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Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by MadeMan01(m): 1:39pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:At 29, a woman is past her prime. Your degree is of no use to a man because he cannot depend on you to sustain his home. Also, your female hypergamy nature will not let you consider men below your status after acquiring more degrees and maybe better job . The problem will now be, the few men who meet your spec when they are ready for marriage will want younger fresher girls with less damage and mileage in their best years on mid 20s. I'm shocked you are asking this. Feminism has really misled women. Women of old used to plan for marriage from late teens to early 20s to marry by 23, -25. Now a 29, almost 30 year old has not decided. 7 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by 12345baba(m): 1:39pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Go school o. Once u marry get belle u no go get time for ur life again. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by dmahn(m): 1:39pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: It depends on priority. As for me marriage doesn't stop education. We need to stop planning our marital life based on sch wateva.. Marriage is as important as schooling and none of them is guaranteed for success. She has ND which is good, she can get a personal business for herself while running the HND part time. Why must she depend on the husbands promise. Well I don't blame ladies that thinks marriage isn't the next thing at 29-30. You guys are all enjoying what is meant to be enjoyed in marriage so you don't care Had it been we are in a society that doesn't allow pre-marital sex, all of una go no say body no be firewood and you ll get married in time. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by ThatCEO: 1:39pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: high risk pregnancy will have set-in by d time she finishes at 34/35. Menopause sef could have set in. Find out about the guy very well. Guy wey fit open mouth say him go take responsibility try o. If una drag una feet n stress d guy too much, e fit be one 23 year old wey no get family problem him go Kuku go carry. See now o, girl wey don 30, no education, no job, guy still say e go marry am. But if she was the one that was doing well, any guy that is not doing twice better than her won't even stand any chance. 6 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by KarinaSlim(f): 1:39pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Let your own Relative train you o. Let your own Relative train you o. Let your own Relative train you o. This is to avoid the "I Trained You" story in future after marriage. Or the usual, "I Trained Her In Nursing School And She bla bla bla". I've said my own. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Basicend: 1:41pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Foodqueen: Marriage now adays is rubbish TBH. Except if God is there. . And few allow him there. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Culbdome: 1:41pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Money |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by luckyz4rea(m): 1:43pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Adewale1603: You are right but in this context, marriage and school is the contention but apparently, he or she wants to be educated. Let me use myself as a case study. If had done animal husbandry prior to going to school as I wanted to do, I would not have been this better informed about which aspect of husbandry to practice. Education opens not just doors of opportunities but doors of enlightenment. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by livinbygrace: 1:43pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
madridguy: Which nonsense school at 30?Abeg make she marry the man and start going to school. 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:44pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Don't count on a man training you after marriage. Even if he will, you'll have dropped one or two kids for him and might even be carrying them to lectures which may schools in Nigeria frown at or leave them with someone. If you were male, I will say go for education but since you are female, your biological clock is ticking. Learn a skill and marry but know that you will be more of a housewife cos he might end up not training you. I don't know your priorities though. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: Very stressful. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by livinbygrace: 1:46pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
madridguy: Na so school easy these.How many people dey go school get job? Make she go school at 29 graduate at 34 and if she is lucky she will come back to the street and starts hairdresser,,fashion designer..Abeg make she go marry jo and do part time. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Fkj2021: 1:47pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: You can get married and at the same time go to school. If marriage stress will be the problem, go to NOUN where you can attend to your family issues and same time take your time to learn. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:48pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Nazgul: Don't make promises you can't keep. Pregnancy comes with challenges and you might enter labour on examination date. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by sweetman2022: 1:48pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Going to school doesn't guarantee you success or jobs. At 29 you should be resourceful and intelligent to a point even without education except you have wasted those years behind you. If you have find a resourceful and good man, better marry and have a plan to further your school with part time studies. You can improve on your Tailoring services and use it to make money while your husband support you during your PT studies. Believe me at 29, I will never advise you to drop marriage and go for one certain school in this country that no guarantee of a good job when you graduate. You can also try the method @Nazgul...gave you. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Olam09(m): 1:49pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:Business |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Raymeg7(m): 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Please I want to know as from 18 years u should have finish secondary school, where is this ur relative all this while from 18 years to 29 --30 years, now u have the opportunity to get married and also school with the help of ur husband and ur own self hustle, Well I don't think u need advice on this, ur relative did not remember that' u will go to school after 11 good years, make ur choice ma 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: Serious ke? What if you find someone else while he's waiting for you. Are you prepared to swear with ogwugwu that you wont cheat on him and that anytime you do, let amadioha comot your skull. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by iwaeda: 1:50pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:Gain admission first and after 1st semester year two, marry him, but you can not do NYSC again oooo. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by sweetman2022: 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
zedegit:It is a goal she will set for herself and work towards because of what is attached to it. You don't need to read morning, afternoon and night to get that grade he suggested. You just need to be determined and focus. So it is achievable. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by livinbygrace: 1:51pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Babe 29yr old no be small age for man not to talk of a woman,if she go school now she will be graduating by 33/34,and by then she will be a regular customer in Shilloh. Its better she marry now,and further.. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by abobote: 1:53pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
madridguy:Don't follow this advise, except you want to remain single, when you graduate at 35, which husband is coming to marry the evening newspaper. That your uncle have to wait till you are 29 before sponsoring your school 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:54pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Justkatty: Are you a single mum? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by livinbygrace: 1:55pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
abobote: No mind them,na dat time dem go dey disturb themselves .How many of our girls wey dey go school dey use am work these days not to talk of a 34yr old WOman. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by GideonOluwatobi(m): 1:56pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
1. Add the estimate of the years its gonna take to complete the studies to your age 2. Expect people older than you to approach you. But one thing mostly with males in Africa they choose to go for a younger woman to marry. 3. Women at age >35 have a lower rate to marriage |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by tegey: 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
After he is finish training you will now leave him for another man, shey 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
We'll still be together while I'm busy furthering my education. zedegit: |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 1:57pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Education first, if you marry before Education, it might be impossible to accomplish because of responsibilities, marital and financial. 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by zedegit: 1:58pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
sweetman2022: Are you married? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by livinbygrace: 2:00pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
KarinaSlim: At 30?i hear you |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Menclothing: 2:01pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Life no hard work and pray |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by putmanj146: 2:01pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
ednut1: Service at 35 ke 😳 |
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