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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by spikesC(m): 7:41pm On Aug 14, 2012
vivian chinaza:

Thanks babe.....nd I'm so sorry you got insulted for trying to advice me. Don't take it personal ok, shit happens on social network!

Its never personal sweet, sh*t really happens on social networks. Like a girl telling me she lives on free launches from guys who want to get laid cool
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by vivianc(f): 7:45pm On Aug 14, 2012
At Dailynews;;; whoa whoa whoa...... You really sound pathetic! If it makes you feel worst, I'm really beautiful, besides, every woman is beautiful and that really bothers you from what I can see. So you jump to the lagoon, I sip a cup of cofee, everybody is happy! Lolz....... Seriously guy get a life....if a stranger can stir so much sadness in you....then you need help!
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Ariyke: 7:46pm On Aug 14, 2012
av once went tru what u're going tru and trust me i knw hw it feels to b lonely i normaly cry my eyes out but life goes on so sweet go out make friends bt life is nt fulfilled without love so break dat tie with ur ex, crawl out of dat shell cus u gonna need love anyways.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by maximum007(m): 7:55pm On Aug 14, 2012
Kolade9: @OP. Do u have to create a thread for dis
Do you have to reply to it
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 8:19pm On Aug 14, 2012
vivian chinaza: At Dailynews;;; whoa whoa whoa...... You really sound pathetic! If it makes you feel worst, I'm really beautiful, besides, every woman is beautiful and that really bothers you from what I can see. So you jump to the lagoon, I sip a cup of cofee, everybody is happy! Lolz....... Seriously guy get a life....if a stranger can stir so much sadness in you....then you need help!

Sure you got me pissed miss pretty, not becos of anything else but becos you are a pretentious liar advertising yourself in the worst market. Like you know, I am hanging out with some friends here, catching fun and they all are reading your cocky & bull story & laughing at you a typical Nigerian girl trying to cover up her ill-manner that made her get dumped by a nice guy & now no such deserving guy is coming her way again, and she is beginning to get bored & feel like taking her life because all guys she meet senses her fake pretentious lifestyle & rush to ravish her & run & now she feels the best place to market herself is on all social networking sites including forums like nairaland...thinking she would get another guy to suck his pocket in the name of an event planner like we all don't know that the second name for Nigerian whores is event planners, from planning people's wedding they sneak into the marriage to milk the man in the name of planning event...hey ma'am get yourself a better job...or did you graduate with a pass that you cannot get a better job? why not use all these your pretty asset you claim to have to get yourself a job like your fellows do than deceiving yourself that you are an event planner & coming online to lie & lure gullible-minded guys into your gold-digging net

Finally, you and the others must you have a boyfriend or girlfriend to be happy & thankful in your life? This just showed how miserable & idle your life must be to be occupied with boyfriend & no-boyfriend thinking than to be thinking of other positive things to do with your life. keep wearing your life out becos you want love...when you yourself can't even offer one in return except to be a liability to one innocent guy in the name of love! sighssssssssss....lol

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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by chucky234(m): 8:38pm On Aug 14, 2012
Hmmm I can imagine how you feel right now,many women suffer depression after a heartbreak and the only cause of that is the mere believe that you will never find another man who would love you better than your ex. First you have to free your mind and put in that believe that there is a better man out there who would love and treat you like a queen that you are,if he loves that much as you assumed then he would stand by you through thick and thin.
The truth is your man is out there somewhere waiting for you,only your faith can lead you to him.
Secondly, don't rush into another relationship,take all the time in the world to find that special man specially made for you,becareful with everyone that comes your way so you don't make same mistake you made with your ex.
Indulge in activities that will keep your mind engaged,that way you will easily get over that impression that there is no life after your ex,the sun will shine again.
Most importantly love yourself and do away with those tears as your ex is not worth a drop of your tears,be happy always and smile like an angel.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by vivianc(f): 8:42pm On Aug 14, 2012
@Dailynews; you just confirmed what I suspected. No no no, you are so beneath me, I'm not gonna waste my time on a puppy like you. Pls don't forget to take that bottle of malt and a bone too when you are done barking!

