advanceDNA:


My point is, being there before u will make his profile look but better than before and no one will see him as jobless again....and ur father wants u to travel bah! ??

Court marriage?? It's just paper that can be scattered anytime....once they get abroad, everyone finds their way after a while, that's how it works...
....if he can get a sponsored job, which is not impossible these days for those that are already in the the system..u'd be surprised it wont take more than a year to bring you....

.. I mean.....u described him like he really wanted you and wanted to try by cancelling thebmarriage.... So, thats the angle I'm looking at it from


But my very beast mode risk management and vawulence side will just tell move on....but hey! thats how pple marry one person and love someone else....

U can at least try and keep the communication lines opens and also keep ur options open...if u get what I mean ( no let paternity fraud happen oooo)

It would be a wild gamble for her to waste her youth hoping he divorces his wife. That may not end well.

Don't ever get deceived by his lies. He made his choice. Remember he never planned on telling you. The idea was to string you along while being married. Clearly, this man is lazy and a social climber. Your father may have seen through him.


Don't fall for his cheap lies unless if you want to become a side chick. Cut contact and move on.

suckmedownthere:
What some of these girls do in university just to be envied would scare parents sending their children to school....girls likes being trendy

If you are inferring that she is into hookup, then your inference is far fetched. She was involved in an accident.

NairaOcean:
Lady Sparks Outrage After Sharing a video of her cute infant with Pierced Nose

A video of a Nigerian infant with a nose piercing has gone viral, sparking debates and raising concerns about cultural practices and parental responsibility.

The video, shared widely on social media platforms, depicts a cherubic baby adorned with a small nose stud. While some viewers found the infant's piercing "cute" and "adorable," others expressed shock and disapproval, questioning the appropriateness of such adornment for a child.

Netizens, appalled by the act, swiftly condemned the mother's actions, expressing deep concern for the infant's welfare and the ethical implications of such an act. Many voiced their outrage, emphasizing the vulnerability of infants and the importance of safeguarding their well-being.



Does she have the right to do whatever she wishes with her baby?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YqKbsfYexBs

This is disgusting to say the least. The choice of nose ring is not appropriate also. The pin could get trapped inside the baby's nasal cavity.

FatherOfJesus:
Maybe, but it was frustrating.

And yet, even after doing everything, he will gaslight you into thinking that you are not doing enough.

The gaslighting is a follow-come feature for most private business owners. It's a tool they use to keep people on their toes. Good thing you bailed on them, Joseph.

efemena5050:
As a typical Nigerian of show off ....if someone in my state and conditions tell u to help me now u will quickly enter into another mode ..if at all this ur side hustle is paying pls help Me, shame of working for one witch called a madam is tearing me ......am not joking I get small capital I only need the ideas .....zero eight one sixty two zero six double three nine .....

You sound entitled.

FatherOfJesus:
I

Probably it was a low budget startup company and the owner was trying to cut cost. Trust me, he knew what needed to be done for a glitch-free operation, but as a slave rider, he figured that one person could shoulder more tasks.

argent412:
I divorced my husband out of group influence last year in 2023. I started working as a nurse, and my friends told me that I could do without a man. So I got motivated by my friends and left my husband. As I'm talking to you, two of my friends who advised me to leave my marriage got married recently. I feel lonely and I can't find another man. So far, I have dated five men, and they just sleep with me and go. These men despite dating me they never respected me owing to fact that I'm not that attractive cos I'm in my thirties. One of my boyfriend got married to a young girl recently leaving me heartbroken. I'm tired and I need to be in my house with my loving husband. My actions were out of immaturity and wrong advice from evil friends.

I realised my mistakes. How can I convince him to allow me back? How can I persuade my husband? Advise me please 🙏
#Grace_Empire

It is okay to realise your mistakes. It is equally okay to live with your mistakes, especially since your move was triggered by peer pressure and the realisation of loneliness is triggered by yet another selfish desire. Did you think of your husband and how divorcing him would break him?


All the best!

helinues:


FG was so clever in handling Bobrisky's case.

Had they charged him for Gayism, that would have drawn the attention of the West who carry that matter for head like gala.

In this case, it's a criminal case which they can only peep.

Scapegoat(s) must be someone. It's time for FG to build a new correctional facilities for those with abnormal personalities like Bobrisky

You are right!

jaszplus12:

somEtimes pAranoia keepS us spiriTual, that way wE aRe depeNdent on the supreme being.
now you get...

Hahahaahahaahah! Noted with thanks. I am not paranoid, afterall.

mediclife1987:


From another compound? Na wa oh

My brother, from another compound oh. Yet neighbours claimed not to be in the know.

Father4all:
The landlord will tell you why didn't you take your key when going out. See, last year I went to Abuja by air, I booked the flight going and coming. The flight was supposed to leave ABJ by 9pm.Unfortunately, it was delayed till 11:30 pm. I arrived my state of residence by 130 Am Took cab to my residence, arrive my residence by 2:15 Am. Open our gate with my own jam keys, enter my house peacefully. What do you think will happen if I didn't have my own personal keys?

