst days are over. |
| Politics / Re: Ngelale Got His Job Because Of Oyibo Accent Not Expertise - Jaafar by Juliearth(f): 3:58pm On Sep 07 |
Flangelo12:
Evi Edna Ogholi.
"Jealousy " ... is the root of hatred. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Literature / Re: Write a Short Story of about 100 Words by Juliearth(f): 12:32pm On Sep 07 |
illicit:
Who is in?
I like short stories, I wrote some on one NL competition sometimes ago cc divepen1
I think that competition is no more
Let's do this for fun.
I will go first, short story, 75 words.
Loading... The Climber You hop from bed to bed, from Evelyn to Everista...looking for greener pastures. Whatever happened to hardwork? You demand and hold so dearly to patriarchy, but subjugate every manly role to your latest victim. Your subjugated victim joyfully, but painfully plays this role because she is blinded by foolish love. Working multiple jobs from 6a.m to 6p.m. She returns home battered and worn out. Our "Lord" has made a mess of the house and is waiting for his conquest to feed his stomach and his loins. The slavery continues until our Lord finds a better prospect and hops to her abode. Is this a win-win for both parties? The slave has been freed from her shackles and the Lord has moved to a bigger fish unbeknownst to him that his end is nigh. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Crime / Re: Sentenced To Death Because Of One Minute Call From His Phone By A Stranger by Juliearth(f): 12:25pm On Sep 07 |
blackpanthar:
YUP
so that with that in MIND........ YOU DON'T EVER AGREE TO OFFER SUCH HELP
its called REVERSE ENGINEERING. Great job, bro! I wanted to be sure that,that was what you were driving at. |
| Crime / Re: Sentenced To Death Because Of One Minute Call From His Phone By A Stranger by Juliearth(f): 2:49pm On Sep 06 |
blackpanthar:
thats why you do it either way JUST TO BE SAFE
AND REPORT TO THE POLICE IMMEDIATELY..... so if anytime in future, it can be countered and shown that you reported and everything is nullified. Thus, for each time you offer such help to people, you dispose of your mobile device and sim card,right? |
| Crime / Re: Sentenced To Death Because Of One Minute Call From His Phone By A Stranger by Juliearth(f): 7:50am On Sep 06 |
blackpanthar:
once you fall for this, THROW AWAY YOUR SIM.... AND YOUR PHONE AND GO TO POLICE TO REPORT IT STOLEN.
GET A GOOD LAWYER
Get 2-3 witnesses
AND YOU ARE FREE.
The sense of the evil people can never be greater than the wisdom of the righteous. The irony of it all is that you may not know if a police case is brewing. Let's just be guided and pray for discernment. 1 Like |
| Politics / Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by Juliearth(f): 10:30am On Sep 05 |
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| Politics / Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by Juliearth(f): 9:07am On Sep 05 |
id4sho:
Losing cultures and values Absolutely. |
| Politics / Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by Juliearth(f): 9:06am On Sep 05 |
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| Politics / Re: Anambra Woman, Kids Arrested For Beating 75-Year Old Husband Over Firewood by Juliearth(f): 7:05am On Sep 05 |
What bewitched these people? Talking back at one's parents was almost unheard of some decades ago. Looks like the dynamics has changed and even worsened. 1 Like |
| Education / Re: Holders Of Masters Degree Pls Advise Me!!! by Juliearth(f): 5:28pm On Sep 04 |
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