Trying To Conceive A Child? Ttc

i feel for you poster and my prayer for you is dat in the nearest future u'll carry your own baby and every stumbling block preventing you 4rm carrying your own child will be destroyed in JESUS name Amen.

e no easy to born pickin o my sister

 

The best is to forget about it, one day it will come naturally.  l am there, l know its not easy to forget it, but thats the sure way to go about it.

My peace, everyone handles things diffrently, and i can tell u it is almost impossible to forget about it. the best you can do is look for things to occupy your mind so you can supress it but i am yet to see anyone who just forgets completly.

 

great thread and long overdue on NL.

Haa, if l had know this before, l wont have been so stressed as l was when my period refused to show up.  l never knew it could take that long, l spent alot in hospital. Trust some doctors, he made me believe something was wrong but could not really see anything, thank God it later came. 

My Colleague in the office, had similar thing, her doctor did family planning for her to correct the stuff, till now close to 2years the period still doesnt run.  lt runs when shes carrying the IUD, if she removes it, it stops.

Have you heard about this 21 days tip? A friend told me that if a woman gets to age 30, that ovulation changes to day 21 instead of day 14 (However, ovulation depends on the length of the cycle) and  preferably position is reentry, which deposits sperm straight to the womb.   l dont know how truth it is ooo, but that was what l did and conceive for the first time in life. 

The Bible says, we shall never caste our young, or be barren in the Land.
 

^AMEN!!! God can do it.

Thank you Pinklady,FBS and candylips(who only says one sentence )
I say Amen to all the prayers.
Mypeace, it is just sad that doctors will take advantage of people when they are looking for answers , that was why i decided to post on line .

what ever problem someone has, someone has gone through it before, so there will always be some sort of information that can help.

About that 21day tip i have not heard that oh, i think as long as your period remains the same ,   it should not shift from 14 to 21, however most research i have looked at say ovulation can occur from day 11 to day 21 just depends on your cycle.

As for the position thing i have heard so many things i think the most ridiculous said after intercourse you should lay your head on the floor but your legs should still be on the bed  meaning you are almost standing on your head so that  the sperm can swim faster to the egg!!!

ha meaning we are almost cycle buddies i start my 2 week wait from today baby dust to you too.

i meant how did you react to it.

Aladunmi we have heard you 

I am having secondary infertility ( had a child 2 yrs ago).  Hav bn TTC since baby #1 was 10 mnths but no avail.  Have done quite a couple of tests which came out ok.  However, just yesterday, I discovered what the problem is (online research) as hormonal imbalance (thyroid problem).  Almost all the symptoms listed is what I have been experiencing since the past 10 months.  I have taken a test just to confirm before starting treatment.  Test will be out in 3 wks but I believe i have come to the end of the problem.  Before baby #1, i waited for two yrs. 

Poster, have you done all necessary test.  it is very common among nigerian women to sit idle and lament without seeking medical assistance.  I  will advice that while you pray, i encourage you to do the needful by seeing a gyn for proper diagnoisis.  Although most of our doctors do not update their knowledge, I will advice that you do research on the internet depending on the symtoms you re having and who knows, you might be able to guess the problem which helps in getting solution to the problem faster.

Peace.

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Aladunni, i have used clomid i took the 50mg i responded well to it i have most times 3 good follicles measuring anywhere from 14 to 25mm .
Are you taking clomid under doctors orders or just over the counter? Please be careful so you don't hyperstimulate your self as you will need monitoring ie ultrasound while taking clomid.

Empadac yes i have done alot of tests even some i did not need to do and  they cant find anything wrong. i have checked my blood to be sure i don't have blood clots that can cause miscarriages but still nothing , my doctor is  a the leading doctor in infertility and he has told me i should just be patient, as they cant find anything wrong why i am having miscarriages. but i am doing my own little research i have heard of something called natural killer cells that thinks a baby is a foreign body and trys to expel it before it grows. May that not be my portion.

mypeace you can still ovulate without visible  CM .

Arlington

Where your reply come waka go now , have read it shaa from your profile post.

Thats good then, some pple tend to exagerate about CM.