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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by matm: 12:26pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
theophorus: It doesn't work as u think .Every lady has sexual libido which craves for sex for it to be quenched for sometime and then again and again .So it's nature except if one is a true religious person.Desire for sex is always there in both guys and ladies and it's very strong, marriage or no marriage.Dts why cheating continues even in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by chatinent: 12:27pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Looking like most Nigerian girls reason the same. So all you have to offer is sex? But all you want him to offer is unlimited? Tell me why he won't leave you after. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by CheapHomes1: 12:32pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz: Who conditioned you to believe that sex will keep a man glue and obsessed about you? According to you "But I know Nigerian men. They'll use you once they see you're in love with them." Where did you nigerian men? They are in their hundreds of millions. How did you know that many men in your short life span? |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Chirowman(m): 12:33pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
From my own perceptive and experience, it depends on who are .Even if you like deny him sex for 50 years and your personality aren't something to talk about , he will still move . When you meet an intelligent man ,sex is not the first thing on the table . As you women rate men ,same way men rate women . Someone like me all I look out for is personality ,I hate pretence . You can't offer sex and start billing and think a man will stay put and ignite a relationship. When a man ,shows up ask him what he wants with boldness and watch out to see if he has bad personality. Just that most people fail to look out for those bad personality, a goat that will enter the bush always shows the sign . For me sex is just over rated ,I hate toxicity and liabilities. If you as a woman is offering only sex then you met your equal,but if you have a lot of things to offer than sex be bold to ask questions. Wealthy people move with their kinds ,poor people move with their kinds . 2 Likes |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by matm: 12:34pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Buhari4sale: What is adultery/fornication? |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Lindajames1010: 12:37pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
nkemdi89:..... |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by lordaltruist(m): 12:37pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz: I didn't read through because of the heading and in as much as I would want to agree with you, I also want to let you know that not all men would leave you for giving them sex on the first date. I always and will always say this to whoever cares to hear; as a guy, what turns me off most girls and I believe it relates to most guys is your attitude before and after sex. One thing most girls don't know is that as guys we observe all of that; how you portray yourself even after sex. That we have or had sex on our first date doesn't mean you are loose, it all depends on the depth of our connection. So then that shouldn't make you throw away your pride rather should make you show your worth regardless of what had happened. We went on a date and eventually because we were deeply connected we ended up at my place and made out for the night; what I will look out for is who leaves the bed first, who greets first, even while on bed what is the attitude (some of you act like one night stand and expect us to go ahead with the relationship). My current date had sex with me on the first date but her attitude made me desire her the more; we are currently planning our wedding and by God's grace November is the month. Yes guys would always come for sex but after that, it is your attitude that will keep them. 3 Likes |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Lindajames1010: 12:37pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
nkemdi89:can we link up?.. I stay in Abuja too 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by matm: 12:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
farem: That's true.But the trending problem nowadays now is sex outside marriage (adultery) which is part of no go area in Gods 10 commandments.Many youths marry as a solution to fornication only to find themselves in the bondage of adultery, both men and women. I think we should always preach against all sexual impurities and not just one.For all of them are d same. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Titogbanski: 12:44pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
No man leaves anything good and memorable, whether it was a first date. Most men will leave you when they eventually sleep with you if you proved too hard, hoarded the "thing too long" and made them spend so much to have it. Or if they remain with you they will be very hard on you since they have now crossed the thing you have been hoarding and making them suffer for. If you must hoard or delay love-making do it decently on principles (i.e saying you don't want it before marriage). Do not make him spend money or undergo torture of denial. Do not be in the same bed with him for the night and deny him it. You rather not be in the same bed in the first place. Someone I know, the girl would get him to agree for a holiday travel to some resort and stay there with him for three wonderful days but deny the guy for the entire time. The guy was so frustrated and sad al of such period. When he eventually sailed in very much later he started getting his pound of flesh unwittingly |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by benqo01(m): 12:46pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz: What you wrote there to me doesn't really matter,first date or not doesn't mean he shouldn't leave you...Na Just by God grace |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Akalia(m): 12:46pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz:Babe lately your threads are about relationship fuss, seems you are on the crossroads of picking the right man. Follow your heart. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Redman44(m): 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Hmn. It pays to keep your body sanctified till your wedding day. They will call you mumu, but you have done the right thing. Cheers.
