I feel lonely most times and I try to fill that space up with activities and creativity but my heart keeps yawning for love; to really love someone.......I'm not even sure I want a boyfriend......I just want to be a part of something special. Sometimes I break down and cry, I don't wanna go out and I'm really tired of it. I don't know if this is happening because I'm still very much in love with my ex or another psychological thing. I know this is a phase I have to pass through but the truth is I don't know how to, right now I'm feeling kind of lost......how do I go about this? What should I do? Has any body in the house felt the same way........honestly if I don't do something I might just lose it!

aww pele. it will get better.

if you are still feeling like you dont even want a boyfriend, you should probably stay by yourself and work on your emotions and i think the time off from dating will ultimately do you some good depending on how long ago you broke up with the ex.

omega25red: aww pele. it will get better.

if you are still feeling like you dont even want a boyfriend, you should probably stay by yourself and work on your emotions and i think the time off from dating will ultimately do you some good [color=#000099][/color]depending on how long ago you broke up with the ex.

Thanks dear,........I know it will get better but its taking to long. Its been so many months since I parted ways with my ex tho. As for boyfriends.....I don't know. When u are beautiful (ladies) u really find it hard to get a true friend who is interested in your personality and not how hot you ur body is. I think being beautiful sucks sometimes!!!!!!!!!

Kk...anywayz I like new friends...u cn send me an email...we cn talk...no strings attached....U jst need friends I guess.

And trust me...u dnt need a boyfriend yet...u need more time to forget the past.

I understand you,i have passed through that before. That was about 18 months ago ,then i just went to a new city and a new job and no friends or family around . Just me and i was so lonely and to couple with it ,i have always been a one man squad so i was really baffled at myself and i thought having a gf would solve that but after many trials and error ,now i have one but am feeling like am not giving her or even myself any breathing space and i want to try and not be seeing her every damn fucking day. So i would advice that you don't rush but that you hold yourself and be comfortable with yourself first ,your are a woman,its a given that men will come,decide what you want and choose. At that period i understood why the bible said " its not good that a man would be alone"

Sweerie, send two passport photographs and two 6 x 12 photos of yourself full-length (one in black & white) with supporting cover-letter to my e-mail box. I can relate to (y)our situation and i want to love you like fanta & egg. .

yuzedo: Sweerie, send two passport photographs and[color=#000099][/color] two 6 x 12 photos of yourself full-length (one in black & white) with supporting cover-letter to my e-mail box. I can relate to (y)our situation and i want to love you like fanta & egg. .

Like seriously? You cracked me up a little! I'm actually smiling amidst tears......but seriously get that mental picture of a hot body off ur brian! Lolz.....thanks anyway.

vivian chinaza:


Like seriously? You cracked me up a little! I'm actually smiling amidst tears......but seriously get that mental picture of a hot body off ur brian! Lolz.....thanks anyway.

Awwwww. . Sweetie i'm sorry you're depressed. Biko ebezina. I don't have a girlfriend too and sometimes i'm lonely and long for that sweet companionship. . Other times i just shrug it off and live my life noni!
Hugs and french Jamaican kisses for u boo. .

_{You can still send the pictures tho!}

Op

U need 2 be spending d nite in my place :- \

vivian chinaza: I feel lonely most times and I try to fill that space up with activities and creativity but my heart keeps yawning for love; to really love someone.......I'm not even sure I want a boyfriend......I just want to be a part of something special. Sometimes I break down and cry, I don't wanna go out and I'm really tired of it. I don't know if this is happening because I'm still very much in love with my ex or another psychological thing. I know this is a phase I have to pass through but the truth is I don't know how to, right now I'm feeling kind of lost......how do I go about this? What should I do? Has any body in the house felt the same way........honestly if I don't do something I might just lose it!

one of my paddy wey dey work as a mechanic dey look for an igbo babe as a girlfriend.as long as u beautiful he dey willin to date u.make u no worry at all because my pally get money wellla

M M M: Op

U need 2 be spending d nite in my place :- \

hmmm.... Night of all times? U 2 like 2 dey do... . @op ndo o, u wil get over ur ex when u kip tryin

yuzedo: Sweerie, send two passport photographs and two 6 x 12 photos of yourself full-length (one in black & white) with supporting cover-letter to my e-mail box. I can relate to (y)our situation and i want to love you like fanta & egg. .

Rotflmfaoooo

Fanta and egg

Or alomo and ginger - so many mad dudes arund these parts these days

Vivian, are you currently working?

Thing is I think ur idle right?. 1, dat wont help. 2, babe u need a bf... Thats what u want, get it. Dose guys gave u a nice advice though, u need to work on ur emotions yet still doesnt stop u from hooking up wit som1 while making sure theres enuf space. Get with him wen ur lonely & study him wen ur away. Just my tot though.

Wud av lov to get to know u bt im in love wit Slimyem though she doesnt love me same way. ***sad***.

190:


Rotflmfaoooo

Fanta and egg

Or alomo and ginger - so many mad dudes arund these parts these days

Star and cigar

Oh my swt lonely-lone! I'm here 2 giv u dat mild and roomy luv ur 'missed ex' was unable to giv. Seriously, u nid 2 dwnwarp d part dat's kipin u frm BF nd let d part dat's urgin u 2 luv 2 fuly shw up. Wit jst an e-mail we'r dere. Let's go dia!

lefulefu:
one of my paddy wey dey work as a mechanic dey look for an igbo babe as a girlfriend.as long as u beautiful he dey willin to date u.make u no worry at all because my pally get money wellla

Who is this "agbero" (tout)?

vivian chinaza: I feel lonely most times and I try to fill that space up with activities and creativity but my heart keeps yawning for love; to really love someone.......I'm not even
sure I want a boyfriend......I just want to be a part of something special. Sometimes I break down and cry, I don't wanna go out and I'm really tired of it. I don't know if this is happening because I'm still very much in love with my ex or another psychological thing. I know this is a phase I have to pass through but the truth is I don't know how to, right now I'm feeling kind of lost......how do I go about this? What should I do? Has any body in the house felt the same way........honestly if I don't do something I might just lose it!

With time everything will be alright. Just take ur time and don't rush into any relationship.

I know how that feels.

I am a man though.but i feel d same way.i dont need a woman too.i think it is as a result of complicated relationships.

check ur calendar.it could be around that time of the month.

if not, u will not love again till u break that tie with ur ex.he's gone kapish! forget him and open ur heart to love again.
you keep urself in bondage and still cry. get over,get out,make friends and live!
it's not complex.

nikkyshyne: I know how that feels.

Dis babe don carry cum again!

fluid26:

Dis babe don carry cum again!

^^ Some people just like yarning nonsense sha. Which wisdom are you telling now? Mtschew

nikkyshyne:

lol! I swear you've got a craziiie attitude!

This OP desperately needs 2 get laid

And 190 sorry someone should help her out

fluid26: Vivian, are you currently working?

To answer your question yes I'm working......though now a white collar job. I'm a very creative person and creativity is my passion but my work is not where I hide when my love life sucks! By the way I'm a wedding planner......I'm into cakes, venue decoration, infact a total package to make ur day a memorable one and ur bride the most beautiful.....so give me a buzz when the bell rings for you! U need to understand that there is a space in one's life that work cannot fill right?

@OP. Do u have to create a thread for dis

pendo89: check ur calendar.it could be around that time of the month.

if not, u will not love again till u break that tie with ur ex.he's gone kapish! forget him and open ur heart to love again.
you keep urself in bondage and still cry. get over,get out,make friends and live!
it's not complex.

This Lady always make sense