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Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by acidtalk: 11:28pm On Jun 05, 2012 |
Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner? 1) Financial Independence 2) Physical Look 3) Practising Believer 4) Family Background 5) Romantic 6) Funny 7) Patience Non Drinker/Smoker 9) Extrovert /Introvert 10) Friendly / Sociable 11) Good Listener / Advicer 12) Hardworking 13) Neat 14) Well Connected 15) Good Home Maker 16) Repectful 17) Very Patient 18) A Goal Getter 19) Trust 20) Generous 5 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by brownusagirl(f): 1:44am On Jun 06, 2012 |
acidtalk: Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner? 1. God fearing 2. Honest 3.kind 4.funny and likes to joke around 5. Hard worker |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Cuddlemii: 3:09am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1) Intelligent(Didn't find that in your list, very important because it supersedes everything and a key to everything) 2) Hardworking (encompasses financial independence, a goal getter, well connected because anyone who is hardworking would have all these in mind or aspires to get them so they are all interwoven and interrelated like a maze. Infact a man who acknowledges that you encouraged his hard work would be generous too) 3) Physical look (this is obviously related to being neat as well,your man should be at least presentable. Its the way he is dressed that he would be addressed) 4) Patience (Related to good listener and adviser. You need to be attentive and composed to listen to your partner. Related to respectful as well) 5) Practicing believer not like a staunch christian but must have the fear of God. I am not a fan of spiritual fanatics). Once there is fear of God, every other blessing follows or all the other factors you listed would be added unto thee. If you can't get everything in a man, focus on getting the most important or key things that would shape, mold or establish the rest for you. 12 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Mynd44: 6:46am On Jun 06, 2012 |
You people really need to stop fantasizing over your lists. Most people will eventually settle for less than 50% of what they have on their list so what is the point in wasting your time compiling lists? 8 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 7:01am On Jun 06, 2012 |
^^^ Hehehe, I love a realist. Life is easier when you lower your standards and take what life throws at you. If you like it, then fine. If not, then move on until the next best thing happens (if it chooses to happen that is). 2 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by brownusagirl(f): 7:09am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Mynd_44: You people really need to stop fantasizing over your lists. Most people will eventually settle for less than 50% of what they have on their list so what is the point in wasting your time compiling lists?Maybe a superficial list but five things about someone's character isn't much to ask.... 1 Like |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Cuddlemii: 8:05am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Mynd_44: You people really need to stop fantasizing over your lists. Most people will eventually settle for less than 50% of what they have on their list so what is the point in wasting your time compiling lists? True that is why I said you pick the key factors and others would follow. For example, a hardworking man obviously means he has prospects and if he does not make it now, in the course of the marriage he would get there or the couple would make it together. No matter how you choose not to be choosy or decide to be realistic, you still need to set standards for yourself if not everyone would have been married to anything that craws. Your happiness is paramount though, be with who makes you happy and gives you peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 8:19am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1. Trust 2. Funny 3. Financial Independence 4. Non smoker/drinker 5. Goal getter Ijebabe has all of dis |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by kodewrita(m): 8:19am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1 Interpersonal Chemistry 2 Not a Spender 3 Conversationally competent 4 Similar Background(One or more of tribal, social, educational) 5 Christian( the truer the better) |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by acidtalk: 9:33am On Jun 06, 2012 |
kodewrita: 1 Interpersonal Chemistry Your list sure came fro 'dollarland" or "poundland". 2 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by icon2: 10:01am On Jun 06, 2012 |
acidtalk: Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner? 80% of that would be fine.. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by blackonil: 10:02am On Jun 06, 2012 |
I cant find 'spontaneonus person' on d list. Neither can i find 'good fucker' too. Lie u dont fantasize these too. Till u fix d wholes, we will start choosin again. 1 Like |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by sharpman1(m): 10:02am On Jun 06, 2012 |