What if you misplaced your keys? This thing can happen to anyone and one cannot be completely careful. Best thing is to imbue to culture of being our brothers' keeper.

jaszplus12:

Pointing to where I had in mind... while in Nigeria I tasted all major tribes and I know which ones have the characters you mentioned!

I do too. Please drop a hint so I can be sure I am not paranoid.

DeltaBachelor:
I swear babe. I can't wait for my rent to be due so that I leave this wicked environment. The energy and vibes is very negative. The funny thing is they all claim to be " christain" and church-goers. I won't belittle any tribe or religion but I stayed a bit in the North and there are things an hausa man wouldn't do. They are their neighbour's keeper. Over here, it is just unhealthy competition and unnecessary rivalry

Having good neighbours is like finding a good wife. Alot of people may not understand this point of view until they have had a taste of it. Do not renew your rent oh. These species of neighbours (I think I have an idea of their tribe) would never help you even if see you dying. Yet, they are the first people to exit the compound to church on Sunday. They act nice only to their fellow statesman. Others are treated as outcast.


I know someone who suffered a bone injury at night. That person was in distress and wailing in the dead of the night. Certainly the neighbours must have heard this person wail, but nobody came to inquire or help. This person had to lay helpless in the bathroom with a broken bone from past midnight until past 4 A.M before help from another compound came

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

His family members are right. Why hire a DJ for the wake keep of a man who died in his prime? That is very insensitive.

Ther are alot of irregularities in your story.

Assuming it is true, you have no choice but to confront her with the truth. Your marriage is too young to face this sort of crisis. Moreso, from your narrative , you have been a good husband.

firstpregnancy:


I have silver crest, Kenwood and zyre . New ones. Never been used.

Zyre : 28k and 15k
Kenwood : 25k
Silver crest : 35k

What is the wattage of the Kenwoon blender? Can I see a clearer picture of it?

Meektunz:
I've been wondering what it signifies, so i decided to share it here on nairaland. So guys, what does it mean abina just design to fill up space?

They are called braille. It's a means of identification for the blind. They can afford to read it, thus figure out the currency at hand.

ForValour:
Thank you for this, l was about to attack him before l saw your post. Some people reason like cockroach's nymh

It's sickening to say the least. The world is already brutal. If we cannot help each other, we should at least not make a bad situation worse.

maestro299:


Where you come see phone and data?

What is wrong with you people? Op is not begging for money. He is begging for a means to an end. Must you joke about everything?

#simpleton

princemillla:



Get Stabilizer and thank me later

There is no outlet for stab. The AC terminal is connected to switch.

Stormyweather:
there's a problem with the installation (I think)

Okay, I would invite the installer to look it up. Thank you!

OgogoroDegree:


Is it brand new?

No, it's not. It was used for about 8 months before I purchased.

Stormyweather:
I think you should call him. You can do a quick troubleshooting. Check if the outdoor pipe is freezing, check if the fan is blowing really hot, lastly, check if the water dripping through the pipe is much.

I couldn't touch the outdoor pipe. They are far above. The fan doesn't seem to blow so much heat. I figured so because, even though it was far ahead, I didn't feel much heat (I pressume I should be able to feel it if it's blowing hot). The water dripping doesn't seem much.

ishayaauta:


Check the gas for leakage

Thanks for your input. How would I know if there is a leakage?

DammyGrafix:


I had the same issue, the repairer said the NEPA light was low and not enough to power the AC conveniently. We tested with a Generator and I noticed a significant change in the cooling. If you have a generator that can power the AC, try it and see if you are having the same issue. If it's a light issue, you would need a 5kva Stabilizer for your AC.

Thanks for your input. However, the voltage is super strong. My refrigerator works without a stab and I dare not put my fans on max. The speed is supersonic. So it cannot be the voltage.

Stormyweather:
have you compared with others? Inverter ACs doesn't cool like non-inverters. Also, ask the person who mounted it to come and check it.

I understand that it doesn't cool beyond the set temperature and like its non-inverter counterpart. The chilling is very minimal. I would call a technician to check

SOS
I recently mounted an LG dual inverter AC in my house, but I noticed that it doesn't cool as much I would expect. What's the way out?

ALABACONNECT:
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2020 samsung 2.0ch "All-in-one" soundbar with built-in woofer

Model: HW-S40T

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It's your customer from Minna.
Almost 2 years down the line and I am still enjoying the soundboard you sold to me. Keep up the good job. Coming for a smart TV soon.

Jewessgratitud3:
Both are incorrect.
Its. " by heart"

"I know it by heart"
,"I can say it by heart"
" I can recite it by heart".

Aptly said. Offhand connotes a different meaning entirely.

Demichaels:
In LOVE'S radiant embrace, our souls entwine,
Yearning for the sanctuary of an IDEAL Home divine.
Like the PETALS of a graceful autumn bloom,
We flourish, entwined in affection's sweet perfume.
Pledged to each other ere our fateful meet,
No bond can rival the love we replete.
We are REKELS, crafting dreams in PETALS' HOME,
Creating a haven where love finds its grace. SEALED By the TRINITY

Mods do your thing

This is good! Happy married life to you and yours.