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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ToniBlaize: 3:30pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
ibkayee: Sorry bro.. i will have to disagree.. it has everything to do with her.. Austin French said in his song" picture this.. a little coming home from school.. worried sick cause he doesn't what kinda mood his dad will be in... He further said... THE KINDA HOME YOU FROM CAN DO A NUMBER ON YOU..."MUM AND DAD BROKE UP AND I GUESS "I" BROKE TOO.. I GREW UP THINKING NOTHING GOOD CAN COME FROM A CHILD LIKE ME".... FaMily plays a lot of role in our lives growing up..in every possible way.. i was brought up by a strict mum.. who never wanted me to do things on my own.. she made many life and future determining decisions on my behalf right from small.. it made be rebellious before i even enter Secondary school.. Seeking freedom even before i finished.... to some it can make them seek validation at every interval.. don't say that... That track record of 6 children with 5men.. might be a curse of sort.. might also be something she might not be able to shake off given the psychological, emotional and mental impact.. only few people happen to break such circles.. but if i was to give a candid take.. don't settle for such a lady.. most women with stable home who stick with their husbands through the thick and thins of life.. watched their mom do it with their dad... They learnt love right from the home from small.. Girls from this kinda family background don't know how to love probably/completely.. they best know hoe to survive...they lived through hardship most of their lives so what they best know is hustling the available and surviving through every case scenerio... people who end up settling with them are just means to an end... You are only in luck.. if she breaks away from her mother.. but if she's into her.. sorry bruh... Aside bad role modeling.. bad advise bad leadership.. you will battle btw her and her mum at some point.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by phemmyfour: 3:31pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE:generational curses here n there....you don't want to get your destiny contaminated 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by livinbygrace: 3:35pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Mr man run for your life or else you will regret it.I have learnt my own lesson in a very bitter way... 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 3:39pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Block her for no reason and MOVE ON. You still have a chance now. BISHOPCHARLIE: 1 Share
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Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by naijapikin2(m): 3:41pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
It takes God to patch up this family. It all boils down to her. If her character right now is ok, then you're good to go |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by galantjoe(m): 3:42pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
If you know she is committed to the relationship; go ahead to marry her. But keep all get family bad history away from your family. Most of people from background are often good, by the way they re not makers of their problem 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ivandragon: 3:44pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Hmm |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by livinbygrace: 3:46pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
zachanalysis: You must be an infant for typing this nonsense.I am 44 years and was in the same shoe the op b4 i got married,i was warned severally but ignored all in the name of love,today i wish i had listened .. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by gaby(m): 3:53pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: Yes, you are right. I was 25, was on the silly fast lane so was making tons of money, throw in the inexperience and naivety to the mix and you'd get a clearer picture. In all, it was my fault and I've always taken responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by arantess: 3:55pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:You women are incapable of loving unconditionally, save a mother. Take away all the attributes you see in your husband/ boyfriend currently, do you still love him? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Keblast: 3:56pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE: BROS what you hiding? or you still don't know? I have heard exactly same kind of stories from Mostly girls who are into prostitution and they normally end it off with no member or relatives was willing to help. Don't let any woman destroy your future because if you take her serious in less than a year she will get pregnant for you. Always take note of girls that will frequently ask you baby do you love me. They always have skeletons in cupboards and looking for who to unleash it. The mother had kids for multiple men and definitely one of her kids must fellow her foot steps,. I don't know why but 90% of the time it happens even if the current generation escapes it the next generation won't. Take edo state for Example 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:05pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
gaby: You are right. Experience is the best teacher! |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by gaby(m): 4:06pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
MyVILLAGEpeople: That is why I am now a qualified teacher on the topic....lol |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by udemzyudex(m): 4:12pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Rayban25: Chai... The world is never fair. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by deavicky(m): 4:20pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE:Dec 15 2021 you need advice about ur girlfriend Nov 29 2022 you need advice about your girlfriend Today again another advice about ur girlfriend. Is relationship your only problem. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:33pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
gaby: Lol I can see that bro. It's same thing with me. Never married tho, but at least I don see aboki pepper for these bitchess dem hand. Lol |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by chronique(m): 4:38pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE: Abort mission. Too much issues to make the heart perpetually worried. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Cutehector(m): 4:43pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
My mantra is, if the tables were turned, would she do the same? Would she marry you if you had such a past? These days if you cannot do what you want me to do for you, then there is no deal being with you. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by JohnOkolo: 4:47pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE: Red flag Red flag RED flag for sure. Except she is of impeccable character, she might surpass her Mom |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by latolz: 4:48pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Give her a promising future or sharaap and exit the relationship. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by purejustice36: 4:52pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Any babe wey no get anything to add for your life except kuntus na red flag � 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by faceland: 4:54pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
They are careless in that family. You can bet 'the apple doesn't fall far away from the tree'. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by felzokugo(m): 4:56pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
BISHOPCHARLIE: Run o! |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Allisgud: 4:58pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
She told u all this |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ashawopikin(m): 5:03pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
U still dey ask? |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by ashawopikin(m): 5:05pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
purejustice36:true |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by SunMusk(m): 5:11pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Her younger sister married 10 yrs ago... Oboi. Is this story true |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Oladelepedro: 5:18pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Bro pls don't dare marry here cos the curse on her mom will definitely affect her. I'm talking from experience. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by olakan22: 5:22pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by Flesh10: 5:25pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Stay away from that family. Aside you, your kids shouldn't have such people as aunties and uncles to them. The family is messed up and believe me you will be dragged into that mess soon 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by JustcallmeFavou(f): 5:28pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
All those saying leave her, run, bleep her, and leave her ..hmmm, may you not be mocked or used when you are in a desperate situation or dare need in life. What I see here is the case of a spiritual spouse in play. If you don't want to have a relationship with her. Help her break free from it by, encouraging, and helping her go for strong deliverance. Who knows, she might be the star of that family. And God wants to use you to set her free. Every family no matter how good they look on the outside have one issues or another troubling the family. Some family issues are more deeper than the others because, one doesn't know what ones ancestors did prior to this modern day, or the circumstances surrounding ones pregnancy or birth. Some might not believe it, but spiritual spouses exist and operates or affects their victims in different degrees. Her mother having 5children from 6 different men, and still ended up single, only shows there's a spirit being she's married to maybe unknowingly who didn't make her enjoy her first/second marriage. Hence her moving around, and still ending up single. The spirit being simply wants her ALONE to itself. Help her break free from the circle OP! And she will forever be grateful to you! All the best, and God help you and the lady in question. |
Re: My Girlfriend Has A Shadowy Past by AngelicBeing: 5:34pm On Jan 15, 2023 |
Faulty Foundational Family battle / Tree |
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