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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by phaya(f): 8:43pm On Aug 14, 2012
Am in exact situation right now! Sometimes its easy to get over but most of times its very very hard. I really don't know what to do
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 14, 2012
vivian chinaza: @Dailynews; you just confirmed what I suspected. No no no, you are so beneath me, I'm not gonna waste my time on a puppy like you. Pls don't forget to take that bottle of malt and a bone too when you are done barking!
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 9:08pm On Aug 14, 2012
Okay miss event planner...Lolz...you better change your ways & also confess your mind that you need a boyfriend online so randy guys like you can rush down & help you out miss event planner! I have already taken the Amstel Malta...though not too chilled...but seriously, try & get a working life & stop grumbling about not having a boyfriend or being dumped by a guy out of your stupid mistake you hear Like a poster counselled you, learn to be real so the next guy don't dump you again like the first & before you know it you have been dumped ten times becos of shabby fine girl character.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 14, 2012
You cannot make something out of someone until you can make something out of yourself. If you want the best, be the best you desire. Learn to forgive your past and move on! Don't be anxious to jump into another and if you woul, platonic frndship may be of help to you.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 14, 2012
You cannot make something out of someone until you can make something out of yourself. If you want the best, be the best you desire. Learn to forgive your past and move on! Don't be anxious to jump into another and if you would, platonic frndship may be of help to you.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by alexy147(m): 10:23pm On Aug 14, 2012
pendo89: check ur calendar.it could be around that time of the month.

if not, u will not love again till u break that tie with ur ex.he's gone kapish! forget him and open ur heart to love again.
you keep urself in bondage and still cry. get over,get out,make friends and live!
it's not complex.
my dear.,to support dis beautiful coment.,believ m,d moment u stop leaving in d shores of ur past(EX) n embras ur present n den know ur values,believ m u wil b happy again.. Nobody is worth your tears, and when you finally find the person who is, they'll never make you cry.takia 21cf919 if u need more advic
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by gidjah(m): 10:28pm On Aug 14, 2012
really get wt u bin tru coz i hvbin there too,but wait! Dnt u hv baby frndz hu cn always kip u busy??if nt u can go in to tins lik writting, sports, n d likes.if ur emotions cnt be subdued tru ds methods , then aye u mit hv to get plain frnd u cn always talk to, always bin on ur own wnt help d mata at all,learn to talk to sme one, atudy dem,..u really nid to talk if u wnt to survive ds,get gd books too, mainly xtian literatures,concentrate on God ,he is d only true source of joy n even hppiness,no man cn do it coz, it wil always depend on moods per time.bt time heals though sme of us dnt get tru ds time tthing easily,use hve a sis hu dropped me for anoda man few yrs ago afta 4fyrs courtin, u cnt believe am stil thinking of her afta 5yrs of seperatn,..really love her u know!?try gettin tru to me if it kips gettin tough on u, bt i no u wl sail tru ova ds
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Bee160: 10:39pm On Aug 14, 2012
vivian chinaza:

To answer your question yes I'm working......though now a white collar job. I'm a very creative person and creativity is my passion but my work is not where I hide when my love life sucks! By the way I'm a wedding planner......I'm into cakes, venue decoration, infact a total package to make ur day a memorable one and ur bride the most beautiful.....so give me a buzz when the bell rings for you! U need to understand that there is a space in one's life that work cannot fill right?

Sure you will do well as a wedding planner! I dunno if am d only one dts noticed bt wedding planners always hve a messy love life or dey are wrecked emotionaly. Such an irony! Its alwais a happy ending for u guys tho so lookup 2 d brighter side.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by vivianc(f): 11:18pm On Aug 14, 2012
@ Bee160; lol,,,, I know you are trying to help but pls I'm not emotionally wrecked ok! I'm too young for that buddy. If u read and understood my thread very well, I made it clear I don't want a boyfriend. I just want to find my way back, like go back to how things used to be......learn how to how fun again without wondering what tomorrow happens next.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by vivianc(f): 11:27pm On Aug 14, 2012
@ Bee160; lol,,,, I know you are trying to help but pls I'm not emotionally wrecked ok! I'm too young for that buddy. If u read and understood my thread very well, I made it clear I don't want a boyfriend. I just want to find my way back, like go back to how things used to be......learn how to have fun again without wondering what happens next. Then, finally I don't think one's profession affects his/her personal life............. Things are complicated everywhere ok, the youths are compromised, no one is sincere anymore, no one believes in love anymore; its survival through deception; so how on earth is this world gonna be ok? How can people find love when we believe it doesn't exist? No brother, this generation can never be compared to that of our fathers nd trust me professions have got absolutely nothing to do with it.

