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She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Dailyparrot: 9:57am On Jan 25, 2023
I have to create this thread after reading through the topic on front page asking for jobs/professions that will make you not to marry someone.

So, I'm talking to this Unizik student that's studying medical radiography. Everything was going well. She even told me that she has told her mother about me and all. We met on Facebook and she's already asking to see me in person.

Until the day she found out that I use my car for Uber/Bolt business, everything changed. This girl stopped talking to me.

She has never been to Lagos and does not know how Uber works. She was asking how much I earn in a day, and that hope the Uber is not like their normal school cab that charge 100 naira per person, bla bla bla.

Well, I just don't want to let her know my net worth. I don't do Uber full time. I work on Fiverr and because sales dropped there, I decided to use Uber to make up for the income. I also do academic research for foreign students. Etc. I am into a lot of stuffs that fetch me nothing less than 400k a month so I don't think I should be regarded poor.

My house in the East is at roofing level. I am almost completing the payment of 4.5 million for a land I'm purchasing at Mowe, I own my car plus another Sienna I bought when Fiverr was booming.

I have a masters degree. So, should a girl reject me because I use my car to drive on Uber?

I am just laughing at her ignorance. The other time, we were talking and I jokingly asked her why she's putting on make up, and she was like, so she can find better suitors.

I thence assume I am not a better suitor because to her, I'm poor. This is someone earning 8k per month in the school that she was teaching during ASUU strike.

I wonder why women are impatient when it comes to taking decisions and that's why most of them regret later.

I am supposing being a medical student makes this girl think she deserves someone better than just a cab driver.

LOL.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by marlow1962(m): 10:04am On Jan 25, 2023
My bro drive ur Uber, save ur money and better you life.
She stop talking to you because you do Uber, na once u rush come create threat, I swear na una dy FVK UP big time. Getting stressed out for sometin not worth it, wow which kind energy una get self?

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Jennyclay(f): 10:05am On Jan 25, 2023
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging undecided.

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship undecided? Haba!

God Abeg o!

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by ITbomb(m): 10:05am On Jan 25, 2023
When God so much love you to open your eyes and see what you wanted to call Your World, you are here complaining

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Nobody: 10:11am On Jan 25, 2023
A lady told her mother about you before knowing what you do for a living? Very unrealistic !

The problem with most guys is you all believe your income is and can only be the reason women stop talking to you.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by dayleke: 10:15am On Jan 25, 2023
Wahala wahala !!!!

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:15am On Jan 25, 2023
Lol

By default alot of gals have this entitlement mentality passed on from their parents. Yes, mine inclusive.

When a gal is growing up they teach her to marry a rich man in money. But they forget, tht rich can become poor. Any gal that is overly entitled or sees money as a reason to talk to you. Bet me she is few inches away from hookup and private prostitution.

That is why as a man you need to have a mindset that a gal that needs your money to converse with you is a slut in the womb stage. Sooner it will born.

I always say this everybody cannot be rich. But then I see many women as husband to poor men. Some became old in search of a dangote.

Funny enough, people who earn less than 30k are the most entitled. Let them be. They will reach 35 years in due time.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Phenomena1: 10:18am On Jan 25, 2023
OP, instead you should be happy.


All those medical student thinks the world revolve around their profession. Normal thing. It happens everywhere.


If you not a lawyer, doctor, pharmacist, politician, engineer(oil, telco companies) banker e.t.c they won't take you serious.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 25, 2023
Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging undecided.

You cannot deceive us with all these millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship undecided? Haba!

God Abeg o!
Zzor wannabe weldone. She did a better job because she was original while you is nothing but just a copy cat. Pray they don’t use you for rituals at the of the day. Nansense

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by vincenteger: 10:25am On Jan 25, 2023
Miracle no Dy tire Jesus.
You should be happy that she's avoiding you.
It's still you that will still get debit alert.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Dailyparrot: 10:25am On Jan 25, 2023
Persephone1:
A lady told her mother about you before knowing what you do for a living? Very unrealistic !

The problem with most guys is you all believe your income is and can only be the reason women stop talking to you.

I told her that I am a tech person which is true. But when I'm not working on my computer, I use my time to drive on Uber.

I normally tell her that I'm going to work but she didn't know the type of work that is.

I never wanted to take her serious until she started giving attitude that women are known for and my friends starting telling me how important her course of study is. I doubt I care much about that because I'm not looking for a woman to come and feed me. I can take care of myself comfortable.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Jennyclay(f): 10:32am On Jan 25, 2023
peepydelano:
Zzor wannabe weldone. She did a better job because she was original while you is nothing but just a copy cat. Pray they don’t use you for rituals at the of the day. Nansense
I also pray they don't use your sisters for rituals at the end of the day. Rubbish!

Money, you don't have
Car, you don't have
Job, you don't have
House, you don't have

You have absolutely nothing, you better go back to your village and go and settle down there!

Mr Nobody! Shame!

