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Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Dshocker(m): 11:18am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Flows001: As far as she is after one now, her options are limited. Let her face the consequences of her action. If she quit the marriage, life will be miserable for her and the child. |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Trizyd(m): 11:23am On Jun 20, 2023 |
Her loss. |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Jozilinn: 11:24am On Jun 20, 2023 |
She should leave trust me when I say the man isn't worth it,how can you leave your kids and then don't care for them no.matter anything his kids comes first,I think the guy is a womanizer and doesn't deserve a second chance,I just pity the innocent kids involved... she should leave b4 another pregnancy or she would also experience the same results...my goodness please moderators should push this to frontpage please,so disheartening π±π±π±π± 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Flows001(m): 11:56am On Jun 20, 2023 |
MechanicMike:Yes she is lightskinned. Why did you ask though? π€ |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Westerhoffe(m): 12:04pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by okerekingsley90: 12:49pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Flows001: |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by dopedealer(m): 12:57pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
My advice is for her to stay and accommodate the other children. Your sister is still very young and just starting life so she needs a man seriously, right now. The unborn baby needs his dad more than ever. It is not a good time to be a single mother at this age. Take my advise and she would never regret ! 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by 1111O: 1:16pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Hardluck |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by jmoore(m): 1:17pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Stop having premarital sex, una no dey hear. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by OgideAgu: 1:17pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
There's no big deal here...you're lucky the man didn't run away |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Nobody: 1:19pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Can men treat other children as theirs? |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by forerunner022(m): 1:23pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Truth is, if your sister continues with that guy on that faulty foundation that is cemented with the lies and deceit, she should expect to see more of such shockers from the guy, because it is obvious the guy is dishonest and cannot be trusted. And yet, if she walks away as a single mom , it will have telling consequences for her in the future except the Lord sees her through. In all, and whatever the option, it is like chosing between the devil and the deep blue sea. The choice is left to her. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Fiscus105(m): 1:25pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Flows001: Where is dilemma? I even tot the husband still married to his first baby mama, she should even been happy that the guy wants to formalize the Marriage. Tell ur sister to continuing the preparation and be praying towards successfully Marriage biko. I think it's even good that everything revealed before marriage proper. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by mrblessed(m): 1:27pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
In this case, option number 2 presented by you should be explored. Not forgeting to clearly state that the guy is a real piece of work 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by AKWATGOLD1(m): 1:27pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Trouble dey sleep and your sister go wake am up. The man in question open-up and your sister is still contemplate on the marriage. She should continue with marriage rites because the man has not failing in his responsibilities. Flows001: |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by WhereMyLoud: 1:27pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Collins4u1:Very good answer Aswear 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by WhereMyLoud: 1:28pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Flows001:Please what is the delima here? |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Zonefree:at east have some decency. How do you think children will coexist with a woman that caused their father to abandon that mum and them? If you are a child,and your dad walk out of you and your mother to go be with another woman,how happy will you be living with that same woman? I love children,and if I have the means to take care of any,I will,even if their parents are wicked-because kids are innocent. But the acrimony in the hearts of the children in op case will be too much to bear. Comparing it to men marrying and accommodating single moms,let me state: 1) I know of cases of single mum of one of which but not multiple children 2) most cases the father is out of the picture completely but in this case the previous family is still calling. No man will be stay with such woman if they are man is still trying to win his way back to her life. 3) considering the deceit involved,if roles were switched and a man realizes his wife to be has two kids and is married,will he stay or leave? If it were a male that posted the story above,will you encourage him to stay? 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobicove: If it's a man that is in such dilemma will this be your advice? |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by UYEMDO35(m): 1:35pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
To beat that man naim dey hungry me right now... If I was you I go beat shege comot for im body. |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by budaatum: 1:35pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
pansophist: Deserving of an award!
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Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by advanceDNA: 1:36pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
slimjohn2k5: U will not die young jarè....... |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by OdefaGirl(f): 1:36pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
If she loves the guy and he agrees not to keep sensitive things from her again....she should go ahead and accommodate the kids. Let her know the main reason the first marriage didn't work out before he repeats that with her. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Proserpina: 1:37pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by gloryhomemaker(f): 1:38pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
A complicated situation, she should take out time to think and come up with what she really wants. She might regret other people advise later if it's not favourable and hold resentment against them. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by judedwriter(m): 1:39pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
If there is one lesson any intending couple should learn: Never marry out of pity, sentiments, coercion or pressure! No matter the circumstances. E get why. |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by samwash(m): 1:39pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
You pple are always talking of Baby Mama & Baby Daddy. If I may ask, do you think there still single babes & guys out there ? This is what you get when the society is filled with Baby Mama's & Baby Papa's. I nor kwn weda to tell the girl to stay or to leave the choice is hers. Well if she leaves,then a new Baby Mama is in town. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Flows001(m): 1:40pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by na2016: 1:41pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
She should stop reproducing and just move on. That man will not bring anything meaningful. He may abandon her in future to go to another place to do same. If he was genuine, he should have told your sister before all these about his former home. Tell your sister to move on, improve herself and start over ooo. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by Flows001(m): 1:42pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
gloryhomemaker:True. Thank you very much π 1 Like |
Re: Please Advice!! My Elder Sister Is In A Dilemma Right Now by simplesearch: 1:42pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
If he was properly married to the first wife, then there is no relationship between them in the first place but adultery expanded and extended. Adultery expanded engaging in premarital sex leading to pregnancy. Adultery extended marrying a man previously married. In any case, no Marital union exist between them before God, wether or not they legalize the union. Her best option is to quit the union. repent from her sins, bear the shame that comes along with such lifestyle and keep herself till God decides to bless her with a worthy and truthful husband. Luke 16:18 (KJV) Whosoever putteth away his wife, and marrieth another, committeth adultery: and whosoever marrieth her that is put away from her husband committeth adultery.(vice versa)..MDF! |
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