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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Morphinne: 12:49pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz:My dear, if you like wait till eternity before you open your legs for him, he will be utterly disappointed if he eventually gets there only to discover that it’s been destroyed beyond repair. We’re not bodyshaming anyone but some of you are just log of woods in bed while some are wider than Congo and Amazon rivers combined yet you want a man to just stay with you regardless of these flaws. You ladies have specs and so do men. Never think sex is enough to glue a man to you forever and if you must, then make sure you’re what he wants and not stress him over some overused kpomo. My sister, in all you do, just be sweet (have an excellent sex life, sweet feminine personality, well behaved, intelligent, be social) If you must stress a man, better be worth it. Believe me, no man leaves a sweet woman to chase after fallen Olympuses and devil’s sinkholes and even if he mistakenly does, he’ll always find his way back home into your arms like the lost prodigal son . 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by zeuss: 12:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Sweetplum: Rubbish...........she is eating his money and taking his attention, here you are encouraging her ro keep him aloof.....is she the only woman in world? Are you a thief? If you want nothing to do with a man keep away from him. Thief. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by zakkxx: 12:50pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Buhari4sale:My Sister I am a man, even after 39 dates don’t give in, if he is serious he will wife you! A man can pretend to even engage you, he knows some women will foolishly allow them to browse after engagement then he will dump you! If the man like u let marry u first before you give in! From your experience those men you give them after many dates are u now married! Purity is still the best!! |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by GODPUNISHALABI: 12:52pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz:are you the one on ur profile? |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Jeweltz(f): 12:53pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
GODPUNISHALABI: Yes. Any problem? |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Rechargeam247(f): 12:54pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Avoid giving sex at all unless you are married. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by SugarGirl44(f): 12:54pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
VeryWickedSimp: Haba. How can you call a whole human trash? When you people would have watched too much porn, then you expect a regular girl to be like those plastic white girls y’all watch. Well sha, God will judge you people for us. 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by SugarGirl44(f): 12:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Rechargeam247: E be like man never worry you before. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by cmikel: 12:55pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz: IF YOU LIKE HOARD YOUR SEX , THE ONLY OPTION IS THAT HE WILL TAKE IT UP WITH OTHER LADIES WITHOUT YOU KNOWING AND ANY DAY YOU DECIDE TO GIVE IT, HE WILL DUMP YOUR A**SS IF HE FEELS YOUR ATTITUDE DOES NOT COMNSERATE FOR A BETTER FRIENSHIP. SO MY DEAR IF YOU LIKE HOARD IT FOR 10 YEARS NA YOUR LIFESTYLE WAY HIM SEE GO MAKE AM DECEIDE WEATHER TO STAY OR JAPA NOT YOUR SEX, SEX IS SEX EVERY WERE U KNOW THE SOONER YOU MAKE HIM UNDERSTAND HOW YOUR SEX IS THE BETTER FOR YOU, BC THE DAY HE DOES IT AND DISCOVERS THAT YOUR SEX IS NOT WORTH IT , NOTHIN CAN MAKE HIM STAY. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by MrNipplesLover(m): 12:56pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
flokii:Wallahi, the same point I saw in that mumu guy's case be this... Very irritating... |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by wiringdpt(m): 12:56pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
If 99% percent of naija men cheat, how come we have the highest paternity fraud in the world? Don't generalise because you met some bad ones Jeweltz: |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
zeuss:It's better you are robbed and beaten to stupor than for you to find love. See his hard face!
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Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by GODPUNISHALABI: 12:56pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz:Lol I don't believe share ur ig handle let me verify |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Rechargeam247(f): 12:57pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
SugarGirl44:Still avoid giving sex, you lose nothing aside time and other minor things if the relationship doesn't work out. 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by Pinkyposh(f): 12:57pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
My dear no time to waste time, if anyone gives me zero energy after sex, I'll return the energy too. I am never too emotionally attached to anyone. 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by knowhowk: 1:01pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Never ask for money from a Man On first date. Never Give a Woman Money or Gifts on First date. Sex is Enjoyed by both man and Woman ,They see each others nude. Why does ladies feel that they are doing a man Favour when they allow a man to have sex with them. Why do they attach so much guilt to this. Na waooo.. |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by ufotunang: 1:01pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Even if the guy does not feel like having sex with her ....it's the girl that will dress half naked seduce the guy to have sex with her...many girls nowadays cannot control their sexual urge...they make themselves so cheap towards the guy |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by flexxyworld(m): 1:03pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Autobot05: This is so much wisdom in a short note, Thanks for sharing 1 Like |
Re: Sisters; Never Give A Man Sex On First Date Or He'll Leave You. My Experience by hotwax: 1:03pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Jeweltz: You can deny him sex for 50years, the day you decide to give him, he will still dump if he wants. I had sex with my ex on the first day. Our relationship lasted 3years. |
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