Continue comparing developed countries to a 3rd world country.
The struggles in Japan & Nigeria aren’t the same

"....The surveyed single Japanese men, on the other hand, said they were unwilling to marry because they desired freedom or lacked financial power and job security to support married life."


The average Nigerian man will still get married and birth several kids while still earning a barely minimum wage!

The religious ones will tell you that God will provide! SMH!!

Aareakinwunmi:
Not every woman with will be married.
Those who won't need to find solace in other things.

Like farming

Lestatdelioncou:

Like farming

Career

Japan has been having this problem for a long while
Some no dey fhuck sef

Ugly people.

Give me a Chinese, Japanese or Korean woman free of charge I won't marry them.

shantti:
Marriage have no relevance again. I won't marry either

How is marriage not relevant again?

Moroherr:
Wow

In this present age

The OP forgets that marriage issue in Nigeria is both a cultural and societal issue, while for most countries outside, it is just a societal issue.

The environment differs!

Weirdcamila:
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

You don’t ever pray for the calamity befalling these people. They are avoiding marriage because nobody wants to care for others. Individuality is killing them. Miserable life awaits people who crave for individuality. This is evident when they grow old and need help from others. Care home staff can never replace your family and close relatives.

kozmicity:



Time to japa

yes o time to japa to Japan

Aareakinwunmi:


Career

Bus conductor

Japanese women are extremely rude to their male counterparts. The men have simply realised that freedom and peace of mind are paramount in a man's life

Danisaint112:
What I have come to understand in this life is, not all women will get married. Some (a good amount) will definitely end up unmarried.

And this is a fact. One of the numerous reason is that the population of women is above that of men.

Source please ?

Statistician isonu

how did you know

COOL10:
Japanese women are extremely rude to their male counterparts. The men have simply realised that freedom and peace of mind are paramount in a man's life

Botking:
Dey don't want to marry, but dey like to fvck, lol, the only thing their government can do to remedy the declining factor is to ban contraceptive

Japanese men are not like African men. Not everybody like sex like una

Weirdcamila:
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

Generally, people in poorer countries marry and give birth to many children compared to their counterparts in richer nations. The reality is, prosperity begets low birth rates and yes, low marriage rates. Why the birth rate in Japan is lower is because it is a taboo to birth children OUTSIDE of marriage. The birth rate is even higher here compared to, say, South Korea (the lowest), China or Singapore. There is nothing govts can really do about the low birth rates in prosperous countries, especially when the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs is factored.

smartleo:


Source please ?

Statistician isonu

Visit Google Nwokem.

While in Nigeria most women see marriage as poverty alleviation scheme...

Unmarried people always worry about the people.

Well, I don't think this will really help our sisters down here. Our cultural values are totally different from theirs, no matter how much we even try copying the westerners, we still know deep with within us that we can never be like them.

Over there, I am sure no one will pressurise you for grandchildren or anyone calling you names for not having a man, they mind their own business there....

Coldie:

Japanese men are not like African men. Not everybody like sex like una

Sorry story, oga go there and see for yourself, no people like sex pass oriental men

Rich country problems

Danisaint112:
What I have come to understand in this life is, not all women will get married. Some (a good amount) will definitely end up unmarried.

And this is a fact. One of the numerous reason is that the population of women is above that of men

Entirely untrue. Across the world, there are more men than women. In Nigeria, the same applies. Yes, not all women will get married due to different factors ditto for men, but it is false to say there are more women than men.

https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2022/08/31/global-population-skews-male-but-un-projects-parity-between-sexes-by-2050/#:~:text=Globally%2C%20the%20number%20of%20males,females%20in%20the%20global%20population.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2015/08/19/see-where-women-outnumber-men-around-the-world-and-why/

Weirdcamila:
Africans rush into marriage thinking it’s some sort of achievement.

Pple are starting to realize this , I dated one girl like that once she told me she never will get married to any man no matter how rich he is I thought she was just lying the way women. do( normal) until she showed me pictures of all her ex in Abuja ...

ecolime:
Japan's population has been shrinking year on year because of this and it's understandable. That of Naija is what I don't understand.

Nigerians are not getting married but our population is increasing exponentially despite the mass migration.

What's going on?

Have we even counted ourselves in the last 12 years?

We may not be up to 200m, forget all these figures they keep quoting everywhere

Na sapa dey worry our Nigerian ladies.

Holy Mary!

Eniitankorede:





You don’t ever pray for the calamity befalling these people. They are avoiding marriage because nobody wants to care for others. Individuality is killing them. Miserable life awaits people who crave for individuality. This is evident when they grow old and need help from others. Care home staff can never replace your family and close relatives.

You don’t get my point , it’s not a bad idea to marry but even people that can’t feed themselves are getting married and dropping kids like musical albums.
I am not God but here on nairaland you read people begging for help after childbirth.
Why will someone that is just 30 feel bad that she’s not married ? She thinks it’s an achievement to be married !

blingxx:


Pple are starting to realize this , I dated one girl like that once she told me she never will get married to any man no matter how rich he is I thought she was just lying the way women. do( normal) until she showed me pictures of all her ex in Abuja ...

Yes , people are getting wise.