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Jesus5656(m): 10:32am On Jan 25, 2023
[quote author=Dailyparrot post=120357936]I have to create this thread after reading through the topic on front page asking for jobs/professions that will make you not to marry someone.

So, I'm talking to this Unizik student that's studying medical radiography. Everything was going well. She even told me that she has told her mother about me and all. We met on Facebook and she's already asking to see me in person.

Until the day she found out that I use my car for Uber/Bolt business, everything changed. This girl stopped talking to me.

She has never been to Lagos and does not know how Uber works. She was asking how much I earn i




Hello..Just go and thank God for delivering you from her hand..
I"m interested in the ressearch u do for foreign students ..Wasap or call me 08034403341..Or u can help me with urs??

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Dailyparrot: 10:32am On Jan 25, 2023
Phenomena1:
OP, instead you should be happy.


All those medical student thinks the world revolve around their profession. Normal thing. It happens everywhere.


If you not a lawyer, doctor, pharmacist, politician, engineer(oil, telco companies) banker e.t.c they won't take you serious.

Reality will dawn on them on graduation. I have a sister that's a nurse working in a federal hospital. Trust me when I say that she's among the poorest in our family.

A roommate of mine when I was in year 1 took jamb and moved from Agricultural Economics to Pharmacy. To him then, he has hit a jackpot.

I graduated 2016 and finished my service 2018. Have been working since that time and have really done well for myself considering how short I've been in the labour market.

This my roommate just graduated and awaiting service. He's currently 32 years old and earning less than 90k a month where he's doing internship. The truth is, it will take him 3 to 5 years more to get to the level that I am currently.

Getting married is not an option for him at this time. In fact, his only hope of making it right now is to leave Nigeria. Of course, this has become the new normal. People finding escape route once it seems nothing is working for them here.

So, I've seen enough medical professionals around to tell that it does not guarantee more than just an average lifestyle.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by StrongAlphMale: 10:33am On Jan 25, 2023
How a sane man manages to date a Nigerian girl is still a mystery to me till today.

You should go to church and do Thanksgiving to God for saving you from an impending liability and a parasite. When we say you don't date Nigeria girls, you only bang their pussy, dump them and move on, some of you will think we're Joking

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Dailyparrot: 10:35am On Jan 25, 2023
[quote author=Jesus5656 post=120358757][/quote]

I will do that. But, do you need help with your research work or you want to learn how to do the research.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Isabi4lov: 10:38am On Jan 25, 2023
God don save you wetin you want again undecided

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Dailyparrot: 10:41am On Jan 25, 2023
Yugoslavia247:
Lol

By default alot of gals have this entitlement mentality passed on from their parents. Yes, mine inclusive.

When a gal is growing up they teach her to marry a rich man in money. But they forget, tht rich can become poor. Any gal that is overly entitled or sees money as a reason to talk to you. Bet me she is few inches away from hookup and private prostitution.

That is why as a man you need to have a mindset that a gal that needs your money to converse with you is a slut in the womb stage. Sooner it will born.

I always say this everybody cannot be rich. But then I see many women as husband to poor men. Some became old in search of a dangote.

Funny enough, people who earn less than 30k are the most entitled. Let them be. They will reach 35 years in due time.





I don't blame any lady for ensuring that any man she wants to be with can take care of her. That's as important as any other thing in a relationship.

But not getting to know someone and judging from afar at the first instance seems dumb to me.

I believe wealth can be built and two people can work together to create wealth.

I may not be super rich but I'm certain that I can raise 3-5 million to set up a business for my wife.

I am the last born of my family and most of my other siblings are doing quite well too.

I have a lot of tech skills, have education up to MSc level. What other potential does a girl need except that the girl is naive and ignorant.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Sonnobax15(m): 10:57am On Jan 25, 2023
Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging undecided.

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship undecided? Haba!

God Abeg o!
. Werey undecided. No worry,this your mentality go soon plunge you into wrestlemania match with meno-stop undecided.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Michelle55: 11:04am On Jan 25, 2023
Wahala pro max! This year, I don talk say na to read and smile I go dey do. I'm intentional this year tongue
Relationship/marriage matter/advice no be for me.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Ruttie: 11:10am On Jan 25, 2023
Michelle55:
Wahala pro max! This year, I don talk say na to read and smile I go dey do. I'm intentional this year tongue
Relationship/marriage matter/advice no be for me.
same here

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Ruttie: 11:14am On Jan 25, 2023
Me i want a car for e_hailing ohhhhhhhhh
Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Jeon(f): 11:17am On Jan 25, 2023
Maybe because of the picture.
Maybe she don't want to be the builder.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by SyrusdeHansome(m): 11:28am On Jan 25, 2023
peepydelano:
Zzor wannabe weldone. She did a better job because she was original while you is nothing but just a copy cat. Pray they don’t use you for rituals at the of the day. Nansense
Learn to read this girl's shit nd pass. If u knw the kinda joy she derives in seeing guys quote her after dropping her usual nonsense u will learn to ignore her. Ur quotes make her feel important nd relevant. She nd some of her likes court attention by reacting negatively to pple's posts nd it's one of the 48 laws of power. Don't make them relevant, just learn to ignore.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by IamtheTruth1(m): 11:29am On Jan 25, 2023
Dailyparrot:
I have to create this thread after reading through the topic on front page asking for jobs/professions that will make you not to marry someone.