In no particular order 1. smart and intelligent 2. beautiful 3. hardworking and industrious 4. friendly and easy to please 5. trustworthy 6. believer |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Emmaesty(f): 10:04am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1) Financial Independence 3) Practising Believer 6) Funny 10) Friendly / Sociable 11) Good Listener / Advicer |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by xhero: 10:12am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Trust me, once the babes perceive that the guy is loaded, they will automatically visualize all the other qualities they want in a man! Money dey shape monkey O! 2 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by OYINBOGOJU(m): 10:12am On Jun 06, 2012 |
acidtalk: Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner? Those highlighted matters most to Nigerian Girls excess money in different denominations |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by ukpaku: 10:15am On Jun 06, 2012 |
mine is just base on admiration and love. 1 Like |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by MacLovington(m): 10:18am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Let them be fantasizing, especially the ladies. Just when they think they have found "him", the next thing dem go hear be say e don give anoda woman belle outside. Na one such matter my friend sister just dey face now. Na so dem go ignore good people in the name of list. Make una go china go order doll baby. All those compiling their list, how many of una meet those criteria? I didn't make a list. I just prayed to God and so far (eleven years on) am happy with who he provided. 3 Likes |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by alahamad(m): 10:21am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Cuddlemii: 1) Intelligent(Didn't find that in your list, very important because it supersedes everything and a key to everything) You solid to the core nd said it far better than I can ever imagine.... |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 10:26am On Jun 06, 2012 |
acidtalk: Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner?Me and the person should be comfortable with each other, should get along with each other, should understand each other. The others na muni/jara. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 10:32am On Jun 06, 2012 |
xhero: Trust me, once the babes perceive that the guy is loaded, they will automatically visualize all the other qualities they want in a man! Money dey shape monkey O! yes. Also, when the girl is very fine and sexy, the man will automatically visualize the other qualities for the woman. Beauty dey shape mumu o!!! |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by itoldu: 10:36am On Jun 06, 2012 |
At the end of the day, you would find mr/mrs right, yet they aint good enough there is still some lil flavor of *BAD* that you want in them. Dont worry, your lists can reach heaven but when ur "OJU KOKORO" still dey, why not include *gud bedmatics* in ur list, they may call u all sorts but if it is what u want (wch u definitely need), then ur d realist not those that form and yet sneak to get it. My advice: stop making a list and start enjoyin every moment as it coms. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Arcadia(f): 10:36am On Jun 06, 2012 |
For me, its the first four qualities, in no particular order, plus EVERLASTING FIDELITY. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by xcitedjay(m): 10:41am On Jun 06, 2012 |
In this particular order 1) Trust 2) Good Home Maker 3) Respectful 4) Romantic 5) Financial Independence |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 10:51am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1. Religiously Compatible 2. Physical Appearance 3. Family Background 4. Rich 5. Obedient |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by subzero2(m): 10:53am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Wot shall it profit a lady if she posseses all doz qualities up thr n hav poor BEDMATICAL skills? Vanity Upon Vanity. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by mrperfect(m): 11:03am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Really something interesting. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by aanita: 11:03am On Jun 06, 2012 |
acidtalk:the list came from "Cefer land" |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by NaJoke2000: 11:04am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Financial Independence [size=15pt] Family Background [/size] Trust These are the foundation of todays Marriage. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 11:08am On Jun 06, 2012 |
Cuddlemii: 1) Intelligent(Didn't find that in your list, very important because it supersedes everything and a key to everything) ur explanation of hard working is false. barrow pushers are the highest hard workers but they are nt financially independent. There are also not well connected and most will not be in their life time. So u have to seperate them. |
Re: Your Top 5 Priorities Before Selecting A Husband/Wife by Nobody: 11:19am On Jun 06, 2012 |
1) Financial Independence 5) Romantic 6) Funny 11) Good Listener / Advicer 19) Trust And he must be a nerd! |
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