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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by USAMarshal: 11:47pm On Aug 14, 2012
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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by USAMarshal: 11:53pm On Aug 14, 2012
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Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 4:01am On Aug 15, 2012
I feel u OP.

Youre not alone....(no pun intended).
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by onila(f): 4:01am On Aug 15, 2012
MsDarkSkin: I feel u OP.

Youre not alone....(no pun intended).

hmmmmm
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 4:03am On Aug 15, 2012
onila:

hmmmmm
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by slimojas89(m): 7:17am On Aug 15, 2012
From her post to all her comments, I have come to conclusion that(nothing personal) the lady is just CONFUSED and might need a professional for counselling. Some posts stir you up and u jus start insulting, can't u just ignore some posts? Too bad we don't really have counsellors in 9ja except maybe that our pastors now stand for both counsellors and doctors. VIVIAN, pls see a counsellor today
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Goldenheart(m): 7:21am On Aug 15, 2012
my suggestion, seek the kingdom of GOD
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by leeland(m): 8:07am On Aug 15, 2012
vivian chinaza: I feel lonely most times and I try to fill that space up with activities and creativity but my heart keeps yawning for love; to really love someone.......I'm not even sure I want a boyfriend......I just want to be a part of something special. Sometimes I break down and cry, I don't wanna go out and I'm really tired of it. I don't know if this is happening because I'm still very much in love with my ex or another psychological thing. I know this is a phase I have to pass through but the truth is I don't know how to, right now I'm feeling kind of lost......how do I go about this? What should I do? Has any body in the house felt the same way........honestly if I don't do something I might just lose it!
. Seriously wat u nid nw r true friends,den u can tink abt bf later.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by kolajoo(m): 8:38am On Aug 15, 2012
vivian chinaza:

To answer your question yes I'm working......though now a white collar job. I'm a very creative person and creativity is my passion but my work is not where I hide when my love life sucks! By the way I'm a wedding planner......I'm into cakes, venue decoration, infact a total package to make ur day a memorable one and ur bride the most beautiful.....so give me a buzz when the bell rings for you! U need to understand that there is a space in one's life that work cannot fill right?
wow! You have a nice job and i may have something for you. Here's my num 07035814369 pls text me your email address and i will drop you a message. Thanks
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by sevule(m): 8:57am On Aug 15, 2012
vivian chinaza: At Dailynews;;; whoa whoa whoa...... You really sound pathetic! If it makes you feel worst, I'm really beautiful, besides, every woman is beautiful and that really bothers you from what I can see. So you jump to the lagoon, I sip a cup of cofee, everybody is happy! Lolz....... Seriously guy get a life....if a stranger can stir so much sadness in you....then you need help!
every woman is beautiful?
Ehm I diagree with the above assertion. Please google Obasanjo"s daughter's picture
and report back if you still believe that every woman is beautiful
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by biggzman: 9:06am On Aug 15, 2012
Most time its difficult to fine som1 we truly love and be respected. jst keep being ur saf 4 1dy u'll fine som1 will luv n take 4 who u are.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by Nobody: 9:33am On Aug 15, 2012
Onainor Samuel :
You cannot make something out of someone until you can make something out of yourself. If you want the best, be the best you desire. Learn to forgive your past and move on! Don't be anxious to jump into another and if you woul, platonic frndship may be of help to you.

IA.
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by temi4fash(m): 12:12pm On Aug 15, 2012
felicity17:
Nothing like complicated relationship
Any relationship that never worked out is a deliverance in disguise
Check out

na so.. dr. david oyedapo said it too in his message 'preparing for marriage'
Re: I'm Not Sure I Need A Boyfriend But I Miss Being In Love by DonCipher: 1:55pm On Aug 15, 2012
Learn 2b by urself 4a yle..

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