So, I'm talking to this Unizik student that's studying medical radiography. Everything was going well. She even told me that she has told her mother about me and all. We met on Facebook and she's already asking to see me in person.

Until the day she found out that I use my car for Uber/Bolt business, everything changed. This girl stopped talking to me.

She has never been to Lagos and does not know how Uber works. She was asking how much I earn in a day, and that hope the Uber is not like their normal school cab that charge 100 naira per person, bla bla bla.

Well, I just don't want to let her know my net worth. I don't do Uber full time. I work on Fiverr and because sales dropped there, I decided to use Uber to make up for the income. I also do academic research for foreign students. Etc. I am into a lot of stuffs that fetch me nothing less than 400k a month so I don't think I should be regarded poor.

My house in the East is at roofing level. I am almost completing the payment of 4.5 million for a land I'm purchasing at Mowe, I own my car plus another Sienna I bought when Fiverr was booming.

I have a masters degree. So, should a girl reject me because I use my car to drive on Uber?

I am just laughing at her ignorance. The other time, we were talking and I jokingly asked her why she's putting on make up, and she was like, so she can find better suitors.

I thence assume I am not a better suitor because to her, I'm poor. This is someone earning 8k per month in the school that she was teaching during ASUU strike.

I wonder why women are impatient when it comes to taking decisions and that's why most of them regret later.

I am supposing being a medical student makes this girl think she deserves someone better than just a cab driver.

LOL.


Lol! This one really pain you.

My guy na woman stop to talk to you not God. You don't need to disclose you networth to a woman for her to validate you. Man who use money to get ladies always run into marriage issues once that money stop comings.

You have all these and you need a lady schooling to validate you?

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by clevybrown(m): 11:35am On Jan 25, 2023
Jennyclay:
Uber kwa? Biko, don't put someone's daughter in poverty. I will also leave you in the relationship if I found out that you're Uber driver. How much are you even making a day that you're bragging undecided.

You cannot deceive us with all these audio millions you're quoting up there, you better go and work hard. Is it Love she will eat in the relationship undecided? Haba!

God Abeg o!
I can see u really enjoy the attentions u get each time u post nonsense like this...

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Gadafii: 11:41am On Jan 25, 2023
This is why guys Bleep and dump girls

If I be you op, I will explain how you make that 400k monthly, don’t tell her other stuff you own and are doing, meet her in person, Bleep her like a beeexh, put her back inside bus to go back to where ever she crawled from and block her

She’s stupid, she wants to meet a yahoo boy that will buy her iPhone and frontal wigs, while she does nothing, meanwhile this yahoo boys don’t regard them or have future plans for them


Many of them plenty here for naira land, they call men broke but they can’t even afford 2k data subscriptions

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Ballzproblem2: 11:44am On Jan 25, 2023
That's Nigeria girls for you, just dress nice lie you are working in one big company, you will have many at your bedside till you tire , easily deceived by what dey see ,but hey? don't hate the player,hate the game

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Yugoslavia247(m): 12:25pm On Jan 25, 2023
Dailyparrot:


I don't blame any lady for ensuring that any man she wants to be with can take care of her. That's as important as any other thing in a relationship.

But not getting to know someone and judging from afar at the first instance seems dumb to me.

I believe wealth can be built and two people can work together to create wealth.

I may not be super rich but I'm certain that I can raise 3-5 million to set up a business for my wife.

I am the last born of my family and most of my other siblings are doing quite well too.

I have a lot of tech skills, have education up to MSc level. What other potential does a girl need except that the girl is naive and ignorant.

What a wonderful calculation. You see where you got it all wrong is what will hit you like a hypersonic missile.

Unforseen circumstances.
You could lose your wealth.
You could become ill
Natural disasters
War
What happens then

Will she run from you. What if your money does not do all.

Bruv or fam think deep

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by Karlifate: 12:30pm On Jan 25, 2023
Let her go.

Face your life.

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Re: She Stopped Talking To Me After She Found Out That I Drive On Uber by kepstone: 12:41pm On Jan 25, 2023
Pls appreciate God for him revealing a lady who is not interested in your future but in her selfishness... You can't have a future with her u go regret am.
Some ladies think, their beauty, their body (front and back) shape and profession equates to getting high value men ... I have lots of ladies in late 30s crying on daily basis for husband.... I don't pity them....
My ex woke up and told me she is not interested in the relationship again after so much work I have done even involving both family... I felt bad but I had to move on ...
I am not doing bad for myself oooo... Just that I am living my life on low key ...
After she left I felt pained but in the midst of it all God opened a multimillionaire door for me dt is a gold mine in Nigeria.
I blocked my ex everywhere for life... She go hear our story...
Working on becoming better and facing purpose... Forget Nigerian girl... Lot if them are shallow in their thinking

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